After a buzzy weekend for the 30-year-old influencer, which included back-to-back date nights<\/a> with singer-songwriter John Mayer, 47, in New York City, Stickler took to TikTok to address her relationship status.<\/p>\n In a new video<\/a> she uploaded on Oct. 14, a voice off camera asked, \u201cKat, are you single?\u201d to which she responded, smiling, \u201cUm, yeah, I already told you that.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cNo you didn\u2019t,\u201d the off-camera voice said.<\/p>\n \u201cI cut all my hair off \u2014\u00a0out of the blue one day!\u201d replied Stickler, pointing to her bob. \u201cYou think I just did that for no reason? It holds memories. Look at the distance from my shoulder to my hair, OK? I thought you knew me better than that. This is a cry for help. This is a tell-tale sign of a relationship gone bad.\u201d<\/p>\n On Sunday, Oct. 12, Deuxmoi reported<\/a> that Stickler and Mayer attended a members-only club in N.Y.C. on Friday, Oct. 10, before they hit Flyfish Club the next night. The outlet also shared an image of the pair sitting together at the private club.<\/p>\n Stickler also recently followed the Grammy winner on Instagram.<\/p>\n John Nacion\/WireImage<\/p>\n Kat Stickler<\/p>\n The relationship speculation comes after each shared updates on their romantic life earlier this year.<\/p>\n In July, Stickler \u2014\u00a0who shares daughter MK with her ex-husband Mike Stickler \u2014\u00a0seemingly soft-launched a relationship<\/a> with a mystery man on her social media accounts, posting a photo posing with him but scribbling out his face in the shot. The post came months after she and Bachelor alum Jason Tartick<\/a> announced their \u201camicable\u201d split<\/a> after six months of dating.<\/p>\n Mayer revealed in June<\/a> that he was single during SiriusXM’s SmartLess Live, a special live taping of the hit podcast with hosts Will Arnett<\/a>, Jason Bateman<\/a> and Sean Hayes<\/a>.<\/p>\n “I’m a single person,\u201d the \u201cFree Fallin\u2019\u201d singer told the audience. \u201cI\u2019m a catch.\u201d<\/p>\n Later in the conversation, Mayer continued to open up about his romantic life, admitting that he \u201cabsolutely\u201d wanted to get married.<\/p>\n “Every girlfriend would be a potential wife at this point,” he said, adding that he “would not date someone if it didn’t have the upward mobility of becoming a marriage.”<\/p>\n Never miss a story \u2014 sign up for PEOPLE’s free daily newsletter<\/a> to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer\u200b\u200b, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.<\/p>\n Stefanie Keenan\/Getty <\/p>\n John Mayer<\/p>\n Stickler, who tied the knot with her ex-husband at age 24, also recently shared her thoughts on marriage in a TikTok video<\/a> posted on Oct. 10, saying, \u201cI just think we need to reframe our idea of this goal to walk down the aisle, because really the goal should be to walk in alignment with who we are and what we value.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI think marriage can be amazing,\u201d she continued. \u201cBut it\u2019s not this prize to be won. It\u2019s not what finally makes you whole. And instead of being like, \u2018Oh, the dream is someday someone will love me enough to stay.\u2019 The dream is \u2018I actually love myself enough to keep growing whether someone is walking beside me or not.\u2019 \u201d<\/p>\n Read the original article on People<\/a><\/p>\n![\"John](\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/08ea904617ded43b473b944a291e78a2.jpeg\"\/)
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