{"id":118477,"date":"2025-11-06T11:14:13","date_gmt":"2025-11-06T11:14:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/118477\/"},"modified":"2025-11-06T11:14:13","modified_gmt":"2025-11-06T11:14:13","slug":"in-all-her-fault-sarah-snook-and-dakota-fanning-take-on-mom-guilt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/118477\/","title":{"rendered":"In &#8216;All Her Fault,&#8217; Sarah Snook and Dakota Fanning take on mom guilt"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>This article contains some spoilers for \u201cAll Her Fault.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For Sarah Snook, having to leave her then-2-year-old daughter to go to work every day on the Peacock drama \u201cAll Her Fault\u201d was, in a way, helpful for her acting process.<\/p>\n<p>In the show, streaming Thursday, Snook plays Marissa Irvine, a Chicago businesswoman who goes to pick up her young son Milo from a playdate and discovers not only is she at the wrong house, but Milo was never there in the first place. The fellow mom (Dakota Fanning) she thought was picking him up from school has no idea what she\u2019s talking about, neither does the homeowner, and Milo has gone missing.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was useful to kind of use my daughter,\u201d she says in a video call. \u201cWhat would it be like to have the situation happen to me? I understand that more in depth now being a parent.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But Snook could only go so far. She couldn\u2019t picture her daughter in place of Milo. If she had she would have just decided not to work. \u201cIt\u2019s too hard, it\u2019s too much,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p>            <img class=\"image\" alt=\"A woman in a black turtleneck kneels near a woman sitting with her feet up on a couch.\"   width=\"2000\" height=\"1093\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1762427649_830_\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>         <\/p>\n<p>In the series, Dakota Fanning and Sarah Snook play working mothers Jenny and Marissa.<\/p>\n<p>(Peacock)<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll Her Fault\u201d is a twisty eight-episode thriller with some gasp-worthy moments that takes its depiction of motherhood \u2014 and the blame women place on themselves when something goes awry \u2014 very seriously. The title is not exactly accurate as it applies to Snook\u2019s character or Jenny, played by Fanning, the other parent unwittingly drawn into this nightmare scenario.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt cannot be just her fault, that\u2019s just not possible,\u201d Snook says. \u201cWe explore what the mental load is oftentimes for women to take on in a parenting role.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Both these working mothers worry they, above anyone else, bear the guilt for Milo\u2019s disappearance \u2014 in part because they care about their careers as well as their children. Marissa doesn\u2019t double-check the number that informed her that Milo was having a playdate with Jenny\u2019s son. Meanwhile Jenny, a book marketer, hired Carrie Finch (Sophia Lillis), the nanny who turns out to be responsible for the kidnapping.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s one of the reasons creator Megan Gallagher was keen to adapt <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.penguin.co.uk\/books\/442982\/all-her-fault-by-mara-andrea\/9781804998427\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Andrea Mara\u2019s novel<\/a> for television.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWithin that material was this maternal guilt and this discrepancy in domestic labor tasks in heterosexual couples that, to me, is just this huge issue,\u201d she says. \u201cEvery woman I know, who is roughly my age, is dealing with this. Every woman I know drops off their kid at school and sobs in the parking lot before they make it to work.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>After years of playing the icy <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/entertainment-arts\/tv\/story\/2023-03-19\/sarah-snook-shiv-succession\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Shiv Roy on \u201cSuccession,\u201d<\/a> whose pregnancy in the final season ultimately seems like another business maneuver for her, Snook was drawn to Marissa, who does care about being a good parent.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI wanted to find a character that was just inherently warm,\u201d Snook explains. \u201cShiv is in a similar kind of world, but she\u2019s inherently cold. She wants to be warm but she can\u2019t. Whereas Marissa is just a nice, warm, friendly person who has a maternal quality naturally about her and sees someone upset and goes, \u2018I got you.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s how she initially meets Jenny. They bond, feeling mutually ill at ease in the bathroom at a school function while, coincidentally, wearing the same dress. After Milo goes missing, Marissa could easily turn on Jenny, but instead they develop a deeper connection.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was really nice to portray the really positive aspects of female friendship,\u201d Fanning says on a separate call. \u201cI think sometimes there can be tropes of the women pitted against each other.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>            <img class=\"image\" alt=\"Two women standing across from each other near a bathroom sink.\"   width=\"2000\" height=\"1334\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1762427650_181_\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>         <\/p>\n<p>Marissa (Sarah Snook) and Jenny (Dakota Fanning) bond after noticing they are wearing the same dress at a school function.