{"id":567270,"date":"2026-07-25T08:12:08","date_gmt":"2026-07-25T08:12:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/567270\/"},"modified":"2026-07-25T08:12:08","modified_gmt":"2026-07-25T08:12:08","slug":"life-as-a-family-lawyer-ive-had-cases-that-ended-in-death-the-irish-times","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/567270\/","title":{"rendered":"Life as a family lawyer: \u2018I\u2019ve had cases that ended in death\u2019 \u2013 The Irish Times"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cWhen I hear the news that another woman is dead, I almost get palpitations, I\u2019m thinking: \u2018Please don\u2019t let it be my client,\u2019\u201d says family law solicitor Sandra McAleer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cI\u2019m also thinking: \u2018Please don\u2019t let it be my client who did it.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">McAleer has acted for many women violently assaulted, in some cases killed, by partners or former partners. She has also represented men who are either victims of domestic violence or the perpetrators of it. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cSome cases still get to me, I\u2019ve had cases that ended in death, I\u2019ve attended funerals,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cYou do sometimes wonder could I have done something that would have helped to stop that. I\u2019ve been horrified by what some people can do.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Family law is difficult for all involved, with much at stake. Whether it is domestic violence, access or custody disputes over children, separation or divorce, it is often fraught with heightened emotions.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Over almost 20 years acting for clients in the family District Court complex in Dolphin House, the redbrick corner building located in Temple Bar in the heart of Dublin city centre, McAleer has experienced intimidation, warnings and even death threats.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cWhen things don\u2019t work out, some people turn on the lawyers. Some are really bad, I\u2019ve voice recordings of a man outside Dolphin House threatening to have me executed. I\u2019ve had posters threatening me put up along the quays,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">A man currently serving a prison sentence for a serious crime involving his partner threatened \u201cto bring me up the mountains\u201d, she adds.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Other family law colleagues have also received threats, including a female barrister who had a plastic knife held against her throat by a prisoner. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">McAleer was in Dolphin House in December 2015 when Judge Miriam Walsh <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/news\/crime-and-law\/courts\/circuit-court\/man-not-guilty-of-assaulting-judge-by-reason-of-insanity-1.3576509\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/news\/crime-and-law\/courts\/circuit-court\/man-not-guilty-of-assaulting-judge-by-reason-of-insanity-1.3576509\">was violently assaulted<\/a> by a man during a hearing concerning his elderly parents\u2019 application for a safety order against him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Garda\u00ed now maintain a permanent presence in the complex and visitors must pass through a security screening. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Unlike many colleagues, McAleer, from Balbriggan in north Co Dublin, has no family background in law. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Her father was a butcher and she grew up in a council house with parents who instilled in her a strong work ethic. \u201cNothing was ever handed to me on a plate,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph\">If an unmarried father is looking for access, it can take &#8230; a full year by the time the case is processed. That\u2019s one year of a child not seeing their dad. It can have a huge impact on how the child feels about seeing them at all<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">She studied hard and changed her mind about being an architect when she got enough points in her Leaving Certificate to study law and business. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Along the way, she played rugby and has 65 caps for Leinster and two for Ireland. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">McAleer logged her first family court experience in Dolphin House when working for a solicitor in Raheny on Dublin\u2019s northside and later moved to another firm in Baggot Street in the south city centre where the focus was on conveyancing. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">After the property crash, she built up a speciality in family law. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cEveryone was separating \u2013 when the money goes, the love follows,\u201d she says. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">After returning from maternity leave in 2010, she set up on her own. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cI was working in Dolphin House, I started with maybe four to five files a week and it kept getting busier and busier,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Her firm prospered and legal aid family law work now accounts for under half of its business, which also includes private family law, probate and conveyancing. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">McAleer is the top earner in the State from legal aid family work, with recent earnings of about \u20ac500,000 annually. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Out of that, she points out, she employs 14 people, paid \u20ac70,000 to a team of barristers, runs an office and pays insurance, along with all the other expenses of running a legal business.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Most clients are \u201cthe man, and woman, on the street\u201d and other clients are referred to her by domestic violence refuges and the domestic violence charities Women\u2019s Aid and Men\u2019s Aid.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">McAleer is among a group of solicitors and barristers who warned this month they will withdraw from family legal aid work unless the Minister for Justice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/jim-ocallaghan\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/jim-ocallaghan\/\">Jim O\u2019Callaghan<\/a> responds \u201cmeaningfully\u201d to their call for a fees increase and reform of a \u201ccrumbling\u201d family legal aid system.