{"id":587745,"date":"2026-08-09T07:44:12","date_gmt":"2026-08-09T07:44:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/587745\/"},"modified":"2026-08-09T07:44:12","modified_gmt":"2026-08-09T07:44:12","slug":"we-were-just-teenagers-women-abused-while-babysitting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/587745\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;We were just teenagers&#8217; &#8211; women abused while babysitting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>On 27 July last, two brothers from the midlands who sexually assaulted teenage girls in the mid-1990s were identified for the first time. <\/p>\n<p>John (Johnny) Owens, aged 72, with an address at Cois Abhainn, Multyfarnham, Co Westmeath, was jailed last February for eight years. <\/p>\n<p>He pleaded guilty to nine counts of sexual assault of three teenage girls, Deirdre Boyhan, Sin\u00e9ad Nally and Aoife O&#8217;Dwyer, on dates between July 1992 and November 1996. <\/p>\n<p>He could not be identified at the time because his brother, Martin Owens, aged 66, was facing trial for sexual assaults of Deirdre Boyhan as well as her sister Lorraine Kiernan. <\/p>\n<p>In April, Martin Owens of Greenville, Dublin Road, Castlepollard, Co Westmeath, pleaded guilty at the Central Criminal Court to sexually assaulting Deirdre Boyhan and Lorraine Kiernan on dates in 1994 and 1996. <\/p>\n<p>In July, he pleaded guilty to four more counts of sexually assaulting Deirdre Boyhan on dates in 1994 and 1995. <\/p>\n<p>He was jailed for five years. <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rte.ie\/news\/courts\/2026\/0727\/1585343-john-martin-owens\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">The court heard the women were aged 14 to 17 and were babysitting when the abuse happened<\/a>. <\/p>\n<p>Three of the women &#8211; Deirdre Boyhan, Aoife O&#8217;Dwyer and Sin\u00e9ad Nally &#8211; spoke to Midlands Correspondent Sin\u00e9ad Hussey about the two predator brothers and their 30-year journey to justice. <\/p>\n<p>In early May 2023, Deirdre Boyhan sat in the cathedral across from Mullingar Garda Station, clutching a bottle of Rescue Remedy.<\/p>\n<p>For 30 years, she had been hiding from the past.<\/p>\n<p>But something had changed within her, and she knew that this secret which she had kept buried for so long, had to be told.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I just thought, I have to do this. I&#8217;m going to walk across the road, and I am going to tell my story, and I have to let it take its course from there,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>At the counter in the public office, Ms Boyhan asked to speak to a detective and over the next few hours she recalled the horrific sexual abuse committed by Johnny and Martin Owens.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It became overwhelming,&#8221; Ms Boyhan explained. She was working as a special needs assistant at the time and &#8220;it took me completely by surprise&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A girl posing for a picture\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/0024d027-614.jpg\"\/><br \/>\nDeirdre Boyhan, pictured aged 16, felt she &#8216;was trying to keep a balloon under the water&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I was looking at these teenage kids, goofy and carefree, with not a care in the world.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It became far more apparent to me how wrong it was, what had happened to me.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I thought, I can&#8217;t keep this in, I felt like I was trying to keep a balloon under the water,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>That May evening, inside Mullingar Garda Station, Detective Garda Adrian O&#8217;Reilly sat with Ms Boyhan and listened to her recount the abuse she had suffered.<\/p>\n<p>She was just shy of 15 when the abuse began. It ended when she was 17.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He was amazing. He sat me down and we spoke at length. He listened to my story, to what I was telling him,&#8221; Ms Boyhan said.<\/p>\n<p>She added: &#8220;He [Det Gda O&#8217;Reilly] was very understanding and caring and he explained how he was going to put me in contact with the Protective Services Unit.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;When she told me, I burst out crying&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Before reporting the abuse, Ms Boyhan had begun contacting other women who she knew had babysat for Johnny and Martin Owens.<\/p>\n<p>What she didn&#8217;t know was her younger sister, Lorraine Kiernan, had also been sexually assaulted by Martin Owens.<\/p>\n<p>It was only during a conversation about the abuse Ms Boyhan had suffered and her decision to go the garda\u00ed, that she found out about Lorraine.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I didn&#8217;t know about her until I spoke to her and told her I was going to bring this forward.<\/p>\n<p>Watch: &#8216;It wasn&#8217;t actually my fault&#8217; &#8211; Aoife O&#8217;Dwyer<\/p>\n<p alt=\"'It wasn't actually my fault' - sexual abuse survivor discusses experience of burying abuse\" data-embed=\"comcast-player\" data-guid=\"epic-mpx-manual-35841\" data-id=\"ifciKueeuuQ5\" data-thumbnail=\"https:\/\/www.rte.ie\/images\/0024d03b-900.jpg\">\n<p>&#8220;We hugged and we cried and we&#8217;re very close and people who know us as a family know that and I couldn&#8217;t get over this,&#8221; Ms Boyhan said.<\/p>\n<p>Sin\u00e9ad Nally, Ms Boyhan&#8217;s neighbour and friend, also babysat for Johnny and Martin Owens.<\/p>\n<p>The women know each other all their lives and their families are close.