{"id":69865,"date":"2025-10-09T16:37:06","date_gmt":"2025-10-09T16:37:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/69865\/"},"modified":"2025-10-09T16:37:06","modified_gmt":"2025-10-09T16:37:06","slug":"what-is-the-quintessential-father-son-golf-relationship-a-new-book-seeks-an-answer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/69865\/","title":{"rendered":"What is the Quintessential Father-Son Golf Relationship? A New Book Seeks an Answer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"tagStyle_1mfvp8o-o_O-style_mxvz7o-o_O-style_12bse5w-o_O-style_6s3kpz\" data-mm-id=\"_nwsnyppuh\">I didn\u2019t grow up in a golf family. My father was a teacher and owned a landscaping business. We were a dirt-on-our-Hanes-T-shirts family. No blue or white collars here.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"tagStyle_1mfvp8o-o_O-style_mxvz7o-o_O-style_12bse5w-o_O-style_6s3kpz\" data-mm-id=\"_ynm2td5hc\">Golf came to me in college. As my passion for it developed and it became a large part of my career, I\u2019ve often wondered what it would be like growing up with a club in my hands, sharing special moments on the course with my father, which I witnessed countless times secondhand. Certainly, it\u2019s something I hope to develop with my two sons.<\/p>\n<p class=\"tagStyle_1mfvp8o-o_O-style_mxvz7o-o_O-style_12bse5w-o_O-style_6s3kpz\" data-mm-id=\"_jjzjlu6yu\">Those feelings were stirred again reading The Philly Phenoms. At its heart, the book is a love story about how a father-son relationship can be strengthened through golf and forge a bond so powerful, it can help a family overcome anything. <\/p>\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Sign Up Now. SI Golf Newsletters. Sports Illustrated\u2019s Free Golf Newsletters. dark<\/p>\n<p class=\"tagStyle_1mfvp8o-o_O-style_mxvz7o-o_O-style_12bse5w-o_O-style_6s3kpz\" data-mm-id=\"_hzbd3o3ao\">There are fun moments on the course and a boorish antagonist you can\u2019t help but loathe. For me, my thoughts centered on fathers and sons and golf as I read it.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"tagStyle_1mfvp8o-o_O-style_mxvz7o-o_O-style_12bse5w-o_O-style_6s3kpz\" data-mm-id=\"_76dmiwlsc\">The book, written by Nate Oxman, a Philadelphia-area teacher and caddy at Merion Golf Club, follows 10-year-old Lee Lomax as his passion for golf evolves from hobby to obsession. Lee helps his father Sam, who was a stick in his youth, rediscover his love for the game and competition, culminating in a climactic charity match against two pros.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"tagStyle_1mfvp8o-o_O-style_mxvz7o-o_O-style_12bse5w-o_O-style_6s3kpz\" data-mm-id=\"_b6pbuga8n\">The adoration Lee has for his father is amplified on the course. The resilience his father shows, on and off the course, heightens his son\u2019s reverence. It\u2019s the quintessential father-son-golf relationship\u2014one predicated on mutual respect, appreciation and a shared love of a game they play together.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"tagStyle_1mfvp8o-o_O-style_mxvz7o-o_O-style_12bse5w-o_O-style_6s3kpz\" data-mm-id=\"_33w2my3ds\">It was a fun peek into a world I never experienced. Oxman said he wove many personal anecdotes into the book, which makes it so authentic. A love of golf developing in adolescence, lessons learned on the course that extend off it, a father and son forging a bond that will last a lifetime.\u00a0There\u2019s beauty in honesty. <\/p>\n<p class=\"tagStyle_1mfvp8o-o_O-style_mxvz7o-o_O-style_12bse5w-o_O-style_6s3kpz\" data-mm-id=\"_30dshiv5h\">For me, that admiration was cultivated on grass too. Not around sport, but enterprise, physicality and a devotion to one\u2019s family you must have pushing a lawnmower for 40 years. <\/p>\n<p class=\"tagStyle_1mfvp8o-o_O-style_mxvz7o-o_O-style_12bse5w-o_O-style_6s3kpz\" data-mm-id=\"_kklqh3lni\">Like Lee, I idolize my father. Like Lee, it came from watching him do things that seemed superhuman. One did it cutting grass with a golf club. Another with a blade.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"tagStyle_1mfvp8o-o_O-style_mxvz7o-o_O-style_12bse5w-o_O-style_6s3kpz\" data-mm-id=\"_3memqqtf6\">The Philly Phenoms is a beautiful reminder of that love.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I didn\u2019t grow up in a golf family. 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