{"id":609187,"date":"2026-08-30T11:44:11","date_gmt":"2026-08-30T11:44:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/609187\/"},"modified":"2026-08-30T11:44:11","modified_gmt":"2026-08-30T11:44:11","slug":"woman-secures-protection-order-against-husband-who-doesnt-believe-in-childs-eating-disorder-the-irish-times","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/609187\/","title":{"rendered":"Woman secures protection order against husband who \u2018doesn\u2019t believe\u2019 in child\u2019s eating disorder \u2013 The Irish Times"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">A woman who claimed her husband \u201cdoesn\u2019t believe\u201d in their child\u2019s eating disorder, and did not allow her to vaccinate their children during the Covid-19 pandemic, has been granted a protection order.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The woman sought the emergency order at the Dublin District Family Court on Friday, telling Judge John Brennan she feels \u201cunsafe\u201d at home with her husband.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The couple \u201cnearly lost\u201d their child to anorexia, she said, with Brennan hearing the man \u201cdoesn\u2019t believe anorexia is a mental illness\u201d and blamed their child for \u201cdestroying the family\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The woman said her husband believed their child \u201cdeliberately stopped eating\u201d and that he has put the child \u201cthrough hell\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">She said her husband had been \u201cthreatening\u201d in the past, including on one occasion after she spent about \u20ac4 from their joint account on a hot chocolate for their child. She said she rarely sees her husband eat and that he had lost a significant amount of weight.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Describing the years of the Covid-19 pandemic as \u201chorrendous\u201d, she said she believed she was a victim of coercive control, alleging she was told who she could or could not see at the time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">She said her husband was \u201cdefiant\u201d against government regulations during the pandemic and that she \u201cwasn\u2019t allowed\u201d to have her children vaccinated.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cI can\u2019t describe how horrific it was during that time,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cHe started up again about a week ago saying it\u2019s \u2018all going to come out soon\u2019 about the conspiracy, about the Covid lockdowns, that it was all fake.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">She added: \u201cIt\u2019s very sad; I think my husband\u2019s not well.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The woman said she feels \u201cunsafe\u201d at home with her husband, describing a \u201ctenseness\u201d, while her younger child had \u201cpleaded\u201d with her to \u201cget him to leave\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Brennan granted a protection order on an ex parte (one side represented only) basis. The temporary order, which could see the man arrested should he put the woman in fear for her safety, will remain in place until a full hearing on the matter at a later date.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The woman was one of several people to seek such orders on Friday, some of whom alleged sexual assault, threats to their life and partners \u201cwithholding\u201d milk from their baby during arguments.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">In one case, a woman was granted a protection order against her former partner after the judge heard he allegedly \u201cjumped\u201d on top of and \u201cstrangled\u201d her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cHe was sitting on top of my chest and he had his hands around my neck and he was choking me,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The incident happened several days prior, the woman alleged, adding that it was after they had gone to a pub for an event.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cI told him he was going to kill me if he didn\u2019t stop and he said: \u2018Yeah, I know\u2019,\u201d she told the judge.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The woman added that the man subsequently \u201cpunched\u201d her in the face with a closed fist and kicked her \u201ctwo or three times in the head and in the side\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">She suffered a fractured nose and had \u201cstrangle marks\u201d on her neck, she said, adding that she was concerned things might escalate as she had reported the alleged assault to garda\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cHe\u2019s told me he\u2019s going to destroy my life,\u201d she added. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cIt\u2019s just been an absolute nightmare. I haven\u2019t even had time to process everything because I\u2019ve been in the hospital,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The judge said he was satisfied that a protection order was necessary for the woman\u2019s safety, granting an emergency order until a full hearing at a later date.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">\u201cNever again,\u201d she said. \u201cI\u2019m staying single for the entirety of the rest of my life.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A woman who claimed her husband \u201cdoesn\u2019t believe\u201d in their child\u2019s eating disorder, and did not allow her&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":609188,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[103,61,60],"class_list":["post-609187","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-health","tag-health","tag-ie","tag-ireland"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/609187","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=609187"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/609187\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/609188"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=609187"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=609187"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=609187"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}