{"id":541991,"date":"2026-07-10T01:55:09","date_gmt":"2026-07-10T01:55:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/541991\/"},"modified":"2026-07-10T01:55:09","modified_gmt":"2026-07-10T01:55:09","slug":"majella-odonnell-its-time-talk-about-mental-health-openly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/541991\/","title":{"rendered":"Majella O\u2019Donnell: It&#8217;s time talk about mental health openly"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Majella O&#8217;Donnell is a self-described \u201copen book\u201d. Her experience with mental health issues has been well documented, in large part due to her willingness to speak about it.<\/p>\n<p>Her first recollection of feeling \u201cdepressed\u201d, although she didn\u2019t know that is what it was at the time, was when she was 19 and her boyfriend of a couple of years had broken up with her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">\u201cIt just floored me\u201d, she recalls. At the time, she thought it was normal and that everyone felt like that when a relationship broke down. \u201cBut that feeling persisted for about a year \u2014 I was completely devastated and spent days in bed.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">Eventually, though, O\u2019Donnell began to feel better and says she didn\u2019t experience another depressive episode until years later when her first marriage broke down. She says that she was terrified of being on her own, particularly with two young children.<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">\u201cI didn\u2019t think I could do it on my own. But I got through it. It was very difficult, but that was when I started to learn more about why I would get down or feel low.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">It was at this time that O\u2019Donnell was first diagnosed with \u201csevere depression\u201d and her GP prescribed anti-depressants. She also started counselling and read books to try to understand how her brain worked and why life experiences affected her a certain way. On medication and with a better insight into the inner workings of her mind, she began to feel better.<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">\u201cAnd then I met Daniel, and we got married, and everything was fantastic,\u201d O\u2019Donnell says.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/5149685_5_articleinline_majella_daniel_window2_upscaled.jpg\" alt=\"Majella with her husband, singer Daniel O'Donnell\" title=\"Majella with her husband, singer Daniel O'Donnell\" class=\"card-img\"\/>Majella with her husband, singer Daniel O&#8217;Donnell<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">But an out-of-the-blue experience two years after her 2002 wedding to the high-profile country singer followed. \u201cOne evening we were touring in London, and we were in a hotel room, and I can remember going to the bathroom at 3 o\u2019clock in the morning and just rocking. I thought, oh my god, I\u2019m going down this dark hole again.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">This time, though, O\u2019Donnell says there was no clear reason for how she was feeling: \u201cI was really happy. I didn\u2019t have any worries, and suddenly I\u2019m going down this big black hole again, and it really rocked me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">On reflection, O\u2019Donnell puts the incident down to her having come off her anti-depressant medication. After she married Daniel, she says everything seemed to settle down and she was happy and content.<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">\u201cNaively, I thought I didn\u2019t need the medication anymore, so I weaned myself off it,\u201d she explains. \u201cI would say I was fully off it about four weeks when that happened to me in London.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">After chatting with Daniel, who she says is incredibly supportive, she knew she needed to go back on the medication. \u201cI was 43 at that stage, and I knew that occasionally I would feel down or be really low. It would usually last for about a week or so, and then I\u2019d start to come out of it again. And it was that way for years including through my breast cancer diagnosis and treatment. But then in 2024 I went down, and I couldn\u2019t get back up.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">At that point, O\u2019Donnell says she knew she\u2019d reached the limit of what she could do herself and how much the medication could help her. She needed more help. During a visit with her GP, he asked her if she would consider residential care in a psychiatric hospital. \u201cI said I would. I would do anything to feel better.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">She entered St John of God University Hospital in Stillorgan, Dublin, where she stayed for 10 weeks. Following a structured programme, which involved therapy, art therapy, relaxation techniques, and breathing exercises, she acquired tools and insights that she still uses to this day to manage her mental health, or as she prefers to call it, \u201cmind health\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu caption\">Coping tools<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu internal_BodyNoIndent\">Today, it\u2019s these coping tools and tips, and living with depression for over 40 years, that O\u2019Donnell is pouring into a new series of video blogs on Instagram.<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">In mid-June, she took to the social media platform and started releasing short videos where she chats about mental health, specifically depression and anxiety, linking it back to her journey and real-world advice.