{"id":522514,"date":"2026-06-28T11:24:09","date_gmt":"2026-06-28T11:24:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/522514\/"},"modified":"2026-06-28T11:24:09","modified_gmt":"2026-06-28T11:24:09","slug":"how-taylor-swift-made-her-fortune-by-owning-her-romantic-history","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/522514\/","title":{"rendered":"How Taylor Swift Made Her Fortune? By Owning Her Romantic History"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIt\u2019s really fascinating to me how many angles there are to a break-up,\u201d a teenage Taylor Swift<\/a> once said. I hadn\u2019t heard this quote before, but it jumped out at me from the new British documentary on the singer, A Story of Love<\/a>, made to coincide with her wedding<\/a> to NFL player Travis Kelce, which may or may not be on July 3, and may or may not be at Madison Square Garden<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u201cThis is the story of her road to the altar,\u201d the program states upfront, and yet, in taking us through a chronology of Swift\u2019s public heartbreaks (I counted nine) before meeting her husband-to-be in 2023, it actually reveals a very different story altogether: one about her break-ups, and how she owned her side of the story, every step of the way.<\/p>\n

First, let\u2019s backtrack and state the obvious: we know how this story ends, with the all-American pop star engaged to her handsome jock. \u201cYour English teacher and your gym teacher are getting married,\u201d Swift announced<\/a> on Instagram last August in a post that sent a lot of otherwise very sensible people into a complete frenzy over a woman they don\u2019t know getting wed to a man they don\u2019t know.<\/p>\n

I suppose it seems like a fairy tale\u2014and I usually loathe that sort of chat, because we\u2019re way past the dynamic of the handsome knight on a white horse riding up to save us\u2026right? RIGHT? But when you\u2019ve seen a woman going through a lot of the same relationship crap that we\u2019ve all experienced\u2014break-ups over the phone, ghosting, lies, disinterest, unhappiness, being manipulated, being made to feel small\u2014it does feel vindicating to see a version of the happy ending that means being loved for your ambition and success, rather than torn down by the person who\u2019s supposed to be on your team. I\u2019ll buy into that story.<\/p>\n

Except, it\u2019s not the only one. There\u2019s also a story to be told about the narrative conjured by a male-dominated media in the aughts, which sought to paint Swift as the girl who dated \u201ctoo much,\u201d broke up with men endlessly, and orchestrated it all to get rich and famous. Who became famous in the era of body-shaming, slut-shaming, gossip-column-harassment, and 24-hour rolling news cycles.<\/p>\n

\u201cDo you really want to be in a relationship?\u201d asks British broadcaster Jonathan Ross in an interview from 2012, grilling a deeply uncomfortable-looking Swift on whether it\u2019s all a \u201cgame plan\u201d\u2014behavior bound to start a belated pile-on for the chat show host in the manner of Diane Sawyer asking Britney<\/a>, \u201cWhat did you do?\u201d over her break-up with Justin Timberlake.<\/p>\n

We might have rewritten our narratives around the likes of Britney, Lindsay, Paris, and Amy\u2014but Taylor, still being at the peak of her powers, is long overdue a bit of that reckoning, too. A bit of a nod to the powerful men with whom she got involved outside of her romantic life. Do I really need to say the name Kanye? How about Scooter Braun?<\/p>\n

Most powerfully of all, though, this is a story about a talented singer who kept diaries about her crushes, dating life, and relationships from high school onwards, was able to dive into that archive to write music, and indeed has the rare ability to crystalize her feelings into lyrics that feel as though she could be speaking for any of us.<\/p>\n

Not that all of her songs are about exes, of course\u2014that notion\u2019s just part of the misogyny that says a wildly successful woman only got to where she is by preying on men and \u201conly writing about break-ups.\u201d Denigrating her work as though it\u2019s the product of some selfish, silly teenage girl who isn\u2019t to be taken seriously.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u201cIt\u2019s really fascinating to me how many angles there are to a break-up,\u201d a teenage Taylor Swift once…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":522515,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[93,61,60,278,65226],"class_list":["post-522514","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-music","tag-entertainment","tag-ie","tag-ireland","tag-music","tag-sex-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/522514","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=522514"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/522514\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/522515"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=522514"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=522514"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=522514"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}