{"id":406820,"date":"2026-04-19T15:24:19","date_gmt":"2026-04-19T15:24:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/406820\/"},"modified":"2026-04-19T15:24:19","modified_gmt":"2026-04-19T15:24:19","slug":"alfie-boe-its-a-battle-every-day-learning-how-to-forgive-myself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/406820\/","title":{"rendered":"Alfie Boe: \u2018It\u2019s a battle every day learning how to forgive myself\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Your support helps us to tell the story<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 fFxaM\">From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing. Whether it&#8217;s investigating the financials of Elon Musk&#8217;s pro-Trump PAC or producing our latest documentary, &#8216;The A Word&#8217;, which shines a light on the American women fighting for reproductive rights, we know how important it is to parse out the facts from the messaging.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 fFxaM\">At such a critical moment in US history, we need reporters on the ground. Your donation allows us to keep sending journalists to speak to both sides of the story.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 fFxaM\">The Independent is trusted by Americans across the entire political spectrum. And unlike many other quality news outlets, we choose not to lock Americans out of our reporting and analysis with paywalls. We believe quality journalism should be available to everyone, paid for by those who can afford it.<\/p>\n<p>Your support makes all the difference.Read more<\/p>\n<p>When you think of the opera singer <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/indy-web-prod.brightsites.co.uk\/topic\/alfie-boe\">Alfie Boe<\/a>, your mind might go to his tremendous performances in Les Mis, his long-running collaboration with fellow West End star <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/indy-web-prod.brightsites.co.uk\/topic\/michael-ball\">Michael Ball<\/a>, or even his seemingly relentless appearances on This Morning. You might not expect a solo album full of personal songs about family and finding peace. It was a bold move, then, after years of covering revered works in opera, classical and musical theatre, to release his first ever album of (mostly) original material. For Boe, it was simply a case of now or never.<\/p>\n<p>We meet in a plush private members\u2019 club in Chelsea, Boe looking unassuming as he walks over with a brown cap pulled over his brow. He orders a pot of Earl Grey and takes the cap off, revealing a close crop of dark hair. He seems a little anxious, but then, with an album titled Face Myself, he\u2019s probably realised belatedly that he\u2019s waved the red flag to the bulls (journalists) eager to pry into the life of a man once dubbed \u201cthe bad boy of opera\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Anyone hoping for sleaze and scandal will likely be disappointed. Boe\u2019s sobriquet stems more from his work in breaking down the stuffier misconceptions surrounding classical music, usually through golden-voiced covers of classic rock songs. But that doesn\u2019t mean he won\u2019t shed some light \u2013 in his music and during our conversation \u2013 on his working-class upbringing, evolving family life, career breakthrough and how he plucked up the courage to make this album in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIn the past, I\u2019ve been sort of guided down the direction that people feel I should go down,\u201d the 52-year-old tells me in his soft Lancashire burr. \u201cBut sometimes you have to take chances.\u201d He felt encouraged by his new management team \u2013 and his new record label \u2013 who were thrilled with what he was coming up with in the studio with producer\/songwriter MyRiot (Primal Scream, London Grammar). Initially the plan was to have just three or four original songs; they ended up with seven, plus five carefully chosen covers of artists he admires, from Elbow and Noel Gallagher to Irish singer-songwriter Foy Vance.<\/p>\n<p>Album opener \u201cMeanwhile Gardens\u201d tells the story, in part, of Boe\u2019s own ambitions, performing on Broadway and feeling overwhelmed by the scale of New York City \u2013 \u201cgiant skyscrapers but also giants within the industry, these big bosses finding young artists and taking them for everything they\u2019ve got, then letting them go,\u201d he says. It\u2019s named after the park and community garden in Westbourne, north Kensington, near where Boe lived while studying at the Royal College of Music. He recalls: \u201cIt\u2019s one of those places where you feel like, no matter how busy life gets, there\u2019s somewhere to find an element of peace, to connect with yourself and plan your dreams.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He was relieved to be met with such a positive reaction from fans while airing out these new songs at live shows. But, he points out, the sound of the album \u2013 lushly textured and with a cinematic quality to much of it \u2013 hardly veers far away from the romance and drama of the ballad \u201cBring Him Home\u201d from Les Mis. It was this song that helped propel Boe to household-name status back in 2010, thanks to a now-iconic O2 Arena performance as Valjean, a role he\u2019s reprised on stages around the world.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/2212907333.jpg\"  loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Michael Ball and Alfie Boe at the curtain call during Les Mis\u00e9rables: The Arena Spectacular Gala Opening at ICC Sydney Theatre on 1 May 2025 in Sydney, Australia.\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/>Michael Ball and Alfie Boe at the curtain call during Les Mis\u00e9rables: The Arena Spectacular Gala Opening at ICC Sydney Theatre on 1 May 2025 in Sydney, Australia. (Getty)<\/p>\n<p>Years earlier, he\u2019d been spurred into an opera career by a customer who heard him singing along to the radio at his car factory job, aged 19. Told he should audition for a touring company in London, he travelled down from Lancashire for the day, got hired, and packed in the factory job. He credits his family with influencing his early music tastes: the youngest of nine siblings, he grew up in a busy household in Fleetwood listening to everything from Elvis Presley to Pavarotti. \u201cThat\u2019s why my music taste is so eclectic\u2026 I didn\u2019t see any divisions,\u201d he says. \u201cI was just blasted by good songs \u2013 I didn\u2019t perceive any difference between rock or classical.