<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">\u201cThere\u2019s nothing like that available to people right now, and people need stuff that they can access in their own homes, from someone they consider a trusted voice,\u201d she says. \u201cMy hope is that people can just go in, click on the video and get something from it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">She also sees the videos, which are self-recorded, as a way of de-stigmatising mental health struggles. By speaking so openly about her life, she hopes it can help people to recognise their experiences and know they\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">When O\u2019Donnell posted the first video, she disabled comments as a pre-emptive move to protect herself. She says that even if she had 200 positive comments and one negative, that negative comment would stay with her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">But two weeks in, after <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/majellaodonnell_\/\">her Instagram<\/a> followers jumped from 2,000 to 27,000, O\u2019Donnell says she re-evaluated. \u201cIt felt like I was talking into the wilderness. Without comments, I realised I didn\u2019t know if the videos were helping people. But then, when I noticed the followers going up, I thought there must be something good happening here.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">She turned comments on, but only comments from her followers and those she\u2019s following. Suddenly, she could see exactly how her videos were impacting people.<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">\u201cPeople were saying, \u2018Thank you for turning on comments, now I can tell you how much you\u2019re helping me\u2019. And I tell you, it\u2019s given me a real purpose, because I feel like I\u2019m really helping others. A 10-minute video every two or three days is actually touching somebody, and that\u2019s just fantastic.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu caption\">Understanding triggers<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu internal_BodyNoIndent\">Although there are still times when she \u201cgets down\u201d or \u201cfeels low\u201d, she is now better able to manage these times, and indeed, better able to see them coming.<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">O\u2019Donnell knows that if she doesn\u2019t get enough sleep at night, it can affect her mental health. Having too much on can also be an issue, as it can cause her to become stressed. But understanding the triggers has been a game-changer: \u201cI now know there are things that can get on top of me and bring me down, so I need to manage those.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">Following a diagnosis of ADHD two years ago, O\u2019Donnell says that how she dealt with and reacted to certain things has begun to make more sense.<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">\u201cAs someone with ADHD, I am very enthusiastic about new projects, and I want to do loads of things. I can get really hyper-focused on things and spend hours on them, and that\u2019s a good thing, of course; it meant I wrote my book, It\u2019s All in the Head,<br \/>\n            in about four weeks. But I just need to be aware of that trait and know that if I take on too much, I can get too tired or stressed, and that can have a knock-on effect on how I feel.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">She sees maintaining her mental health as a lifelong journey, and has made adjustments to her life to help her better manage it. Medication is an ongoing support, and learning from her experience, she knows it\u2019s something she\u2019ll continue to take for the rest of her life. She\u2019s also learned how to manage becoming over-stimulated and regularly takes time out.<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">\u201cSometimes when I go out with too many people, it can be overstimulating for me. I need the quiet, I need to pull back when that happens.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">Her day to day management is not one single technique, but small, repeatable habits: Sleep and stress boundaries, medication, breathing and music, gratitude, gentle movement, realistic eating, and permitting herself to step back when she\u2019s overloaded.<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">O\u2019Donnell loves nothing better than pottering around her garden. She also loves to paint, something she picked up from her time in St John of God. But her go-to strategy for when things become too much is deep breathing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">\u201cI go into my bedroom, turn down the lights, lie down, and I take deep breaths,\u201d she says. \u201cI might put on some meditative music, that really helps me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">When it comes to exercise, she\u2019s very honest: \u201cI know exercise is good for your mental health. But I am useless at it. I hear all the advice that says exercise, exercise, exercise, but I think we need to remind ourselves that that doesn\u2019t have to mean being a gym bunny. It could be going out for a walk, and I do try to do that, but sometimes I don\u2019t even do that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">It\u2019s this honesty that\u2019s so refreshing about O\u2019Donnell, and arguably why her videos are resonating with people.<\/p>\n<p class=\"contextmenu Body Body\">\u201cIt doesn\u2019t bother me that people know that I suffer from depression, because I also [have] great mental health too. It doesn\u2019t bother me because it\u2019s something that just happened; this is the way I am.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Majella O&#8217;Donnell is a self-described \u201copen book\u201d. 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