{"id":452294,"date":"2026-05-16T18:01:11","date_gmt":"2026-05-16T18:01:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/452294\/"},"modified":"2026-05-16T18:01:11","modified_gmt":"2026-05-16T18:01:11","slug":"tommy-fleming-sends-heartfelt-message-to-fans-after-bombshell-double-life-confession","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/452294\/","title":{"rendered":"Tommy Fleming sends heartfelt message to fans after bombshell double life confession"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tommy Fleming has issued a heartfelt statement to fans after coming out as gay in an emotional Newstalk interview, where he opened up about his sexuality, mental health and the end of his 20-year marriage<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Tommy Fleming\" loading=\"eager\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/0_Tommy-Fleming.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"Tommy Fleming sat down for a tell-all interview with Newstalk on Friday, sharing an emotional message to his wife Tina after coming out as gay\" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">Tommy Fleming sat down for a tell-all interview with Newstalk on Friday, sharing an emotional message to his wife Tina after coming out as gay(Image: Newstalk)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Tommy Fleming has issued a message to his fans following his explosive interview on Friday afternoon.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">The singer <a aria-label=\"opened up about his sexuality, mental health and substance abuseLink opens in a new tab.\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.irishmirror.ie\/news\/irish-news\/tommy-fleming-drops-marriage-split-37162637\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_blank\">opened up about his sexuality, mental health and substance abuse<\/a> in the candid sit-down with Ciara Kelly on Newstalk.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">It marked the first occasion he had spoken out since news broke of his split from his wife of 20 years, <a aria-label=\"Tina MitchelLink opens in a new tab.\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.irishmirror.ie\/news\/irish-news\/tommy-flemings-emotional-message-wife-37163345\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_blank\">Tina Mitchel<\/a>l.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Posting pictures of himself at the Newstalk studio on Instagram once the interview had aired, <a aria-label=\"TommyLink opens in a new tab.\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.irishmirror.ie\/all-about\/tommy-fleming\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_blank\">Tommy<\/a> wrote: &#8220;This evening, I spoke with Ciara Kelly on Newstalk&#8217;s The Hard Shoulder about something I now have to share publicly.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;The past period of my life has involved major personal change, including the end of my marriage after 20 years.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;This has been painful and, at times, taken a serious toll on my mental health.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Tommy Fleming and Ciara Kelly\" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/0_image-8201069.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"Tommy Fleming and Ciara Kelly\" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">Tommy Fleming and Ciara Kelly(Image: Instagram)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;Out of respect for those closest to me, I won&#8217;t be discussing private family or legal matters.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;What I can say is this: I am gay. &#8220;This is not new to me or to those close to me, but saying it publicly and fully living as myself has been a deeply personal journey with real consequences for the people I love.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;My marriage ending brings sadness for everyone involved. My wife and step children were a huge part of my life and I will always care for them. I would ask people to remember that there are real people and real hurt behind the headlines and speculation, and to show compassion to everyone affected.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;Getting here has brought clarity and perspective. &#8220;My focus is on my health, family, friends and continuing to do the music that I love. &#8220;I&#8217;m grateful to Ciara for approaching this conversation with care and sensitivity.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">He concluded: &#8220;There comes a point where personal truth belongs back in private life. For me, that point is now.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Tommy Fleming and Tina Mitchell Fleming\" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/0_Tommy-Fleming-and-wife.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"Tommy Fleming with wife, Tina. \" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">Tommy Fleming with wife, Tina. (Image: Instagram)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">During the interview, Tommy publicly came out as gay, acknowledging that he had spent many years concealing his true identity, reports <a aria-label=\"\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.rsvplive.ie\/news\/celebs\/tommy-fleming-issues-heartfelt-statement-37163809\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"\">RSVP Live<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;I&#8217;d love to say it&#8217;s to set to record straight, but it&#8217;s to give my side of it too, to give you my truth,&#8221; he explained when asked why he had chosen to speak out at this moment.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;For at least 10 or 13 years of marriage we were very happy but small cracked started to appear,&#8221; he continued.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;Small cracks that were never mended. Those cracks became a chasm. I wasn&#8217;t happy with my own situation&#8230; It wasn&#8217;t about being happy, it was about being uncomfortable with the situation if that makes sense.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;I had been living a lie for all my life really. The hardest part of that was the energy and the effort it took for this lie to be constantly covered. 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