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Legal fees are in focus right now. The Minister is embroiled in a separate <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/crime-law\/courts\/2026\/07\/22\/withdrawal-of-services-by-some-criminal-legal-aid-solicitors-not-justified-says-martin\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/crime-law\/courts\/2026\/07\/22\/withdrawal-of-services-by-some-criminal-legal-aid-solicitors-not-justified-says-martin\/\">dispute with criminal defence solicitors<\/a> \u2013 unconnected with family law cases \u2013 where he is cutting legal aid paid by the State, introducing a flat-fee payment per client rather than paying solicitors for each court appearance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">In family law cases, legal aid payments are structured differently and cover work under three acts that deal with: guardianship\/access\/custody; maintenance; and domestic violence.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The pay rates, unchanged over 20 years, range from \u20ac339 for a single application for one client under one act, such as for access, to \u20ac423 for two applications under two different acts, and up to \u20ac518 for three applications under three acts. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cYou could have 10 summonses under one act, or an access row going on for nine months, but you still only get \u20ac339,\u201d she says. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The average fee for a private solicitor for a family law appearance is \u20ac800 to \u20ac1,500, she adds. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Family legal aid lawyers feel \u201clet down and underappreciated\u201d, she says. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph b-it-article-body__interstitial-link\">[\u00a0<a aria-label=\"Open related story\" class=\"c-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/crime-law\/courts\/2026\/07\/20\/judge-criticises-tusla-for-exposing-most-vulnerable-children-to-extreme-risk\/\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">If Tusla were a parent it would be prosecuted for neglect, judge saysOpens in new window<\/a>\u00a0]<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cWe feel because we have done this so long [the] Government just keeps ignoring us. I\u2019m 100 per cent sure unless something is done we will vote with our feet, not just in Dublin but around the country,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">She says there has been a \u201chuge exodus\u201d from family legal aid work because many lawyers regard it as not financially viable. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cI survive because I have a huge volume of cases but it\u2019s not feasible into the future. We get \u20ac339 for an access application that could last nine months to a year,\u201d she says. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cThe fees for one case in the Circuit Court could range between \u20ac15,000 and \u20ac20,000. Solicitors are voting with their feet.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cI\u2019m worried for the vulnerable clients, about what will happen to them, if we leave the panel, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/legal-aid-board\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/legal-aid-board\/\">Legal Aid Board<\/a> is overwhelmed.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Despite the pressures and threats, McAleer loves her work. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cI get great job satisfaction. The legal aid clients listen to me, I have a rapport with them, I often come out of court and give them a hug because I think they are so brave,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">She is dismayed when a client goes back to their abuser believing a promise to change behaviour. \u201cI call it the broken promise,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Clients in those situations are often embarrassed about seeking a fresh court order. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cI never say \u2018I told you so\u2019; I just say my door is always open,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cWe understand that to take a case against your partner is the biggest step anyone may ever take. I tell them: \u2018It\u2019s your life, live it in the best possible way, you can\u2019t live like this.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Delays in family law cases are \u201cshocking\u201d, she says, noting it may take six months or more to get \u201csection 32 reports\u201d by assessors, costing an average \u20ac3,700, who ascertain needs and wishes of children in access and custody disputes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cIf an unmarried father is looking for access, it can take up to six months to get a section 32 report and a full year by the time the case is processed,\u201d she says. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cThat\u2019s one year of a child not seeing their dad; it can have a huge impact on how the child feels about seeing them at all.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">In family law, the courts particularly need settlements and lawyers are key to those, she says. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cMost cases settle. We\u2019re often telling people what they don\u2019t want to hear, just explaining the law. Family law is especially about compromise \u2013 there are no winners.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u201cWhen I hear the news that another woman is dead, I almost get palpitations, I\u2019m thinking: \u2018Please don\u2019t&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":567271,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[5721,61,60,18573,214795,43],"class_list":["post-567270","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-ireland","tag-district-court","tag-ie","tag-ireland","tag-jim-ocallaghan","tag-legal-aid-board","tag-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/567270","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=567270"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/567270\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/567271"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=567270"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=567270"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=567270"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}