{"id":555144,"date":"2026-07-17T22:59:13","date_gmt":"2026-07-17T22:59:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/555144\/"},"modified":"2026-07-17T22:59:13","modified_gmt":"2026-07-17T22:59:13","slug":"i-dont-want-to-be-38-and-not-look-38-i-love-playing-someone-who-has-lived-through","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/555144\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018I don\u2019t want to be 38 and not look 38. I love playing someone who has lived through"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>On the surface, Hollis Shaw appears to have the life many people dream of: a successful culinary career, a beautiful Nantucket home, a loving family and a public image built around warmth, hospitality and the art of creating perfect moments.<\/p>\n<p>As a celebrated food personality, she has made a career out of transforming ordinary experiences into something aspirational, from beautifully prepared meals to elegant gatherings and a carefully curated version of happiness.<\/p>\n<p>Behind the flawless photographs and inviting tables, however, is a woman struggling with what happens when the life she created no longer feels whole.<\/p>\n<p>In \u201cThe Five-Star Weekend,\u201d <a id=\"Bkgb6vm4uNfl\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ynetnews.com\/culture\/article\/hjgybxafyg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Jennifer Garner<\/a>, 54, stars as Hollis, whose carefully constructed world begins to unravel after a devastating personal loss. As she tries to move forward, she discovers that grief cannot simply be organized, hidden away or replaced with beautiful surroundings. It follows her even when she is laughing with friends and appearing to have everything under control.<\/p>\n<p>Hollis responds to her loss by inviting four women from different chapters of her life to spend a special weekend at her Nantucket home. What begins as an attempt to reconnect and heal soon becomes far more complicated. Old friendships are tested, buried emotions rise to the surface and each woman is forced to confront the gap between the person she appears to be and the person she really is.<\/p>\n<p>For Garner, that emotional contradiction was one of the most compelling aspects of playing Hollis.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHollis is trying to push grief onto another shelf and distract herself by making everything around her beautiful instead of dealing with what she\u2019s feeling,\u201d Garner told Ynet. \u201cBut grief doesn\u2019t work that way. It always finds its way back. The challenge was showing someone who appears almost joyful with her friends while grief is constantly sitting just beneath the surface.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>At its core, \u201cThe Five-Star Weekend,\u201d available on HOT, yes and Cellcom TV, is a story about connection, particularly the friendships between women and the ways those relationships shape who they become.<\/p>\n<p>Garner said stories about female friendship continue to resonate because those bonds have always been essential.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBecause half the world is made up of women, and from the beginning we\u2019ve needed each other,\u201d she said. \u201cWe\u2019ve always lived in communities together. We exist for, with and because of one another.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The series also explores the reality that friendships are rarely simple. They can survive decades of change but still be tested by jealousy, misunderstanding and betrayal. The women who gather at Hollis\u2019 home are not idealized versions of themselves. They are complicated, flawed and carrying regrets of their own.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"gelleryOpener\" aria-label=\"open article gallery\" data-image-id=\"ArticleImageData.Ske4rpZOVMx\" id=\"image_ArticleImageData.Ske4rpZOVMx\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.Ske4rpZOVMx\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/SkWcTmMEGe_0_0_3000_2000_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e7\u05dc\u05d5\u05d0\u05d9 \u05e1\u05d1\u05d9\u05e0\u05d9, \u05d2'\u05de\u05d4 \u05e6'\u05d0\u05df, \u05d2'\u05e0\u05d9\u05e4\u05e8 \u05d2\u05d0\u05e8\u05e0\u05e8\u05d5 \u05d3\u05d0\u05e8\u05e1\u05d9 \u05e7\u05d0\u05e8\u05d3\u05df, \u05e7\u05d0\u05e1\u05d8 &quot;\u05e1\u05d5\u05e4\u05e9 \u05d7\u05de\u05d9\u05e9\u05d4 \u05db\u05d5\u05db\u05d1\u05d9\u05dd&quot;\" title=\"Photo: Emma McIntyre\/WireImage\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/a><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.Ske4rpZOVMx\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/SkWcTmMEGe_0_0_3000_2000_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e7\u05dc\u05d5\u05d0\u05d9 \u05e1\u05d1\u05d9\u05e0\u05d9, \u05d2'\u05de\u05d4 \u05e6'\u05d0\u05df, \u05d2'\u05e0\u05d9\u05e4\u05e8 \u05d2\u05d0\u05e8\u05e0\u05e8\u05d5 \u05d3\u05d0\u05e8\u05e1\u05d9 \u05e7\u05d0\u05e8\u05d3\u05df, \u05e7\u05d0\u05e1\u05d8 &quot;\u05e1\u05d5\u05e4\u05e9 \u05d7\u05de\u05d9\u05e9\u05d4 \u05db\u05d5\u05db\u05d1\u05d9\u05dd&quot;\" title=\"Photo: Emma McIntyre\/WireImage\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/p>\n<p>(Photo: Emma McIntyre\/WireImage)<\/p>\n<p>Unlike romantic relationships, friendships are often built on years of shared memories and trust, which can make betrayal particularly difficult to overcome. Garner believes that while hurt and anger are natural first reactions, time eventually reveals whether a relationship can heal.