{"id":556934,"date":"2026-07-19T04:01:13","date_gmt":"2026-07-19T04:01:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/556934\/"},"modified":"2026-07-19T04:01:13","modified_gmt":"2026-07-19T04:01:13","slug":"they-called-sam-neill-skux-it-was-a-compliment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/556934\/","title":{"rendered":"They Called Sam Neill \u2018Skux.\u2019 (It Was a Compliment.)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">On the sporting fields of New Zealand cities like Auckland and Wellington in the late 1990s and early 2000s, the slightly-too-cool kids were jokingly described with one word: \u201cskux.\u201d To be skux was to be popular, good-looking and also possibly a little bit conceited \u2014 ultimately it was a compliment.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">The word, which has somewhat fallen out of use in the intervening years, popped back up on social media this week in tributes following the death of the actor Sam Neill. While it may seem a random jumble of letters, in New Zealand, it is a term of endearment and affection.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">As with the origin stories of most slang terms, tracing the roots of \u201cskux\u201d is difficult, but the most common theory is that it emerged, as most good things do, by chance, in the New Zealand capital, Wellington.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">The New Zealand writer Madeleine Chapman traced the word\u2019s etymology for <a class=\"css-povzk\" href=\"https:\/\/thespinoff.co.nz\/society\/13-03-2026\/who-invented-the-word-skux-a-spinoff-investigation\" title=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">The Spinoff<\/a> website. She found that \u201cskux\u201d was predominantly used by men in New Zealand\u2019s Pacific communities in the late 1990s and early 2000s to refer to other men they thought were cool but vain.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">\u201cIt was a little bit sort of mocking a person for putting that much effort into their appearance, but at the same time, you couldn\u2019t be a skux unless you also looked good,\u201d Ms. Chapman said in an interview.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">Ms. Chapman wrote that the term most likely came into use around 1997, when two Samoan teenage boys living in Wellington saw an <a class=\"css-povzk\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=LCC1aVONuhc&amp;t=19s\" title=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Italian ad in which a good-looking man<\/a> used the term \u201cScacco matto\u201d (checkmate). The boys wondered if there was a Samoan word to describe a handsome man who would use a line similar to the Italian actor. They eventually settled on \u201cSikaki\u201d \u2014 which, coincidentally, means \u201cstudy,\u201d Ms. Chapman wrote.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">Over time, the word evolved, and \u201cskux\u201d entered New Zealanders\u2019 lexicon. (Different spellings are permissible. It is sometimes written as \u201cskuxx.\u201d)<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">The Samoan teenagers who coined the phrase went on to play international rugby. Ms. Chapman wrote that one of them, the All Blacks player Ma\u2019a Nonu, was given the moniker Skux.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">The word\u2019s definition has since evolved and now describes someone who knows \u201cthey\u2019re cool, but is even cooler than that\u201d and can be used for people of all ages, genders and backgrounds, Ms. Chapman said.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">Slang terms are often associated with a particular demographic, and so their use signals belonging to that group, said Arianna Berardi-Wiltshire, a linguistics lecturer at Massey University in New Zealand. But it is common for their definitions to become more generalized as they spread through the population, she added.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">The Canadian rapper Drake <a class=\"css-povzk\" href=\"https:\/\/www.rnz.co.nz\/news\/all\/372719\/review-drake-vector-arena\" title=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">used the term during his concert in Auckland in 2015<\/a>, and \u201cskux\u201d gained more international attention when it featured in the 2016 film \u201cHunt for the Wilderpeople,\u201d written and directed by Taika Waititi, a New Zealand native.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">In one scene, as the police close in on the gruff Uncle Hec (Mr. Neill) and the rebel Ricky (Julian Dennison), the younger New Zealander yells, \u201cI didn\u2019t choose the skux life, the skux life chose me,\u201d before crashing his car into a corrugated iron fence and yelling \u201cfreedom.\u201d The line made <a class=\"css-povzk\" href=\"https:\/\/www.stuff.co.nz\/entertainment\/film\/82434701\/live-the-skuxx-life-with-this-new-hunt-for-the-wilderpeople-clothing\" title=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">its way onto shirts and stickers<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">After the news of Mr. Neill\u2019s death, Mr. Dennison said in a post on social media that he would hold onto the lifetime of memories from making the film and thanked his co-star for being the \u201cskuxxest.\u201d The term was used in many other tributes to Mr. Neill. Skux also made its way into Mr. Neill\u2019s obituary on the <a class=\"css-povzk\" href=\"https:\/\/www.betootaadvocate.com\/sam-neill-dies-after-78-years-of-living-the-skux-life\/\" title=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Australian satirical website<\/a> The Betoota Advocate, which wrote that he had led \u201cthe skux life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">Mark Broatch, the author of \u201c100 Words That Make Us Kiwi,\u201d said a lot of New Zealand English is influenced by Australia, Britain, the United States, and Maori \u2014 the Indigenous language.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">\u201cI doubt any other form of English uses so much of the language of its first people. There has also been some Pasifika borrowing, given our place and role in the Pacific,\u201d he said, referring to people from the Pacific islands who now call New Zealand home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">Mr. Broatch said one peculiarity of New Zealand slang was the addition of \u201cy\u201d or \u201cie\u201d to words \u2014 seen in common local words: bikkie (biscuit), littlies (young children), mozzie (mosquito) and wettie (wet suit). A babycino \u2014 or kid-friendly cafe drink \u2014 in New Zealand is known as a \u201cfluffy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">Although skux has faded from New Zealand\u2019s lexicon, Mr. Neill\u2019s death this week saw a resurgence of the term. And Ms. Chapman said no one would dispute its application to Mr. Neill.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">\u201cThe original skuxes combined stereotypical masculine traits (rugby, power) with a gentler presentation (eye makeup, hair straightening, simply caring at all),\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-18blb2c e1me5xab0\">\u201cNeill was a classic Kiwi bloke but with a beautifully gentle way of presenting himself,\u201d she said, \u201cespecially in his love of land and animals. Very skux.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a aria-label=\"Show in comments panel\" class=\"css-8g8ihq css-1ixbp0l\" href=\"#\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/author-laura-chung-thumbLarge.png\" class=\"css-12b39xn\" alt=\"\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Laura Chung<\/p>\n<p>Reporter\/researcher<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-10iylmx\" style=\"-webkit-line-clamp:5\">This story got me thinking about the types of slang Australians use. As author Mark Broatch said in our interview, Australian slang tends to end in &#8220;o&#8221;. For example, avo (avocado), arvo (afternoon), servo (gas station). And I cannot forget about Macca&#8217;s (McDonald&#8217;s). It makes me wonder about the slang terms people from other places still hold onto.<\/p>\n<p><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"On the sporting fields of New Zealand cities like Auckland and Wellington in the late 1990s and early&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":556935,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[187891,986,321,13470,212777,93,61,60,232394,1261,158154,235500,58],"class_list":["post-556934","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-celebrities","tag-actors-and-actresses","tag-australia","tag-celebrities","tag-content-type-personal-profile","tag-english-language","tag-entertainment","tag-ie","tag-ireland","tag-neill","tag-new-zealand","tag-sam","tag-slang","tag-social-media"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/556934","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=556934"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/556934\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/556935"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=556934"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=556934"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=556934"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}