<\/p>\n<p>Suspecting she too could have been a victim, Deirdre said she invited Sin\u00e9ad over for a chat and a cup of tea.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sinead Nally, aged 16, poses for a photo in a garden\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/0024d093-614.jpg\"\/><br \/>\nSin\u00e9ad Nally, pictured aged 16, thought the abuse only happened to her<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;When she told me, I burst out crying, because I thought it only ever happened me,&#8221; Ms Nally said.<\/p>\n<p>She went on to explain how she then felt guilty because she had got the job for Ms Boyhan.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;When I left and went to college Deirdre took over from me, and I felt really bad, but I thought this was only happening to me, and it wasn&#8217;t going to happen anyone else.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You&#8217;re only a child, you don&#8217;t understand,&#8221; she sobbed.<\/p>\n<p>On 9 May 2023, Aoife O&#8217;Dwyer received a message on her Facebook messenger from Ms Boyhan.<\/p>\n<p>When the message appeared on her phone, she knew exactly what it was about.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Deirdre asked me to give her a call about something sensitive, and I knew straight away,&#8221; Ms O\u2019Dwyer said.<\/p>\n<p>Becoming emotional, she explained, that like Sin\u00e9ad, she thought she was the only one.<\/p>\n<p>For years, the mother-of-two had kept what had happened to her buried deep within, blaming herself for the abuse.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I developed very early; I was wearing a bra at 12. I blamed myself and I didn&#8217;t think anything happened to anyone else,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>Watch: &#8216;Free yourself from it&#8217; &#8211; Deirdre Boyhan<\/p>\n<p alt=\"'Free yourself from it' - sexual abuse survivor urges others to seek support\" data-embed=\"comcast-player\" data-guid=\"epic-mpx-manual-35840\" data-id=\"r50k1ZvH0npq\" data-thumbnail=\"https:\/\/www.rte.ie\/images\/0024d03a-900.jpg\">\n<p>After the initial contact, it took Ms O&#8217;Dwyer some time to share her story with Ms Boyhan.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I told Deirdre I was sorry it happened to her and that while he was a bit handsy with me, nothing had happened.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;After the call, I gathered myself and I rang my partner. When he got home from work that night, I told him about the abuse,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>For around three weeks Ms O&#8217;Dwyer said she put on a brave face to the outside world but inside she was crumbling.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;For 30 years, I always thought it was me, it was my fault, it was something about me.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A girl posing for a photo\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/0024d026-614.jpg\"\/><br \/>\nSin\u00e9ad Nally in another image taken when she was aged 16<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You have this secret and hope that no matter what, no one will ever find out.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You become paranoid, you don\u2019t like yourself, you feel disgusting. You just bury it and hope nobody will ever know,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>However, after speaking with her partner and her mother, Ms O&#8217;Dwyer decided to go to garda\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;When I started the process and spoke with Detective Garda Aidan Hynes, I began to realise, it&#8217;s not my fault, I didn&#8217;t do anything wrong.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We were children, we were just teenagers,&#8221; she added.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Kings in their own castles&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>At the sentencing hearing of Johnny Owens last February, Justice Eileen Creedon said he had targeted the victims.<\/p>\n<p>She said his acts were gross violations, which took place on a continuous and extremely frequent basis.<\/p>\n<p>The court heard that Johnny Owens would repeatedly molest the girls whenever he got them alone.<\/p>\n<p>At the sentencing hearing of Martin Owens last month, Justice Tony Hunt said that he had groomed the girls and in the case of Ms Boyhan, plied her with alcohol.<\/p>\n<p>He said Martin Owens was a trusted employer in a well-known local business who had engaged in the sexual exploitation of two children who had put their trust in him.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You do feel vindicated and that was very important for us as a group. It took us a long time to find our voice.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He said these were not impulsive or youthful acts but were the actions of a mature person who would undoubtedly know what he was doing was wrong.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;When Johnny and Martin Owens were working and living their lives, they knew the indelible mark they had left and the untold harm they did,&#8221; Ms Boyhan said.<\/p>\n<p>Looking back now she said Johnny, who was married with children, was seen as a &#8220;decent fella&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He didn\u2019t drink a whole pile&#8221; and then &#8220;he\u2019d drop us home, all the while he was trying to use us and abuse us,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>Ms Boyhan added: &#8220;Johnny in particular was well got. People loved the jack the lad way he went on.