{"id":3494,"date":"2025-09-06T13:10:09","date_gmt":"2025-09-06T13:10:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/3494\/"},"modified":"2025-09-06T13:10:09","modified_gmt":"2025-09-06T13:10:09","slug":"davina-mccall-offers-rare-insight-to-the-early-days-of-romance-with-boyfriend-michael-douglas-as-she-describes-lightning-bolt-moment-after-sharing-her-views-on-sexless-marriages","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/3494\/","title":{"rendered":"Davina McCall offers rare insight to the early days of romance with boyfriend Michael Douglas as she describes &#8216;lightning bolt&#8217; moment &#8211; after sharing her views on &#8216;sexless marriages&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\"><a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/tvshowbiz\/davina-mccall\/index.html\" id=\"mol-9a3d6a70-8b0c-11f0-a91c-37cbf09c8bcf\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Davina McCall<\/a> has shared a rare insight to the beginning of her relationship with <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/tvshowbiz\/michael-douglas\/index.html\" id=\"mol-9a94d940-8b0c-11f0-a91c-37cbf09c8bcf\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Michael Douglas<\/a> after being friends for 20 years while married to other people.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The TV presenter, 57, split from her ex-husband Matthew Robertson in 2017 and began dating her hairdresser Michael, 51, two years later.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Davina and Michael had shared a close bond and classed themselves as &#8216;family friends&#8217;, with Michael bringing his children over to her house while he did her hair.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Despite knowing the ins and outs of each others&#8217; lives over the years as &#8216;hairdresser and client&#8217;, Davina described the &#8216;lightning bolt moment&#8217; she knew it was more.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">When asked if their relationship &#8216;evolved&#8217;, she told the <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" class=\"\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/tv-and-radio\/2025\/sep\/06\/davina-mccall-addiction-reality-tv-brain-tumour\">Guardian<\/a>: &#8216;It was more of a coup de foudre (a sudden unforeseen event). A lightning bolt. I probably don&#8217;t want to talk about this because I have to think about Matthew.\u00a0Michael and I were really good friends because we were hairdresser and client.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I told him all of my secrets, about how I was feeling, and he was a brilliant sounding board. He would share his experiences; I would share my experiences. We would help each other navigate things. And he was in love with his wife and I was in love with my husband, so it was us trying to help each other through our lives. That&#8217;s what&#8217;s so mad about it. And then coup de foudre. Mad. Like I&#8217;d put on a different pair of glasses.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-45f405d484174e29\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/101896937-15071961-image-a-17_1757155090371.jpg\" height=\"951\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Davina McCall has shared a rare insight to the beginning of her relationship with Michael Douglas (pictured) after being friends for 20 years while married to other people\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Davina McCall has shared a rare insight to the beginning of her relationship with Michael Douglas (pictured) after being friends for 20 years while married to other people<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-a669200f57742d7d\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/101896945-15071961-image-a-18_1757155104353.jpg\" height=\"953\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Davina and Michael had shared a close bond and classed themselves as 'family friends', with Michael bringing his children over to her house while he did her hair\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Davina and Michael had shared a close bond and classed themselves as &#8216;family friends&#8217;, with Michael bringing his children over to her house while he did her hair<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She says she had to make sure she was over Robertson before thinking about a new relationship. She added: &#8216;If I&#8217;m with somebody I&#8217;m with them. I don&#8217;t look at other people. I like being monogamous.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Since undergoing a life-altering brain operation last year, <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/tvshowbiz\/davina-mccall\/index.html\" id=\"mol-861c48a0-88a4-11f0-9d43-25e0a378a189\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Davina <\/a>has spoken openly about the toll it has taken on her relationship with Michael.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She recently hinted that she could still be happy with someone even if their marriage was without sexual intimacy, insisting there are other ways to be close to someone.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Michael was a firm figure of support for Davina while she recovered from surgery last year to remove a benign colloid cyst from her brain.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Asked to share her thoughts on whether a marriage can still work without sexual intimacy, Davina said: &#8216;I believe, having talked to lots of experts, that it can.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;As long as both people want a sexless relationship. The problem is, is if you want a sexless relationship and the other person doesn&#8217;t, then the other person is being asked to sacrifice something that they will miss and then potentially go and look for somewhere else. That won&#8217;t work in the end.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Davina went on to tell <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.goodhousekeeping.com\/uk\/lifestyle\/a65930483\/davina-mccall-sexless-marriage\/\">Good Housekeeping<\/a> that the key is ensuring that there is some form of intimacy still present, even if it isn&#8217;t sexual.