{"id":57418,"date":"2025-10-02T15:27:07","date_gmt":"2025-10-02T15:27:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/57418\/"},"modified":"2025-10-02T15:27:07","modified_gmt":"2025-10-02T15:27:07","slug":"trumps-tylenol-and-autism-speech-will-have-serious-consequences-i-should-know","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/57418\/","title":{"rendered":"Trump\u2019s Tylenol-and-autism speech will have serious consequences. I should know."},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"21\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmg8ddfxl001s357a3ro2pmb1@published\"><a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/theslatest?utm_source=slate&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=article_plain_text_topper\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Sign up for the Slatest<\/a> to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"96\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmg8daft00012cxkvv5xlt5kl@published\">The Trump administration\u2019s announcement last week linking the use of acetaminophen by pregnant women to their children\u2019s autism was (as <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/news-and-politics\/2025\/09\/trump-tylenol-rfk-jr-vaccines-autism-pregnant-women.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">many<\/a> have by now <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/technology\/2025\/09\/trump-tylenol-rfk-jr-autism-vaccines-pediatrician-parents.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">argued<\/a>) alarmist, unsupported, and irresponsible. To appreciate the depths of the harm the idea could cause, we need to understand the saga of mother blame in the story of autism. One of the most pernicious myths in this history was the mid-20th-century idea that \u201crefrigerator mothers\u201d\u2014cold, intellectual, working mothers\u2014caused their children\u2019s autism. Historians who study this period, including me, wonder whether the refrigerator mother is now being reincarnated as the Tylenol mother.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"141\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmg8dcacb000o357a30hvimf9@published\">Like many other myths, the idea of the refrigerator mother was born out of ignorance, in this case about the causes of autism. When child psychiatrist Leo Kanner first defined infantile autism as a condition in 1943, he argued that it likely had an organic origin, because newborns displayed their unique characteristics from birth. However, influenced by the widespread belief within psychiatry and psychoanalysis that mothers determined their children\u2019s psychological development, in the late 1940s Kanner said that autistic children withdrew into autism to escape their cold, unfeeling mothers who did not display maternal warmth. For him, autistic children were kept in \u201crefrigerators that did not defrost.\u201d A 1948 piece in Time magazine, \u201cFrosted Children,\u201d announced Kanner\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/31761801\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">change of heart<\/a>. Without any evidence describing mechanisms by which mothers could make such a change in their children, the refrigerator mother was born.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"93\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmg8dcag7000p357adg6zfrgs@published\">Mothers were often categorized as emotionally cold simply because they had intellectual interests or wanted to work outside the home. Any mother who had aspirations beyond caring for her child was automatically suspected of being a bad mother. Although Kanner was the originator of the idea, the refrigerator mother has since become associated with the name of psychoanalyst Bruno Bettelheim. This connection was not completely undeserved. Though he never used the term, Bettelheim laid plenty of blame on the mothers of autistic children without providing any empirical or clinical support for his views.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"179\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmg8dcaji000q357amxtl2gxj@published\">Sadly, myths can have real consequences for real human beings, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?client=firefox-b-e&amp;channel=entpr&amp;q=Refrigerator+Mothers+documentary#fpstate=ive&amp;vld=cid:09eab5ff,vid:mgz3tvqBQ4o,st:0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">the refrigerator mother myth<\/a> deeply hurt mothers and autistic children. Just imagine: Your infant cries a lot, does not reach out to you, and does not eat well. You are sleep-deprived and worried sick. When you consult specialists, they say it is all your fault. Though you may behave and feel like a good mother, they tell you that deep down you reject your own child. This was devastating to many mothers, contributing to depression and anxiety that made it more difficult for them to take care of their autistic children. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/dp\/0807025623\/?tag=slatmaga-20\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Clara Park<\/a>, one mother who went to a child clinic with her autistic daughter in the early 1960s, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Siege-Clara-Claiborne-Park\/dp\/0316690694\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">said of the experience<\/a> that she felt like she was \u201con trial.\u201d She would later describe this time, which sent her into a depression, like this: \u201cWe know now in our skins that the most threatening of all attacks is the attack on the sense of personal worth, that the harshest of all deprivations is the deprivation of respect.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"138\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmg8dcamk000r357aa9psc5rr@published\">The refrigerator mother theory was just as cruel for autistic children. Instead of providing support for these children, many psychiatrists and psychoanalysts recommended therapy for their mothers. Some influential ones, such as Bettelheim, also recommended that autistic children be taken away from their mothers as quickly as possible. For most autistic children, the disruption of their lives and the absence of a supportive family environment had damaging consequences. Many of them ended up in poorly run institutions that did not meet their most basic needs. And the focus on refrigerator mothers took away time and resources needed to understand autism and develop supports for autistic people. The idea also led to underdiagnosis for autistic kids from nonwhite families who weren\u2019t middle or upper class, because doctors didn\u2019t see their mothers as \u201cintellectual,\u201d as they might wealthier white women.