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Unfortunately, some of us knew two sides of him and it was suffocating to keep that in.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He was far too big of a character, and his brother was the same.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>At the time of the abuse, Johnny Owens ran a successful business and provided huge employment in the area. Martin Owens, his brother, worked with him.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This was the 1990s. There wasn&#8217;t a load of money around,&#8221; Ms Nally said.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Middle aged, balding white man with stubble wearing a dickie bow\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/0024d02a-614.jpg\"\/><br \/>\nMartin Owens was sentenced to five years in prison (pic: Westmeath Topic)<\/p>\n<p>She added: &#8220;In some houses, there were a few people from the one family working there so a lot of families were depending on them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The women said locally the men were seen as pillars of the community, known for being hard-working and generous.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They sponsored so many local teams, when money was needed, they did so much,&#8221; Ms O\u2019Dwyer said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They were definitely sitting as kings in their own castles, they were untouchable,&#8221; Ms Boyhan said.<\/p>\n<p>And so, for 30 years, the women said nothing, but all of them were struggling in their own way to deal with what happened.<\/p>\n<p>When they decided to report the abuse in the summer of 2023, they knew a difficult journey lay ahead.<\/p>\n<p>Women accused of &#8216;doing it for money&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>In late 2023, Martin Owens was arrested and questioned. His brother Johnny was arrested in January 2024.<\/p>\n<p>When word of this began to filter through the local community, the women said they were subjected to false accusations, intimidation and hurtful comments.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We live in a small community, everybody knows everybody,&#8221; Ms Nally said.<\/p>\n<p>The women said they were accused of &#8220;doing it for money&#8221; while others told them that because it happened 30 years ago, they should &#8220;let it go&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;People said these men are pillars of the community and look at the employment they gave,&#8221; Ms Nally said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Basically, people thought because these men employed a lot of people and gave money to the GAA, they could do what they want.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We were also told we were going to split the community over it,&#8221; she added.<\/p>\n<p>Even after the men were charged, the women said they continued to deny the allegations publicly.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"An Elderly man posing for a picture\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/0024d025-614.jpg\"\/><br \/>\nJohn Owens was jailed last February for eight years (pic: Westmeath Topic)<\/p>\n<p>In the pub and in the workplace, they made light of the serious allegations they faced, the women said.<\/p>\n<p>Yet Ms O\u2019Dwyer stressed that &#8220;both Johnny and Martin Owens pleaded guilty in court&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;All of that emotionally is crushing, absolutely crushing and you have to pick yourself up each time,&#8221; Ms Boyhan said.<\/p>\n<p>She added: &#8220;But the detective said from the start, trust the process and we had to trust the process.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ms Boyhan said she was also questioned about why she took up a job at the business in later years.<\/p>\n<p>She explained that it came about after she returned from college and she was offered the job following a chance meeting between her father, a family friend and Johnny Owens in Mullingar.<\/p>\n<p>Despite her concerns, she said she &#8220;had no good reason to the outside world not to take the job&#8221;, considering she was unemployed and this was a job that was well-paid, local and in her field of studies.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I make no apology for working up there and I don&#8217;t need to justify that; it was of its time,&#8221; Ms Boyhan said.<\/p>\n<p>Waiving their right to anonymity<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Survivors of John and Martin Owens outside court\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/0024c411-614.jpg\"\/><br \/>\nThe women speaking to the media outside court in July<\/p>\n<p>On 27 July last, the women stood on the steps outside the Courts of Criminal Justice in Dublin, after waiving their right to anonymity.<\/p>\n<p>The criminal case had concluded and both men were identified.<\/p>\n<p>For the first time, Ms O\u2019Dwyer said they all felt a huge weight lifted off their shoulders.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I always wanted it in black and white, because so many people had doubted us.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I believed if it\u2019s printed and it&#8217;s in ink; people can\u2019t deny it. These men pleaded guilty to what they did, and people need to know that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A girl kneeling for a team photo\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/0024d024-614.jpg\"\/><br \/>\n&#8216;So many people had doubted us&#8217;, says Aoife O&#8217;Dwyer, pictured as a teenager<\/p>\n<p>Ms Boyhan said the lid had finally been lifted on the litany of abuse carried out by the brothers.