{"id":205487,"date":"2025-12-22T18:04:06","date_gmt":"2025-12-22T18:04:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/205487\/"},"modified":"2025-12-22T18:04:06","modified_gmt":"2025-12-22T18:04:06","slug":"rhys-bennett-manchester-united-defender-on-fathers-suicide","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/205487\/","title":{"rendered":"Rhys Bennett: Manchester United defender on father&#8217;s suicide"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Content warning: This article contains discussion around suicide and mental health.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Rhys Bennett comes bounding into the media room at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/sport\/football\/teams\/manchester-united\" class=\"ssrcss-k8mrr8-InlineLink e1kn3p7n0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Manchester United<\/a>&#8216;s Carrington training ground bristling with energy, as you would expect of a 22-year-old professional footballer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Tall and confident, lean and physically fit &#8211; apart from a knee injury he is trying to recover from so he can complete a loan move to a League One club next month &#8211; defender Bennett offers a firm handshake and talks of his developing skill as a DJ.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Captain of United&#8217;s last FA Youth Cup-winning team in 2022, Bennett has impressed during a loan stint at Fleetwood.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">But he is not talking about that today.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Bennett has serious issues to discuss, which stem from a heartbreaking message he posted on social media on 28 October.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;Broken, devastated, just don&#8217;t want to believe it&#8217;s real,&#8221; he said. &#8220;I love you in this life and the next.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">The message was to his father, David, who had taken his own life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Bennett wants to talk about the pain of those left behind, to encourage conversation and plead with those struggling with their mental health to choose a different path to the one his dad took.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">David, along with the rest of his family, gave his time to help Rhys and daughter Megan, who works in mental health care.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;He was very hard working,&#8221; says Bennett. &#8220;You grow up, especially as a son, and look up to your father. You want to be like him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;He gave me so much along the years, including my resilience and work ethic. The time him, my mum and family invested in me to fulfil my dream is something I&#8217;ll be forever grateful for. They were always there for me, no matter what.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;They don&#8217;t realise how much they&#8217;re appreciated, and how they affect people. You want to have millions more laughs and cries and whatever it might be. I appreciate everything he&#8217;s ever done for me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;As much as it&#8217;s a sad situation and the last chapter of his life wasn&#8217;t a good one, you&#8217;ve still got to celebrate his life and think about the good times.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;If I could have one more conversation with him it would be to say how grateful I am of him as a person, how much I love him and let him know how much I really appreciate him. You don&#8217;t know what you&#8217;ve got until it&#8217;s gone.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Bennett&#8217;s reason to talk to BBC Sport is clear. He wants to help. He realises it is quite possible he will never know if an interview has helped a specific individual, but that is not the point.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;I want to talk about the importance of telling people how you feel, how special it is to be living, to be breathing, to be able to eat, to sleep. You&#8217;ve got to be grateful for what you&#8217;ve got,&#8221; he says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;Someone might be feeling a certain way but hopefully this nudges people and they might just check up on a person and ask are they OK.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;Don&#8217;t question yourself &#8211; just do it. Let the people you&#8217;re close to know that you&#8217;re there for them.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Content warning: This article contains discussion around suicide and mental health. 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