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEvery betrayal deserves whatever reaction it deserves in that moment,\u201d she said. \u201cThen time takes over. Does the other person show humility? Do they grow? Do you soften? Relationships evolve.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Garner added that reconciliation is possible when both people are willing to reflect and change.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m a big believer that, in the long run, it\u2019s possible to rise above a lot of life\u2019s messiness if both people are willing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Chlo\u00eb Sevigny, who plays Tatum, one of Hollis\u2019 longtime friends, said the character\u2019s imperfections were precisely what attracted her to the role.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ve always been drawn to imperfect women,\u201d Sevigny said. \u201cEven as a child, I sympathized with Nellie on \u2018Little House on the Prairie.\u2019 I loved that this was an ensemble piece where every woman felt real and relatable, with all of her flaws and contradictions.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sevigny, 51, known for acclaimed roles in \u201cBig Love,\u201d \u201cAmerican Horror Story\u201d and \u201cThe Act,\u201d has built a career portraying unconventional and emotionally complex women. She also appreciated the opportunity to bring humor to Tatum.<\/p>\n<p>While much of her previous work has leaned toward drama, \u201cThe Five-Star Weekend\u201d allowed her to explore a lighter side while keeping the character emotionally grounded.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAt the beginning, we were all figuring out the tone of the show, and we were encouraged to experiment,\u201d she said. \u201cI wanted Tatum to be funny, but also emotionally grounded.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The series also examines how friendships change as people move through different stages of life. Sevigny, who had her only son at 45, said motherhood changed the way she approaches those relationships and made maintaining them a more deliberate act.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"gelleryOpener\" aria-label=\"open article gallery\" data-image-id=\"ArticleImageData.rkggvpb00Vzg\" id=\"image_ArticleImageData.rkggvpb00Vzg\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.rkggvpb00Vzg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/SyXT4F9k7Ml_0_0_1200_800_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05de\u05ea\u05d5\u05da &quot;\u05e1\u05d5\u05e4&quot;\u05e9 \u05d7\u05de\u05d9\u05e9\u05d4 \u05db\u05d5\u05db\u05d1\u05d9\u05dd&quot;\" title=\"Photo: Greg Gayne\/PEACOCK\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/a><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.rkggvpb00Vzg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/SyXT4F9k7Ml_0_0_1200_800_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05de\u05ea\u05d5\u05da &quot;\u05e1\u05d5\u05e4&quot;\u05e9 \u05d7\u05de\u05d9\u05e9\u05d4 \u05db\u05d5\u05db\u05d1\u05d9\u05dd&quot;\" title=\"Photo: Greg Gayne\/PEACOCK\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/p>\n<p>(Photo: Greg Gayne\/PEACOCK)<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEvery New Year since then, I\u2019ve told myself, \u2018I\u2019m going to prioritize my friendships,\u2019\u201d she said. \u201cYou really have to make time for them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She added that friendship becomes healthier when people stop expecting a single person to meet every emotional need.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI once read that we ask too much of our friends,\u201d Sevigny said. \u201cI think it\u2019s important to recognize each person\u2019s strengths. One friend makes you laugh. Another gives incredible advice. Someone else sees a situation from a perspective you never considered. You shouldn\u2019t expect one friend to be everything. Appreciate each person for what they uniquely bring into your life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>While the series celebrates friendship, it does not ignore the relationships that can be the most difficult, especially those within a family.<\/p>\n<p>Hollis finds it easier to care for others than to confront painful conversations with the people closest to her, including her daughter. Garner sees that avoidance as one of the character\u2019s greatest flaws.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIsn\u2019t that true for so many of us?\u201d she asked. \u201cWhy is it easier to talk to someone in the grocery store than to our own children?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHollis\u2019 biggest flaw is avoiding the conversations that matter most. She avoids conflict with her husband. She avoids confronting her daughter. She\u2019s so polite and emotionally removed that she misses out on the messy, difficult parts of life that ultimately help relationships grow.