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When Watch What Crappens podcast hosts Ben Mandelker and Ronnie Karam first heard the rumors<\/a> about Summer House<\/a> cast members West Wilson and Amanda Batula secretly hooking up, they didn\u2019t believe it. Sure, Wilson had established himself as a known Bravo fuckboy, but they didn\u2019t think there was any world in which Batula would \u201cbetray\u201d Ciara Miller since the two have been best friends on- and off-screen for years.<\/p>\n But once Wilson and Batula confirmed<\/a> the growing speculation with a shared statement on their Instagram Stories on March 31, saying, \u201cOur connection grew out of a genuine, long-standing friendship, which made it especially important for us to approach this with care,\u201d Mandelker and Karam said the rest of the day on the internet felt like being in one big newsroom for Bravo fans.<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s so fun because to us, there\u2019s this pressing world situation and we feel like we have a duty to report back to everyone,\u201d Karam explained. \u201cWe\u2019ve got to get the details, and we\u2019ve got to be levelheaded about this and make sure the community stays calm. You just have this kind of ridiculous sense of responsibility over truly nothing.\u201d<\/p>\n While Deuxmoi and other gossip accounts had been sharing blind items for weeks about Wilson and Batula, it wasn\u2019t until the end of March that the rumors spiraled beyond their control. Bravo fans tapped into the situation acting as detectives, trying \u2014 and, ultimately, succeeding \u2014 to get to the bottom of whether or not there was any validity to these rumors. And Bravo fan accounts have been leading the charge, building hype and fueling rumors with blind items and anonymous tips. Is all the chatter painful for the individuals involved? Certainly. Is it invasive? Probably! But it\u2019s also just business for the countless podcasters, Instagram creators, and TikTokers who talk about reality TV for a living \u2014 and whose offline takes can start shaping onscreen narratives before cameras even roll.<\/p>\n \u201cIt happens in the wake of people going through real-life pain, but as a Bravo fan it\u2019s really kind of fun for us because we do come together. We\u2019re all chattering, texting each other, and sending each other links,\u201d Mandelker said. \u201cYou do have that excitement of being able to talk about a specific piece of pop culture that everyone\u2019s on the same page about.\u201d<\/p>\n The eruption of \u201cScandoval<\/a>\u201d in March 2023 has been a natural, if imperfect, point of comparison to this latest drama. \u201cInitially this Summer House news was unbelievable in the way Scandoval was. How could Tom and Raquel be together? That\u2019s so shocking, that\u2019s so crazy,\u201d Dana Regan, who\u2019s behind The Bravo Investigator podcast and Instagram account, explained. The scandal sent fans into a tizzy and drove engagement to countless Bravo commentators.<\/p>\n \u201cWe all became private investigators, breaking down every little piece of information and seeing if we could figure it out. That was the fun part about Scandoval, going back and then watching the newer episodes with that information in mind. We get to know something in retrospect and then be able to analyze it from a different perspective after the fact.\u201d<\/p>\n As with Scandoval, fans are now rabidly consuming every last piece of information they can get when it comes to this Summer House scandal. They\u2019ve been following more accounts on social media, sharing more posts, and even commenting. The anonymous person behind the social-media account Queens of Bravo said engagement on their posts have been \u201cinsane.\u201d Summer House viewers have always been a passionate fandom that typically yields the most engagement on their pages, they explained, but this scandal has been next level. \u201cOur followers are locked in on this because it\u2019s just so surprising,\u201d Queens of Bravo said. \u201cAt this point, people who aren\u2019t even Summer House fans kind of know the general idea of what\u2019s going on and they\u2019re looking for information, too.\u201d<\/p>\n B from Bravo and Cocktails added that her traffic has also been way up, and she hasn\u2019t seen these kinds of numbers since Scandoval. \u201cI feel bad because I like to engage with my community, but it\u2019s nearly impossible to get through all the DMs,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n And the takes don\u2019t always stay in the DMs. Kaya Wilson, who co-hosts the Bravo! We\u2019re Black podcast and runs its corresponding social-media accounts, said that social-media accounts run by Bravo fans can shape the trajectory of the scandal\u2019s fallout in real time. \u201cWe\u2019re in an age where everyone wants to be a content creator. Everyone wants to say that they know something, that they heard something, or report on something,\u201d Wilson said. Who gets the most lucrative brand deal<\/a>? Who gets the best seat at the reunion? Fan perception can play a role. \u201cEverything lies in the hands of fans, because fans will make you and fans will break you.\u201d<\/p>\n The flames can certainly sting. Since the news broke, Batula has removed comments from her social-media posts and her estranged husband, Kyle Cooke, has spoken about the double standard in how fans are reacting to Batula compared to how they\u2019re treating Wilson, who has reportedly gained 50,000 followers. \u201cAs we know, women always will suffer more than the male counterpart,\u201d B from Bravo and Cocktails said. \u201cWomen are given very little grace in the Bravo space and in every other space, and West, even though he\u2019s not as famous, will survive this better than Amanda will.\u201d<\/p>\n But we can\u2019t talk about the role gender plays in the fallout without also talking about the role of race. In a Summer House episode just a couple of weeks back, Miller opened up about the backlash she\u2019s received as a Black woman dating on a mostly white reality-TV series. \u201cI was the first Black person in this house, and then dating publicly, dating white guys publicly, it\u2019s like a whole contraption that I don\u2019t think you guys even understand and\/or can even empathize with,\u201d she said in the episode. Bravo! We\u2019re Black\u2019s Wilson highlighted how Batula\u2019s decision to\u00a0romantically entangle herself with her friend\u2019s ex in light of this is not just messy but deeply dissonant.<\/p>\n \u201cEveryone keeps telling me to stop bringing race into things. But it matters. We just sat here and watched a white woman watch her Black friend talk about how hard it is to be a Black woman who has dated mediocre white men who have embarrassed her in front of the nation. And she sat there and held her hand,\u201d she said. \u201cHow can you sit there and watch your Black friends say that, and then go and hook up with that same guy?\u201d<\/p>\n Are we wrong to turn what appears to be a very painful friendship breakup into public spectacle? The people behind these Bravo fan accounts told me that ultimately it\u2019s fair game to scrutinize reality-TV stars who opt for a public life. As Wilson put it, \u201cThey want to be in the spotlight.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cUnfortunately that comes with good and that comes with bad. So while I have sympathy for reality stars, they chose to be reality stars,\u201d she said. \u201cAnd once you step into the social-media Zeitgeist, you\u2019ve got to take the good and the bad.\u201d<\/p>\n Queens of Bravo pointed out that the Summer House cast members are real people grappling with the realities of their own lives, but they\u2019re also aware that \u201cthis is the assignment.\u201d \u201cThere is always that possibility that this could happen, and it\u2019s happened to other cast members before too. We saw Hannah Berner deal with a lot of this scrutiny years ago,\u201d they said. \u201cIt\u2019s part of the Bravo culture, unfortunately. You just have to know how to play the game a little bit better.\u201d<\/p>\n Stay in touch.<\/p>\n The latest in style, self, culture, and power in your inbox.<\/p>\n Vox Media, LLC Terms and Privacy Notice<\/p>\n