Dear Annie: I wanted to thank you for cautioning “My OCD Nightmare” about their casual use of the term “OCD.”

Obsessive-compulsive disorder doesn’t just run in my mother’s side of the family; it gallops at full speed and hands out party favors. My grandmother, her sister, my great-aunt, my own brother, my mother and I all have it. I laugh about it with my husband at times because on rare occasions, it can be funny (don’t get me started on wrinkles in the sheets!). But other times, no, it’s not funny at all, and it can be very, very upsetting.

So thank you for telling “My OCD Nightmare” to be careful. I’d add that if they really think they have OCD, help can be found, if necessary. — It Runs in the Family

Dear It Runs in the Family: Thank you for sharing your family’s experience. Your letter made me smile, but the point behind it is an important one. OCD is much more than being neat and organized, and I’m glad you reminded readers that help is available for those who are struggling.

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