{"id":446851,"date":"2026-05-13T15:05:12","date_gmt":"2026-05-13T15:05:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/446851\/"},"modified":"2026-05-13T15:05:12","modified_gmt":"2026-05-13T15:05:12","slug":"tommy-fleming-marriage-split-singers-blunt-message-for-critics-and-putting-up-with-horribleness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/446851\/","title":{"rendered":"Tommy Fleming marriage split: Singer&#8217;s blunt message for critics and &#8216;putting up with horribleness&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Tommy Fleming&#8217;s wife Tina has told how<a aria-label=\"\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.irishmirror.ie\/showbiz\/celebrity-news\/tommy-fleming-wife-tina-split-37139055\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_self\"> they split seven months ago<\/a> &#8211; thrusting the singer back into the headlines where he has often spoken candidly about his life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Tommy has had many ups and downs and told in 2022 how he was eyeing up retirement and set a timeline which &#8211; as things have transpired &#8211; would be next year.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">But instead of eyeing up retirement, Tommy is dealing with the aftermath of the marriage split. The couple, who wed in 2006 after meeting at a mutual friend&#8217;s funeral in 2002, confirmed they split seven months ago. &#8220;I confirm that our marriage has ended, and we have been separated since October 2025,&#8221; Tina said in a statement to the Sunday Independent.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">READ MORE: <a aria-label=\"\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.irishmirror.ie\/showbiz\/irish-showbiz\/tommy-fleming-how-voice-hope-37139172\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_self\">How &#8216;Voice of Hope&#8217; DVD broadcast caused &#8216;serious setback&#8217; for Tommy Fleming and his wife<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">In an interview in 2022, Tommy gave an insight into how he deals with being in the public eye &#8211; and with critics who can be &#8216;horrible&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">He said he doesn\u2019t feel the pressure of being in the public eye, saying: \u201cThe reason I don\u2019t is because the people that criticise are always the ones that need to change, not the person they\u2019re criticising.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">He reflected on his long and successful career, explaining that he was \u201cconstantly\u201d told to change things.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/0_00109931.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"Tommy on stage\" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">Tommy on stage(Image: Collins Photos)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Tommy said: \u201cI was told that country and western was popular, so I needed to do it. At the end of the day, you got criticised for following your own path because nobody can put a title on it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">\u201cNobody can call me a folk singer or a <a aria-label=\"\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.rsvplive.ie\/all-about\/country-music\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_self\">country<\/a> and western singer. I\u2019m just a singer who sings good songs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">\u201cYou had that feeling of not being good enough. You would do a performance and the exact words were, \u2018That was shite\u2019.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">\u201cYou had to put up with that horribleness. There was no encouragement, just negativity all the time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">\u201cI desperately keep trying to stay in shape. I desperately try to hold onto whatever vigour of youth I had.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">\u201cMaybe because I\u2019m in the public eye, but I wouldn\u2019t be one to let myself go. I think we all have those issues with ageing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Want to see more of the stories you love from the Irish Mirror? 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