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Although the actresses had never worked together before filming began, Garner said the cast quickly developed the connection needed to make their onscreen friendships feel believable.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe were incredibly lucky,\u201d she said. \u201cWe connected almost immediately.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>On their first day together, the cast played Pictionary with director Minkie Spiro. After that, Garner said, they spent nearly every break together, sitting just off set and talking about their lives.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe shared personal stories, laughed constantly and really got to know one another,\u201d she said. \u201cThose conversations probably did more to build our chemistry than anything else.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Beyond the Nantucket setting and the appeal of a reunion between old friends, \u201cThe Five-Star Weekend\u201d ultimately asks a deeper question: How do people rebuild themselves when the life they created no longer feels like their own?<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"gelleryOpener\" aria-label=\"open article gallery\" data-image-id=\"ArticleImageData.rke8o6WO4zl\" id=\"image_ArticleImageData.rke8o6WO4zl\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.rke8o6WO4zl\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/ryl6Vtqk7Ml_0_0_1200_800_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05de\u05ea\u05d5\u05da &quot;\u05e1\u05d5\u05e4&quot;\u05e9 \u05d7\u05de\u05d9\u05e9\u05d4 \u05db\u05d5\u05db\u05d1\u05d9\u05dd&quot;\" title=\"Photo: Greg Gayne\/PEACOCK\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/a><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.rke8o6WO4zl\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/ryl6Vtqk7Ml_0_0_1200_800_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05de\u05ea\u05d5\u05da &quot;\u05e1\u05d5\u05e4&quot;\u05e9 \u05d7\u05de\u05d9\u05e9\u05d4 \u05db\u05d5\u05db\u05d1\u05d9\u05dd&quot;\" title=\"Photo: Greg Gayne\/PEACOCK\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/p>\n<p>(Photo: Greg Gayne\/PEACOCK)<\/p>\n<p>For Garner, the answer begins with compassion, both toward others and toward oneself.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe hope audiences enjoy the beautiful locations and the friendships, but more than anything, I hope people walk away remembering to give themselves grace,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhether you\u2019ve made a big mistake or a small one, remind yourself that difficult moments pass. Forgive yourself and simply try to do the best you can with the next opportunity you\u2019re given.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Garner has also experienced her own version of the gathering at the heart of the series.<\/p>\n<p>For her 50th birthday, she brought together friends and relatives from different stages of her life.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI basically threw myself a wedding,\u201d she said with a smile. \u201cI had my sisters, my parents, my best friend growing up, my best friend from college and my mom friends.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She admitted that mixing people from different chapters of her life initially made her anxious.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI definitely had a moment where I was like, \u2018Oh my gosh, what\u2019s going to happen?\u2019 You feel the need to manage it and make sure everyone\u2019s happy and getting along.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Garner said the experience also reminded her that people often become different versions of themselves within different relationships.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m a different person with the girl I grew up with than I am with the woman I went to college with, than I am with my adult best friends,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut because they\u2019re all amazing women, they laughed their way through whatever was hard, and it was incredible. I\u2019ll never forget it.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"On the surface, Hollis Shaw appears to have the life many people dream of: a successful culinary career,&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":555145,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[321,93,61,60],"class_list":["post-555144","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-celebrities","tag-celebrities","tag-entertainment","tag-ie","tag-ireland"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/555144","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=555144"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/555144\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/555145"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=555144"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=555144"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=555144"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}