Look, we’re on the 10th season of Netflix’s wildly popular reality series “Love Is Blind,” and quite frankly, I’m tired of how this show has played out in the last few seasons.

No longer are we watching people fall head-over-heels in love like couples of yesteryear, Cameron and Lauren, and Tiffany and Brett, and Chelsea and Kwame. We are being subjected to single people who aren’t nearly ready to be married, let alone be happily coupled up with someone that they “fell in love with” in a pod, sight unseen.

Season 10 has reached peak hot mess, with the show’s premise clearly being proven untrue: Love is not blind. People are beholden to their preferences on how someone looks. It’s actually a hot mess. It’s not even that messy drama that people like me live for on reality TV. This is the mess that no one should have to witness.

Episodes 7 through 9 gave audiences a lot to talk about, especially with how a few of the men are expressing their feelings to their fiancées. Let’s run through it quickly.

Alex and Ashley end up having a very awkward-to-watch, drawn-out conversation about their sex life. He hopes she can initiate more, and she says she has hesitations because he told her in Cabo that the physical connection wasn’t there.

“I think what I was saying is you’re not the type of girl that I normally go after,” Alex says. If you recall, Alex approached Brittany and was basically dirty-macking and revealed in a confessional interview that she was more his type.

Then, Alex brings up Ashley’s period. I don’t have much to say about that part of the conversation, but it was wild to watch on national television.

But that’s not all. Apparently, Alex lives a nomadic life and is planning to leave Cleveland for another job (he’s hopped all over the world as a day trader, he says). He’s been trying to get Ashley to ensure that she can transfer her job to a new location; she’s promised that she’s going to talk to her boss about it.

“I feel like I’ve been very upfront about me being more of a nomad,” Alex says before revealing he’s getting a contract for a job in Florida but that he’s open to moving to Arizona, too. “I’m having concerns that you’re not able to be as fluid.”

There’s something about Alex that seems really shifty, and even in his conversations, it sounds like he’s a used car salesman ready for his next big pitch. Thankfully, Ashley’s dad calls out Alex in a confessional interview when they meet. “I’m not saying he is a bad person, but I don’t think honesty is his strength,” Paul said. Chef’s kiss!

Brittany and Devonta, at least temporarily, resolved their issue from Episode 6 when Brittany said the chemistry between them seemed off. But there’s still something so unsettling about him ever since he said he’d never dated a woman of color before — especially considering he is a person of color.

But perhaps worst of all, Chris decides to tell Jessica that she is not his type because she doesn’t go to Pilates or CrossFit every day. Jessica, who is a doctor, told Chris that she’s not a workout-every-day kinda girl in the pods. So it really was unclear until now that apparently that’s a dealbreaker for him. Mind you, earlier in the episode he was telling her that he loved her.

“I date people who fucking do like fucking CrossFit and shit,” Chris tells Jessica, before revealing that he’s not physically attracted to her. “I don’t like know if it’s there for me.”

Thankfully, Jessica took that as her cue that their relationship wasn’t going to work. At the meetup of the pod squad in Episode 9, Chris was mostly looked at as persona non grata — except Bri, his other connection in the pod, really wanted to hear his side of the story. Yuck.

Needless to say, all the women on this season are beautiful and intelligent and deserve far better than whatever is going on with their potential husbands.

Fans of “Love Is Blind” have been pretty vocal online about the audacity of some of the male contestants this season. See some tweets below.

you can be a beautiful, smart, successful, hardworking literal doctor and an ugly man will still sit there and call you ugly bc you go to work every day instead of going to pilates… oh my god chris is such a piece of shit #loveisblind

— ꪑ (@taylorfan1) February 19, 2026

Okay so can we all collectively agree that the men of #LoveIsBlindS10 are all trash and further proves Ohio is the worst state? Because I don’t think I’ve been this agitated in so long at these men’s DECISIONS 🙃 pic.twitter.com/b6OglXRINM

— Alexandra Ramos (@RamosTheWriter) February 19, 2026

Mike is trying to coerce his fiancé into having a baby

Chris is trying to steal another man fiancé

Jordan isn’t comfortable with kids but his fiancé is a single mum

Devonta & Alex don’t like their fiancé and are gaslighting them#LoveIsBlind pic.twitter.com/tf7hZfuDul

— Siana MB (@sianamb) February 18, 2026

Netflix is streaming Episodes 1-9 of Season 10 of “Love Is Blind.” Episodes 10 and 11 will be released on Wednesday.