{"id":580144,"date":"2026-08-02T10:45:15","date_gmt":"2026-08-02T10:45:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/580144\/"},"modified":"2026-08-02T10:45:15","modified_gmt":"2026-08-02T10:45:15","slug":"man-gets-barring-order-against-son-who-threatened-to-kill-him-the-irish-times","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/580144\/","title":{"rendered":"Man gets barring order against son who threatened to kill him \u2013 The Irish Times"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">An elderly man  who said his son had threatened to kill him has been granted an interim barring order against him, having received similar orders in the past. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Reading the man\u2019s written statement at Dublin District Family Court earlier this week, Judge Gerard Furlong said: \u201cHe threatened you and said he\u2019d effing kill you. You rang garda\u00ed and they advised you to come back here.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The court heard the middle-aged son lived in the man\u2019s home. Another son, who is his carer, also lives with him. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Furlong said he would give the man, who is in his late 70s, another barring order, telling him his son was \u201cnot to go to your home, he\u2019s not to watch your home, he\u2019s not to use violence or threaten violence, follow you or contact you\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">He told the man to come back to the court in two weeks when  \u201cyou\u2019ll be looking for a three-year order\u201d, to which the man replied: \u201cThat\u2019s what I want. Longer.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">In another case, a woman who said her former partner repeatedly harassed her, asked her for money and drugs, and threatened to come to her house to \u201cshut me up\u201d was granted a protection order against him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The man also sent her messages threatening to end his own life. She said her former partner had keys for her father\u2019s home and jewellery \u201chad gone missing\u201d. She said the man had also stolen money from her father\u2019s bank account and had accused her of cheating during their relationship.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The woman, whose mother had recently died, said she had \u201cno time to grieve with 100 texts a day\u201d. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Offering his condolences, the judge said: \u201cThese are matters you really need to get the guards involved with. Without hesitation, I\u2019m giving you a protection order. I want to stop these texts and I want to stop him following you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph b-it-article-body__interstitial-link\">[\u00a0<a aria-label=\"Open related story\" class=\"c-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/crime-law\/2026\/08\/01\/law-society-flags-remaining-issues-in-dispute-over-legal-aid-changes\/\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Law Society flags remaining issues in dispute over legal aid changesOpens in new window<\/a>\u00a0]<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Another woman, who co-parents one child with her former partner, was also granted an interim protection order. The applicant said the relationship \u201cwas on and off for three years\u201d and ended in 2023. \u201cHe made me and our two-year-old leave his home,\u201d she said. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">On access visits, she said their child was being fed at irregular times and was dropped home with bloated nappies. She said the man had also taken the child out of the country without permission. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Her former partner had anger issues and self-injurious behaviour, including pulling his hair out and banging his head against the wall, while in the presence of her child. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">She said she experienced coercive control and physical abuse which caused her  \u201csignificant distress\u201d, resulting in her taking anxiety medication. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \"> She  lives alone with her child and the man could show up at her home \u201cat any time of the night\u201d, she said.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Furlong told the woman: \u201cYou are the sole custodian, that is our law. If he is not happy, he has to come to court to get an order.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph b-it-article-body__interstitial-link\">[\u00a0<a aria-label=\"Open related story\" class=\"c-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/crime-law\/2026\/08\/01\/motorist-caught-driving-172kmh-as-gardai-detect-almost-1600-speeding-offences\/\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Motorist caught driving at 172km\/h as garda\u00ed detect almost 1,600 speeding offencesOpens in new window<\/a>\u00a0]<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">He said  she could apply for a maintenance order for the child, but \u201cbecause you are not married, we can\u2019t get maintenance for you\u201d. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \"> He also granted a \u201cno contact order\u201d and said the man could only text her regarding child access. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cHe tells me the child will be taken off me,\u201d the woman said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cI have no doubt you are a good mother. Regain your self-confidence and know that you are in charge,\u201d the judge told her. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cI have never wanted to take the dad away from my son,\u201d the woman said, with Furlong replying: \u201cThere are times when the behaviour necessitates that.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">He granted her an interim protection order and said her child was protected  under it also. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"An elderly man who said his son had threatened to kill him has been granted an interim barring&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":580145,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[615,61,60,43],"class_list":["post-580144","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-ireland","tag-dublin","tag-ie","tag-ireland","tag-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/580144","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=580144"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/580144\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/580145"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=580144"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=580144"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=580144"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}