{"id":619027,"date":"2026-09-09T06:34:13","date_gmt":"2026-09-09T06:34:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/619027\/"},"modified":"2026-09-09T06:34:13","modified_gmt":"2026-09-09T06:34:13","slug":"gwyneth-paltrow-recalls-feeling-shame-after-she-and-brad-pitt-ended-their-engagement","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/619027\/","title":{"rendered":"Gwyneth Paltrow recalls feeling \u2018shame\u2019 after she and Brad Pitt ended their engagement"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Key Points<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Gwyneth Paltrow says she felt &#8220;shame&#8221; after she and Brad Pitt ended their engagement.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The Seven costars met while making the 1995 film, and they were engaged in 1996.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Paltrow also went through a very public breakup with Coldplay frontman Chris Martin years later.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The end of <a data-ylk=\"slk:Gwyneth Paltrow;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/person\/gwyneth-paltrow\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Gwyneth Paltrow<\/a>&#8216;s romance with <a data-ylk=\"slk:Brad Pitt;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/person\/brad-pitt\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Brad Pitt<\/a> left her reeling.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The actors met in 1994, while making the movie Seven, and dated for several years. They were even engaged in 1996, but by 1997, they had broken up.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I was so bummed out when we broke up, and I think that the press aspect and all that makes it feel larger than life in a way,&#8221; Paltrow said on the latest episode of the <a data-ylk=\"slk:Friends Keep Secrets;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=9FT4yaP5RSwhttps:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=9FT4yaP5RSw\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Friends Keep Secrets<\/a><a data-ylk=\"slk:podcast;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=9FT4yaP5RSwhttps:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=9FT4yaP5RSw\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> podcast<\/a>. &#8220;You have to carry this faux important, cultural importance piece, and it&#8217;s like this extra burden and this extra almost shame that it didn&#8217;t work out.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Get your daily dose of entertainment news, celebrity updates, and what to watch with our <a data-ylk=\"slk:EW Dispatch newsletter;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/ew-dispatch-newsletter-11812417\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">EW Dispatch newsletter<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She reiterated that the split was &#8220;hard.&#8221; Paltrow said on the podcast, as she has in previous comments, that she still has love for the Once Upon a Time in Hollywood star.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;He&#8217;s a great guy, and I love him to this day,&#8221; she said of Pitt. &#8220;He&#8217;s a friend.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The Sliding Doors actress, who turns 54 this month, defended Pitt in <a data-ylk=\"slk:a 2003 interview;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/article\/2003\/10\/09\/gwyneth-dishes-exes-brad-pitt-and-ben-affleck\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">a 2003 interview<\/a> with ABC&#8217;s Diane Sawyer on Primetime.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I was the architect of my own misery,&#8221; Paltrow said. &#8220;I just made a big mess out of it,&#8221; she added, noting that she was lucky it lasted at all, &#8220;especially when I was such a mess.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Paltrow and Pitt both went on to have even higher-profile breakups.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Gwyneth Paltrow and Brad Pitt in 1997Credit: Kevin Mazur Archive\/WireImage\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/entertainment_weekly_785\/9a55d4f3dad93db9380ed6727a0c90ff.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Gwyneth Paltrow and Brad Pitt in 1997<br \/>Credit: Kevin Mazur Archive\/WireImage<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">For Pitt, they were with future wives Jennifer Aniston and Angelina Jolie.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">For her part, Paltrow famously popularized the term <a data-ylk=\"slk:&quot;conscious uncoupling&quot;;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/goop.com\/wellness\/relationships\/conscious-uncoupling-2\/?srsltid=AfmBOoou4ddv0P6zc3boPbpTRcfKbC4tgDqdxexa3Vwxd0kUO0iBWuBF\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;conscious uncoupling&#8221;<\/a> when she and Coldplay frontman Chris Martin spit in 2014.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The Oscar winner married producer Brad Falchuk in 2018.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Pitt, who&#8217;s currently dating Ines de Ramon, confirmed his love for his ex in <a data-ylk=\"slk:a June 2022 interview;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/movies\/brad-pitt-tells-ex-gwyneth-paltrow-its-lovely-to-have-you-as-friend-now\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">a June 2022 interview<\/a> on her Goop website.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;It&#8217;s lovely to have you as a friend now,&#8221; he told Paltrow. &#8220;And I do love you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Listen to Paltrow&#8217;s full podcast episode above.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Read the original article on <a data-ylk=\"slk:Entertainment Weekly;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/gwyneth-paltrow-felt-shame-after-she-and-brad-pitt-ended-engagement-12112022\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Entertainment Weekly<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Key Points Gwyneth Paltrow says she felt &#8220;shame&#8221; after she and Brad Pitt ended their engagement. 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