But the person to most recently learn the full power of video is Taylor Frankie Paul, the reality star who had been poised to headline the new season of \u201cThe Bachelorette\u201d until video of a well-known incident made its way to the ether. She became the latest to learn a lesson now known by everyone from music moguls to sports stars: Explaining away a controversy becomes the steepest of uphill battles once the public sees something with their own eyes.<\/p>\n
A not-so-secret life of a Mormon wife<\/p>\n
Paul was days away from celebrating her \u201cBachelorette\u201d debut when TMZ published video of a violent 2023 incident involving her and former boyfriend Dakota Mortensen.<\/p>\n
The video, with shaky angles and bad lighting, shows Paul appearing to kick Mortensen and forcefully grab his head. At one point, she throws what appears to be a barstool at him and is also seen moving to strike him with another. At another, a child can be heard crying in the background.<\/p>\n
A representative for Paul said in a statement that the video \u201cconveniently omits context.\u201d<\/p>\n
For those who knew Paul\u2019s name before it started trending the day of the video\u2019s release, the incident, which led to her arrest, was likely well known because it had been a major storyline in the first season of \u201cThe Secret Lives of Mormon Wives,\u201d the other reality show in which she appears. Body cam footage was even included in the first episode.<\/p>\n
Paul has also talked pretty openly about it over the years.<\/p>\n
During an appearance<\/a> to promote her show on \u201cThe Viall Files\u201d podcast \u2014 hosted by \u201cBachelor\u201d Season 21 star Nick Viall and his wife Natalie Joy \u2014 Paul explained that she believed the 2023 fight was the result of \u201ca build up.\u201d<\/p>\n She told the hosts how she had had an ectopic pregnancy followed by a chemical one. \u201cObviously I don\u2019t want to blame hormones, but I will put that into account,\u201d she said. \u201cLike, I am pretty whack.\u201d<\/p>\n Paul said she had been drinking that night, which angered Mortensen. She was so worked up, Paul said, that she didn\u2019t even stop when she realized her daughter was present.<\/p>\n \u201cI remember, like, throwing things and I don\u2019t know my daughter\u2019s on the couch,\u201d Paul said during the podcast.<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m, like, so gone that I don\u2019t care,\u201d she said during her podcast appearance. \u201cAnd I throw another chair.\u201d<\/p>\n The “MomTok” founder and star of “The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives” had been set to grow ever bigger with her “Bachelorette” appearance. – Bahareh Ritter\/Disney<\/p>\n The previous year Paul had also taken to TikTok <\/a>to discuss the incident.<\/p>\n As much as I wish that night had went differently, I felt like hitting rock bottom actually helped me in some ways,\u201d she said at the time. \u201cMade me seek help that I wasn\u2019t getting at the time.\u201d<\/p>\n She was a bit more reflective in 2025 during an appearance<\/a> on the \u201cCall Her Daddy\u201d podcast, telling host Alex Cooper, \u201cI never really even think about me in that situation.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cObviously, it\u2019s my kids because they were involved, they were in the house,\u201d Paul said. \u201cBut in that moment that we see on screen, I see a lot of pain. And I didn\u2019t have any tools at that time, so I was very lost.\u201d<\/p>\n In its statement announcing the shelving of the new season, ABC cited \u201cthe newly released video\u201d as reasoning for its decision. (CNN and Warner Bros. Television, which produces \u201cThe Bachelorette,\u201d share a parent company.)<\/p>\n In the days that have followed, questions have arisen about how Paul was allowed to lead the series in the first place, given her tumultuous history. The network will, eventually, be faced with how to move forward with its once uber popular franchise and answer for the decision.<\/p>\n CNN has reached out to the network, Paul and Mortensen for comment.<\/p>\n What could be true is that whether you\u2019re a network or internet dweller, there is a conversation shift for celebrities once an incident plays out in front of the eyes of the public.<\/p>\n The downfall of Diddy<\/p>\n When singer Cassie Ventura filed a civil suit against Sean \u201cDiddy\u201d Combs in 2023, it that detailed years of disturbing abuse allegations. Combs quickly settled the suit but the conversation online was dominated by conversation that disparaged and attempted to discredit Ventura.<\/p>\n Then, in May 2024, CNN published exclusive hotel surveillance footage<\/a> that showed Combs viciously assaulting Ventura at the now-closed InterContinental Hotel in Century City, Los Angeles in 2016, an incident that had been described in her lawsuit.<\/p>\n Combs quickly apologized via a video posted on social media, saying that his behavior on the video was \u201cinexcusable.\u201d He claimed to have sought professional help in the form of therapy and rehabilitation.<\/p>\n Sean Combs and Cassie Ventura are seen in security video in 2016. – Obtained by CNN<\/p>\n \u201cI had to ask God for his mercy and grace. I\u2019m so sorry. But I\u2019m committed to be a better man each and every day,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n For her supporters, the footage was validation for Ventura,<\/a> who had been painted by some Combs fans as a disgruntled ex. Ventura\u2019s allegations ended up becoming the heart of a federal criminal case against Combs.<\/p>\n He pleaded not guilty to federal charges that included racketeering conspiracy, sex trafficking and transportation to engage in prostitution. In July 2025, he was convicted on two lesser charges of transportation to engage in prostitution and sentenced to just over four years in prison, <\/a>which he is currently serving.<\/p>\n An athlete caught on tape<\/p>\n In the case of former Baltimore Ravens football player Ray Rice, two surveillance videos were the undoing of his career.<\/p>\n The then-running back was caught on camera being involved in a February 2014 domestic violence incident in an Atlantic City hotel elevator with his then fianc\u00e9e, Janay Palmer.<\/p>\n The initial video showed him dragging Palmer out of the elevator and resulted in Rice being suspended for two games.<\/p>\n In September 2014, TMZ published a video showing the 200-pound athlete punching Palmer, causing her head to be slammed into the wall of the elevator before she collapses unconscious to the floor.<\/p>\n The incident effectively ended his NFL career as the Ravens released him and the league further suspended him. In 2015 a New Jersey judge dismissed<\/a> a felony assault charge against Rice citing his completion of a pretrial intervention program.<\/p>\n Ray Rice of the Baltimore Ravens sitting alongside his wife Janay addressing the February incident caught on video. – Rob Carr\/Getty Images<\/p>\n He and Palmer married in 2014, are still together and are now the parents of two children.<\/p>\n CNN has reached out to Rice for comment.<\/p>\n In 2018, \u201cCBS This Morning\u2019s\u201d Gayle King asked Rice <\/a>how he felt being \u201ca poster boy for domestic violence caught in a very graphic way on tape.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cEarly on, you could feel, like, oh, why do they keep bringing my name up,\u201d he said, expressing remorse for what he did and how he wants other athletes to learn from his mistakes. \u201cYou can make excuses or you can actually do the hard work.\u201d<\/p>\n Is seeing always believing?<\/p>\n Video can have the feel of authenticity, giving viewers the belief that they\u2019re seeing something illicit and true.<\/p>\n But that\u2019s not always the case.<\/p>\n The advent of artificial intelligence has already prompted a flood of fake videos online \u2014 with everything from fake videos of the Iran war to <\/a>deepfake videos of revenge porn<\/a>.<\/p>\n Even when they\u2019re not fake, videos can sometimes tell only part of the story.<\/p>\n As the world continues its pivot to video \u2014 real or fake \u2014 we\u2019re all reminded to stay on guard.<\/p>\n For more CNN news and newsletters create an account at CNN.com<\/a><\/p>\n![\"The](\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/7c59fc24b0e5c50b1459393cf864c06d.jpeg\"\/)
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