{"id":675520,"date":"2026-11-05T07:44:21","date_gmt":"2026-11-05T07:44:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/675520\/"},"modified":"2026-11-05T07:44:21","modified_gmt":"2026-11-05T07:44:21","slug":"how-this-single-dad-stays-shredded-at-47-steal-his-effective-4-day-workout-split","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/675520\/","title":{"rendered":"How This Single Dad Stays Shredded at 47 \u2013 Steal His Effective 4-Day Workout Split"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"3\" class=\"body-dropcap css-4wnvo7 emevuu60\">My life\u2019s biggest challenge began in 2013. Over the course of two years, I went through a particularly protracted custody battle for my two girls. The whole experience took me to a dark place. I lost my appetite and stopped eating properly. I was in denial about how I was coping. It wasn\u2019t until I went out in public for the first time to attend a funeral, and everyone commented on how thin I looked, that I realised I probably wasn\u2019t okay. I went to the doctor for blood tests and, to my great shock and relief, everything came back fine \u2013 I was expecting the worst, so the news felt like being granted a second chance. I decided to get back to the gym and focus on my overall health moving forwards. Eventually, I started seeing a therapist, too.<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"8\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">Training helped pull me out of that darkness \u2013 it gave me focus and built my resilience. By late 2014, I was in peak shape, so I decided to sign up for Survival of the Fittest [Men\u2019s Health\u2019s former obstacle-course race series]. But in January 2015, I clearly overdid it at the gym and ended up with a hernia. That was tough \u2013 it felt like my fitness was the only thing I was in control of. During that time, I focused on conditioning work to build up my strength and fitness again.<\/p>\n<p>How Dharmesh Patel Trains for Life-Long Strength<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"13\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">I initially got into the gym after having my first daughter 22 years ago. Unlike team sports, which usually require a weekly commitment, it\u2019s something you can fit around your own timetable without letting anyone else down. Today, my routine follows a four-day cycle: legs and biceps, chest and triceps, back and shoulders, then core. Each session is usually broken down into four or five exercises, followed by a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.menshealth.com\/uk\/building-muscle\/train-smarter\/a61173020\/supersets\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-vars-ga-outbound-link=\"https:\/\/www.menshealth.com\/uk\/building-muscle\/train-smarter\/a61173020\/supersets\/\" data-vars-ga-ux-element=\"Hyperlink\" data-vars-ga-call-to-action=\"superset\" data-node-id=\"13.1\" class=\"body-link css-10fnnmt emevuu60\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">superset<\/a>, then 15 minutes on the treadmill.<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"18\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">People are surprised when I tell them this, but I don\u2019t programme days off into my routine any more \u2013 I just keep going until my body tells me it needs a rest. I know now what my body can tolerate and I\u2019ve done a 60-day training streak before without any breaks. If you have the energy for it, then why not? I hate feeling like I\u2019m wasting my time \u2013 I\u2019ll do five supersets of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.menshealth.com\/uk\/how-tos\/a754908\/ultimate-guide-to-the-press-up-edit\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-vars-ga-outbound-link=\"https:\/\/www.menshealth.com\/uk\/how-tos\/a754908\/ultimate-guide-to-the-press-up-edit\/\" data-vars-ga-ux-element=\"Hyperlink\" data-vars-ga-call-to-action=\"press-ups\" data-node-id=\"18.1\" class=\"body-link css-10fnnmt emevuu60\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">press-ups<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.menshealth.com\/uk\/how-tos\/a735506\/sit-up\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-vars-ga-outbound-link=\"https:\/\/www.menshealth.com\/uk\/how-tos\/a735506\/sit-up\/\" data-vars-ga-ux-element=\"Hyperlink\" data-vars-ga-call-to-action=\"sit-ups\" data-node-id=\"18.3\" class=\"body-link css-10fnnmt emevuu60\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">sit-ups<\/a> to failure while I grill my meat for dinner, just to utilise that time.<\/p>\n<p><img draggable=\"true\" alt=\"man performing l sit on kettlebells, showcasing core strength and balance.\" title=\"man performing l sit on kettlebells, showcasing core strength and balance.\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"2800\" height=\"3737\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" style=\"color:transparent;width:100%;height:auto;\"   src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/11\/47526a26-2d58-4677-83fd-436acc717aa5.jpg\" class=\"css-0 e1ddfba50\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Julian Benjamin<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"24\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">That mentality comes from knowing that I have to work hard to balance my time. I work on the railways and manage my own property portfolio, juggling 12-hour shifts across days, nights and weekends, usually clocking up about 70 hours a week. A lot of that is overtime, but it\u2019s my choice. I\u2019ve never taken my foot off the gas and tend to always say yes. But the one thing I always prioritise is my training. I\u2019ll get up at 3am and be in the gym by 4am, which gives me a good 90 minutes before I start my shift at 6am. It sounds tiring, but last night, for example, I was in bed by 7pm, having had my last meal at 4pm.<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"28\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">While I have a social life, I only really manage to go out with my friends every other month. I\u2019d rather have a night in with my girls when they are home from university. I don\u2019t feel like I\u2019m missing out as I don\u2019t drink regularly. Because of my job I\u2019m also very conscious of what I\u2019m putting in my body. In fact, I only supplement my diet with protein shakes, vitamins and cod liver oil.<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"33\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">I tend to eat the same thing on repeat to help me stay lean and energised. I eat a lot of cottage cheese and boiled eggs, serving them with a salad, including things like spinach, tuna and sweetcorn. My main meal of the day will always be steamed veg, such as broccoli or kale, with either grilled chicken, turkey or some pork tenderloin. I don\u2019t eat processed foods, saturated fats or sugar, and I drink five litres of water a day. However, if I\u2019m invited out for a meal, I\u2019ll consciously eat what I\u2019m served and enjoy it because I know I\u2019m disciplined enough the rest of the time.<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"37\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">Training is as automatic as brushing my teeth \u2013 it\u2019s something I just do without question. There was a time when I thought I was going to lose everything and fitness was one of the things that got me through. I don\u2019t take it for granted.<\/p>\n<p>SQUAD Talk<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"43\" class=\"body-text css-2x47mx emevuu60\">Dharmesh answers our quick-fire questions&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>The Food I Can\u2019t Live Without<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"48\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">Eggs. I eat four large hard-boiled ones daily without fail.<\/p>\n<p>In my Gym Bag<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"53\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">A pair of \u00a32 black gardening gloves. They provide a far better grip than any branded gear.<\/p>\n<p>What Keeps Me Motivated<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"58\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">The refusal to give up on anything I set my mind to.<\/p>\n<p>The Health Habit I Swear By<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"63\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">Clean mind, clean body and clean company.<\/p>\n<p>Dream Celebrity Workout Partner<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"68\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">Sylvester Stallone, benching at Venice Beach.<\/p>\n<p>My Role Model<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"73\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">My father, who is still highly active at 72 and gifted me my tireless work ethic.<\/p>\n<p>Favourite Gym Move<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"78\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">Traditional compound and isolation movements are all you need.<\/p>\n<p>Favourite Workout Song<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"83\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">High-tempo, fast versions of the Hanuman Chalisa.<\/p>\n<p>Best Advice I\u2019ve Ever Received<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"88\" class=\"css-2x47mx emevuu60\">Always show up, never stop learning and respect time.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"My life\u2019s biggest challenge began in 2013. 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