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"158\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmg8dcaq4000s357au2jg60dr@published\">Parents, researchers, and autistic advocates spent several decades reaching an understanding of the condition that encompassed all of its complexity. In the United States, Bernard Rimland, psychologist and father of an autistic child, <a href=\"https:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/record\/1965-02400-000\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">published a book<\/a> arguing that autism was a biological condition in 1964. A year later, parents formed the National Society for Autistic Children. In 1967, Park challenged the scientific establishment and dared to say that a mother could have intellectual interests without damaging her children\u2019s psyches. Intelligence and love are not natural enemies, she boldly proclaimed. Other mothers of autistic children, including Ruth Sullivan, Margaret Dewey, and Frances Eberhardy, raised their voices as well. Solid research showed that autism is a complex neurodevelopmental condition that manifests itself in different ways. Lorna Wing, British psychiatrist and mother of an autistic child, helped to get autism defined as a spectrum. Autistic advocates have since successfully fought for social supports and for ending the stigmatization of autistic people.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"203\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmg8dcath000t357azsrm8769@published\">The idea of the \u201cTylenol mother\u201d sets us back decades on all of these fronts. By oversimplifying the causes of a multifaceted condition, the focus on acetaminophen will distract from serious research on the complex ways the interaction of genetic and environmental factors leads to the different forms of autism. By presenting autism as a disaster of apocalyptic dimensions (\u201chorrible crisis\u201d and \u201cone of the most alarming developments in history\u201d), Trump negated the diversity of autism and overlooked the perspective of many autistic people who have embraced their autistic identity. That encourages the stigmatization of the condition once again. And by putting the focus on the behavior of pregnant women, his administration implies that mothers are to be blamed for their children\u2019s conditions. Trump called on pregnant women in need of medication to \u201ctough it out.\u201d By implication, a gestating woman who takes acetaminophen would be \u201cweak\u201d and risk harming her fetus. In short, she would be a bad mother. Can you imagine the stress on a pregnant woman? We went from the emotionally cold refrigerator mother to the weak-willed Tylenol mother, perpetuating the scrutiny of pregnant women, the suspiciousness about mothers\u2019 behaviors and feelings, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Good-Mother-Myth-Unlearning-Ideas\/dp\/1250336643\/ref=sr_1_1?crid=27PPQ8P2FSO0O&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.nVlUWEEfKs-aORoWthaQu-NPfij_OmeGLdOulCNdxo0.zicZsAT36TgqAfnZZsGQj0TzSwv5wi2fWi-lCjCaf5E&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=nancy+reddy+good+mother&amp;qid=1759318835&amp;sprefix=Nancy+Reddy%2Caps%2C163&amp;sr=8-1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">our culture\u2019s general habit of mother blame.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>    <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/life\/2025\/07\/medicaid-big-beautiful-bill-trump-child-disability.html\" class=\"recirc-line__content\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><\/p>\n<p>          <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/985d8187-ab87-49bc-9d12-8f2b926ee9e4.jpeg\" width=\"141\" height=\"94\"   alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/p>\n<p>\n          Maria Kefalas<br \/>\n        I Studied Poverty for Years. 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No One Saw the Real Culprit Coming.<br \/>\n          <\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"145\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmg8dcaw2000u357a89cpvdmx@published\">Prenatal factors that can affect a fetus\u2019 development do exist, and are very important, but we <a href=\"https:\/\/press.uchicago.edu\/ucp\/books\/book\/chicago\/M\/bo117202096.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">must research and discuss them<\/a> in ways that don\u2019t blame mothers, create public alarm, and contribute to new harmful myths. Mothers, in fact, are the first ones who want to avoid harming their children. In the past, we asked women to give up their careers for the sake of their children. Despite the alarmist warnings, there was no evidence that their having a job harmed children. Today, are we going to ask pregnant women to risk their physical well-being and increase their anxiety without sufficient evidence? The \u201cTylenol mother\u201d idea comes at a time when mothers are also <a href=\"https:\/\/www.motherjones.com\/media\/2025\/07\/gabor-mate-moms-are-not-to-blame-for-adhd\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">being blamed<\/a> for causing ADHD by being too stressed out during their kids\u2019 infancies\u2014an idea unsupported by science, but so popular now as to be bandied about on Joe Rogan\u2019s podcast.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"100\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmg8dcaz1000v357a3p2piihy@published\">We need to raise the bar for scientists and for politicians, and we need to stop blaming mothers. When scientists or science communicators exaggerate the significance of their findings, they undermine our trust in science. When politicians use poor studies as a basis for health policy, they undermine our trust in government. Scientific beliefs are powerful tools. Given that mother blame is still prevalent in our society, let\u2019s be cautious when we make claims about how a mother\u2019s behavior impacts her child\u2019s development. As the history of autism shows, mother blame can have cruel consequences for mothers and their children.<\/p>\n<p>          <img alt=\"\" class=\"newsletter-signup__img\" hidden=\"\" data-src-light=\"https:\/\/dot.cdnslate.com\/static\/media\/components\/newsletter-signup\/the-slatest.49f353b.png\" data-src-dark=\"https:\/\/dot.cdnslate.com\/static\/media\/components\/newsletter-signup\/the-slatest-dark.ca73d21.png\" width=\"130\" height=\"58.7\"\/><\/p>\n<p>      Sign up for Slate&#8217;s evening newsletter.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":57419,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[6128,103,397,2284,61,60,2211,371,17779,9386,413,89,82,2243],"class_list":{"0":"post-57418","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-medication","8":"tag-autism","9":"tag-health","10":"tag-health-care","11":"tag-history","12":"tag-ie","13":"tag-ireland","14":"tag-kids","15":"tag-medication","16":"tag-motherhood","17":"tag-pregnancy","18":"tag-psychology","19":"tag-research","20":"tag-science","21":"tag-slate-plus"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57418","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=57418"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57418\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/57419"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=57418"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=57418"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=57418"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}