{"id":370671,"date":"2026-03-29T01:43:09","date_gmt":"2026-03-29T01:43:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/370671\/"},"modified":"2026-03-29T01:43:09","modified_gmt":"2026-03-29T01:43:09","slug":"losing-family-members-makes-you-aware-of-how-fragile-our-connections-are-the-irish-times","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/370671\/","title":{"rendered":"Losing family members makes you aware of how fragile our connections are \u2013 The Irish Times"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Tell us about your new novel, Secrets Between Friends. What inspired it?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Secrets Between Friends is a novel about life after loss and the power of female friendships to support and help us. I know many women who have been widowed and have had to reshape their lives when one of the worst possible things has happened to them. I wanted to explore the experience of three different women.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">One of your characters is called Bronte. Are you a fan of the sisters? Do you have a favourite?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">It\u2019s my homage to three amazing women writers whose books explored dark themes and the societal constraints placed on women. I don\u2019t have a favourite!<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">You made your name with your debut novel Dreaming of a Stranger. Tell us about it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Like the Brontes\u2019 novels, it deals with societal constraints and women finding their path in a man\u2019s world.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Your first career was as a financial trader for the Central Bank. What was that like and has it fed into your work? <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">My work for the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/central-bank\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/central-bank\/\">Central Bank<\/a> was as a regulator. My trading career was commercial. It was very interesting but solely focused on making money for the bank. Some of my books have financial backgrounds and characters have been inspired by people I met during my time in finance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Your last novel, The Honeymoon Affair, featured a man who won the Booker Prize for a romantic novel. Was that an opportunity to write about the publishing industry?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">It\u2019s always fun to write about publishing but I also wanted to explore how men and women are treated differently when it comes to writing romantic fiction.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">You won Popular Fiction Book of the Year for All for You. Is that your favourite or your best work?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">I\u2019ve written a lot of books since then. I always hope that I\u2019ve learned something with each book and improve as a writer with every one I write. I\u2019m very proud of All for You, which is about a difficult mother-daughter relationship, but I don\u2019t have a favourite of my books.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Do you think the distinction between popular or commercial fiction and literary fiction is a false one?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Good writing is good writing whether it is literary or popular. There\u2019s no need for intellectual snobbery about writing, but some people seem to feel superior by dismissing popular fiction.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">You\u2019ve spoke out about sexism in the industry, such as an event where male authors spoke individually but women authors were grouped together and called the Divas.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Giving greater attention to the work of men continues to be endemic in every industry. However, young Irish women writers have deservedly found great respect in the last number of years and they are treated as the individual stars that they are. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">You wrote about your mother\u2019s family story in The Woman on the Bridge. Tell us about it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">This is probably the book I\u2019m most proud of as it deals with a tumultuous time in Irish history. I wanted to write about the impact of war on society, particularly on the women who had to keep going in very difficult situations and on families that were fractured because of divided loyalties.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Your mother and a sister died in 2023. Did that make you re-evaluate your life?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Losing family members makes you aware of how fragile our connections are and how important it is to make time for the people closest to us. I\u2019m very cognisant of that in my own life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Which projects are you working on?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">I\u2019m currently running some creative writing workshops for older writers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Have you ever made a literary pilgrimage?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">My novel, The Women Who Ran Away, is a literary pilgrimage itself. It follows a route through <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/france\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/france\/\">France<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/spain\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/spain\/\">Spain<\/a> and stops at locations where some classic authors were born or lived, or where some of my favourite novels were set.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">What is the best writing advice you have heard?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">A published author is an amateur who wouldn\u2019t quit<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Who do you admire the most?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Every classical female novelist who had to publish her work under a man\u2019s name. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">You are supreme ruler for a day. Which law to you pass or abolish?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Male leaders have to retire at 70<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Which current book, film and podcast would you recommend?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">I love Japanese authors and recommend Before the Coffee Gets Cold by Toshikazu Kawaguchi. I\u2019m more of a TV series fan than a movie person and am enjoying the fifth series of Astrid: Murder in Paris. As a tennis fan, I enjoy The Tennis Podcast<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">What public event affected you most?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The passing of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/news\/politics\/ireland-becomes-first-country-to-approve-same-sex-marriage-by-popular-vote-1.2223646\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/news\/politics\/ireland-becomes-first-country-to-approve-same-sex-marriage-by-popular-vote-1.2223646\">marriage equality referendum<\/a> in 2015.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The most remarkable place you have visited?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Mount Fuji, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/japan\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/japan\/\">Japan<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Your most treasured possession?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Probably my phone!<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">What is the most beautiful book you own?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">A copy of What Katy Did that was given to my mum as a Christmas present over 80 years ago.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Which writers living or dead would you invite to your dream dinner party?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Dorothy Parker, Jane Austen, Margaret Atwood, Agatha Christie and my good pal Patricia Scanlan.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The best and worst things about where you live?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">I\u2019m in Clontarf. It\u2019s mostly great except they\u2019ve been digging and re-digging the same roads for about five years.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">What is your favourite quotation?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Better to remain silent and be  thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Who is your favourite fictional character?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Jane Marple.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">A book to make me laugh.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Anything by PG Wodehouse.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">A book that might move me to tears.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Room by Emma Donoghue<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Secrets Between Friends by Sheila O\u2019Flanagan is published by Headline on March 26th<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Tell us about your new novel, Secrets Between Friends. What inspired it? 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