<\/p>\n<p>She added: &#8220;You do feel that bit lighter. I watched many, many interviews with different people over the years, who have come forward and my heart would break.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I used to be straight back there and think, would I ever be able to speak about it?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>With the court process now behind them, the women acknowledge the long-lasting impact the abuse has had on them.<\/p>\n<p>Watch: Sin\u00e9ad Nally discusses impact of abuse on school life<\/p>\n<p alt=\"Sexual abuse survivor says abuse affected her school experience\" data-embed=\"comcast-player\" data-guid=\"epic-mpx-manual-35842\" data-id=\"o2osqHH6v6iK\" data-thumbnail=\"https:\/\/www.rte.ie\/images\/0024d03c-900.jpg\">\n<p>&#8220;We survived our lives for 30 years, not lived them,&#8221; Ms O\u2019Dwyer said.<\/p>\n<p>She added: &#8220;We had to bring everything that we buried so deep down to the surface. You have to deal with it; there\u2019s no burying it anymore.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It affects everyone around you, you\u2019ve to tell your family, your friends, your work colleagues and you are worried for them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Becoming emotional, Ms Nally said she believes her life would have been different had she not been abused.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I built a wall around me, and no one got in. Even when it came to partners, I had awful problems.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I still have trust issues, and I never had children because I never met anyone until I was in my 40s. My life could have been so different,&#8221; she cried.<\/p>\n<p>Outpouring of support locally<\/p>\n<p>The women said that since the publicity around their case, there has been an outpouring of support.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We\u2019ve been getting so many messages, people have sent cards and letters, some are from people we don\u2019t even know,&#8221; Ms O\u2019Dwyer said.<\/p>\n<p>She added: &#8220;I had a woman call into me in work last week and she said she has met me every day in work for 20 years and I\u2019m always smiling.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;She asked me, &#8216;how did I hide it?&#8217; But that\u2019s what you do.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ms Nally described it as putting &#8220;on a mask&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I\u2019ve had girls who went to school with me come up and say that I was always in good form in school, but that was all a front,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>Ms Nally added: &#8220;It\u2019s like you overcompensate to make people think you\u2019re really normal.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A girl smiling while posing for a picture\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/0024d02b-614.jpg\"\/><br \/>\nLorraine Kiernan, who is the sister of Deirdre Boyhan, pictured at age 14<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It\u2019s great to get the support now because we have been through the ringer with the attitude at the beginning when all this came out.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You do feel vindicated and that was very important for us as a group,&#8221; Ms Boyhan said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It took us a long time to find our voice,&#8221; she added.<\/p>\n<p>The women are now urging anyone impacted by sexual abuse to seek support, and they are hoping their story will show others that justice is possible.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We found the Dublin Rape Crisis Centre brilliant, they were there for us throughout,&#8221; Ms O\u2019Dwyer said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If your case is brought forward and you end up in court, they are invaluable. We had no idea of the work they did, they have been incredible,&#8221; Ms Boyhan added.<\/p>\n<p>The women said they decided to speak out, not only for themselves, but for others.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We\u2019re very ordinary people but this is attainable,&#8221; Ms Boyhan said.<\/p>\n<p>She added: &#8220;From day one I said to the detective, I don\u2019t have anything to lose. I came armed with the truth and that\u2019s all we have.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It is a slow process, and people are innocent until they are proven guilty, and we understand that.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But if it is something that hasn\u2019t gone away for you personally, speak to somebody, and free yourself from it.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"On 27 July last, two brothers from the midlands who sexually assaulted teenage girls in the mid-1990s were&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":587746,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[61,60,43],"class_list":["post-587745","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-ireland","tag-ie","tag-ireland","tag-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/587745","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=587745"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/587745\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/587746"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=587745"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=587745"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=587745"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}