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>He is bemused by the notion of opera or musical theatre requiring a certain kind of background \u2013 yes, there are gatekeepers, he agrees, \u201cbut that\u2019s not all it is\u201d. I mention <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/arts-entertainment\/theatre-dance\/timothee-chalamet-opera-ballet-sales-b2957317.html\">Timoth\u00e9e Chalamet\u2019s notorious remark last month<\/a>, in which \u2013 during an interview with Matthew McConaughey \u2013 he claimed that \u201cno one cares\u201d about opera or ballet. Boe snorts, shaking his head. \u201cWhat a silly thing\u2026 silly little boy.\u201d He thinks Chalamet was showing off to McConaughey, whom he calls \u201ca better actor\u201d. His publicist, until now working quietly on the sofa next to us, starts to laugh nervously, but we\u2019re already moving on.<\/p>\n<p>We talk in depth about the meaning behind Boe\u2019s new songs. \u201c10,000 Miles\u201d was written about the distance between himself and his two children, Alfie and Grace, whom he shares with his ex-wife, Sarah. After they separated in 2020, Sarah, who is American, moved back to Utah with their children to be closer to her family \u2013 Boe has spoken in the past about going to a \u201cdark place\u201d after the split, and being admitted to rehab following an overdose of pills. \u201cIt\u2019s pretty tough to feel that, every day, your kids are on the other side of the world to you,\u201d he says now. \u201cI follow a lot of US news programmes, and it scares me [what\u2019s going on over there].\u201d He cheers up when I ask if the kids are creative, too. \u201cThey are, in their own way \u2013 my son is artistic, and my daughter has a good eye for fashion.\u201d He sees elements of both himself and Sarah in them: \u201cGood traits\u2026 I try to keep my bad traits to myself, and let my children discover theirs,\u201d he says with a chuckle.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/01KMHW89GT5VB8HE0NYQ5WTKWH.jpg\"  loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Cover art for Boe\u2019s new album, \u2018Face Myself\u2019\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/>Cover art for Boe\u2019s new album, \u2018Face Myself\u2019 (PA)<\/p>\n<p>He lived in Utah himself for a while, bouncing between the family home with Sarah and his work commitments: \u201cI think that was what put a bit of a strain on things, unfortunately.\u201d Now, he\u2019s based in Manchester, but will still find himself down in London for work, and also to spend more time with his daughter, who\u2019ll be studying fashion at university. And soon he\u2019ll be touring around the country again, anyway. \u201cLots of hotels, lots of stolen towels,\u201d he says, flashing another grin. <\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s in a new relationship now, posting cosy pictures of date nights on Instagram with his girlfriend, Elizabeth. He insists the love songs on the album weren\u2019t written with his own love life in mind, artfully skirting my question about whether he\u2019s felt more inspired, of late. I don\u2019t begrudge him that, given how the tabloids already had a minor field day over their 20-year age gap. They look very happy together. \u201cI think I&#8217;ve been inspired a lot by my family, my past more than the present,\u201d Boe says carefully. \u201cThe past is something that never is off my mind. My connection with my children, with my ex\u2026 it was a beautiful relationship that I had.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The past is something that never is off my mind<\/p>\n<p>I bring up the album title again, wondering if he feels he faced down any regrets from his past. \u201cIf you don\u2019t think about your mistakes, you don\u2019t grow from them,\u201d he says with a smile. \u201cThat\u2019s been my philosophy over the years, to try and recover, because anybody who\u2019s gone through a separation and a divorce will tell you that it\u2019s a long road. It\u2019s a battle every day learning how to forgive myself, to look at the way you were in the past, and try to become a better person.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Face Myself\u2019, the new album from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/alfie-boe\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Alfie Boe<\/a>, is out now; he\u2019s currently on tour in the UK<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Your support helps us to tell the story From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":406821,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[178964,17949,986,178956,321,31724,178958,93,106836,178959,6285,61,60,178962,178963,20112,178961,2096,266,159647,3872,178960,178957,31754],"class_list":{"0":"post-406820","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-celebrities","8":"tag-alfie-boe","9":"tag-arts-culture-and-entertainment","10":"tag-australia","11":"tag-awe","12":"tag-celebrities","13":"tag-color-image","14":"tag-curtain-call","15":"tag-entertainment","16":"tag-full-length","17":"tag-gala","18":"tag-horizontal","19":"tag-ie","20":"tag-ireland","21":"tag-les-miserables-musical","22":"tag-michael-ball-singer","23":"tag-new-south-wales","24":"tag-opening-event","25":"tag-people","26":"tag-photography","27":"tag-stadium","28":"tag-sydney","29":"tag-sydney-theatre","30":"tag-theatrical-performance","31":"tag-two-people"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/406820","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=406820"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/406820\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/406821"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=406820"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=406820"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=406820"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}