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She added: &#8216;You can have beautiful intimacy together without the act of sex itself.<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-b44cc0161fc61546\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/101789963-15060695-image-a-3_1756892946189.jpg\" height=\"869\" width=\"634\" alt=\"The TV presenter, 57, split from her ex-husband Matthew Robertson in 2017 and began dating her hairdresser Michael, 51, two years later (pictured with Matthew in 2013)\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">The TV presenter, 57, split from her ex-husband Matthew Robertson in 2017 and began dating her hairdresser Michael, 51, two years later (pictured with Matthew in 2013)<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;You can hug naked and both know that it&#8217;s not going to lead to sex. I think sometimes people don&#8217;t want to be touched or hugged naked because they think, &#8221;Oh, then they&#8217;re going to want to have sex with me.&#8221; That&#8217;s when you&#8217;re not in the same place.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Following her brain surgery, Davina admitted that she and Michael have a policy of &#8216;radical honesty&#8217; between them, leading him to admit he&#8217;s grown to find her &#8216;annoying&#8217; due to her memory issues.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Last November, the Long Lost Family presenter underwent an operation to remove a benign colloid cyst from her brain after it was found during a routine check-up while she was advocating for menopause health.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">A scan revealed she had a rare type of tumour that &#8216;very, very rarely&#8217; can &#8217;cause sudden death&#8217;. She underwent successful surgery to remove the tumour via a craniotomy.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">But a side effect was temporary short-term memory loss, which she said was &#8216;improving every day&#8217;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">In April 2025, following a final MRI scan, she announced the brain tumour &#8216;is not coming back&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">For Davina, it was a terrifying ordeal and she is incredibly grateful \u2013 and relieved \u2013 to have got through it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Michael was at her bedside as she recovered and took to social media at the time to keep her fans updated with her progress.<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-7a55c5164e7e0656\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/101789981-15060695-image-a-4_1756892973948.jpg\" height=\"951\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Michael was a firm figure of support for Davina while she recovered from surgery last year to remove a benign colloid cyst from her brain\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Michael was a firm figure of support for Davina while she recovered from surgery last year to remove a benign colloid cyst from her brain<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">As a self-confessed workaholic, Davina needed little encouragement to get back in front of the cameras as soon as possible.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">And so after three months convalescing, she returned to film the ITV series, Long Lost Family. It was, she said, &#8216;like coming home&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She told the\u00a0<a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/tvshowbiz\/article-15026007\/brain-tumour-terror-DAVINA-MCCALL.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Daily Mail<\/a>: &#8216;Michael knew it would help me, so he supported me in going back. It was a terrifying thing to go through, but Michael knew it would be what would make me happiest. He was absolutely right. I had three months off, but that was it.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;My outlook has changed since the operation, in a mega, mega way, like in a whole outlook on life way. Now I&#8217;m going to do everything. Sometimes I think that in three or four years I&#8217;m going to go and do this but now I&#8217;m like, &#8216;No, I&#8217;m going to do it this year or even next week.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Davina and Michael met when he styled her hair during her stint on Big Brother.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">With so much in common, the pair stayed good friends until they realised they had romantic feelings for each other.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She went on to share that despite being brought closer together by her health scare, she and Michael are in no rush to tie the knot.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She added: &#8216;We&#8217;re in no rush,&#8217; she smiles. &#8216;We&#8217;re really happy.&#8217;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Davina McCall has shared a rare insight to the beginning of her relationship with Michael Douglas after being&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3495,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[539,4177,93,61,60,3122,1489],"class_list":{"0":"post-3494","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-entertainment","8":"tag-dailymail","9":"tag-davina-mccall","10":"tag-entertainment","11":"tag-ie","12":"tag-ireland","13":"tag-michael-douglas","14":"tag-tvshowbiz"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3494","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3494"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3494\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3495"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3494"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3494"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3494"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}