<\/p>\n<p>(Sarah Enticknap \/ Peacock)<\/p>\n<p>Marissa and Jenny have the kind of bond that Fanning recognizes in her own life: \u201cActually really supportive and loving and people that you lean on when times get tough as opposed to turn against.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For Snook, Marissa and Jenny\u2019s connection is almost elemental.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat harks to Greek mythology or those ancient stories,\u201d she says. \u201cIn the end women just kind of have to stick together.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Fanning, who does not have children, did not have the personal experiences of motherhood to draw upon in her role, but it was not hard for her to imagine the pressure Jenny must be under in the series.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ve always wanted to be a mother,\u201d she says. \u201cI\u2019m someone who put a blanket under my shirt and pretended I was pregnant at like 5 years old. I\u2019ve never questioned that I want that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She adds she\u2019s been in nurturing positions her entire life \u2014 to her younger sister Elle, and to the daughters of her best friend, who are 5 and 2, as their godmother.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI drew inspiration from people in my life, from my own experiences, sometimes even the pressure that I put on my own mom as a 31-year-old daughter,\u201d she says, laughing. \u201cSome self-reflection of, hm, I may be guilty of some of these things toward her as well.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>            <img class=\"image\" alt=\"A woman with long blond hair standing with her hands near her hairline.\"   width=\"2000\" height=\"2999\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1762427652_375_\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>         <\/p>\n<p>Though not a mother herself, Dakota Fanning says she \u201cdrew inspiration from people in my life, from my own experiences, sometimes even the pressure that I put on my own mom as a 31-year-old daughter.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>(Victoria Will \/ For The Times)<\/p>\n<p>On screen, however, Jenny is as much defined by her love for her child, and support for Marissa, as she is for her dedication to her career. She\u2019s in the middle of chasing a high-profile author, much to the frustration of her husband Richie (Thomas Cocquerel), who shirks caretaking duties.<\/p>\n<p>Gallagher says the writers spent a lot of time talking about Jenny and her profession.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI really like showing that women are unapologetically passionate about their work, and that\u2019s OK for us to love our work,\u201d Gallagher says. \u201cNobody is supposed to love their work more than their own children, but it\u2019s OK for our kids to not be enough and for us to need work to be fulfilled.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But that doesn\u2019t mean that either Marissa or Jenny are portrayed as uncaring moms. They are both deeply devoted to their sons.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cUsually, when we portray women in media, if they are successful then they must not be maternal,\u201d Snook says. That stands in counter to Snook\u2019s own experiences, she adds.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFor me, personally, I feel like my recent success and career is somewhat related directly to becoming a mother, because of the new perspectives, the deepening of empathy, the strength gained from experience to go, oh no, I got this. I can really trust myself in this decision and I can really back myself here.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>            <img class=\"image\" alt=\"A woman in a dark sweater, brown tweed pants and brown high heels sits back in a white chair and lifts her leg up.\"   width=\"2000\" height=\"1334\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1762427653_519_\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>         <\/p>\n<p>\u201cUsually, when we portray women in media, if they are successful then they must not be maternal,\u201d says Sarah Snook, who recently became a mother.<\/p>\n<p>(Victoria Will \/ For The Times)<\/p>\n<p>Snook also serves as an executive producer on \u201cAll Her Fault,\u201d which was filmed in Melbourne, Australia, so she could be near her daughter and her stepson, who is in school in the city. Counter to most of the men on the series, Snook\u2019s husband, actor Dave Lawson, was able to take on parenting responsibilities, bringing their tot to set so they could play during lunchtimes.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere were toys on set because I had a fake kid on set,\u201d she says. \u201cThere was a playground on set. She probably thinks that every set she goes to when she visits mum at work there\u2019s always going to be a little mini playground, and toys to play with and that\u2019s not going to be the case, honey.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Despite the intensity of the material, Snook describes the \u201cAll Her Fault\u201d production as a place where cast members were joking and messing around to counteract the sadness their characters were enduring.<\/p>\n<p>Similarly, after a day in Marissa\u2019s skin, she had to make sure her own work didn\u2019t interfere with her home life. Snook was dealing with the kind of calculations that mothers have to make all the time, the very thing the show itself is addressing.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen we were doing hard days at work and you\u2019re crying every day, the best thing to do is to go home and give your daughter a cuddle, because all the oxytocin and all that yumminess comes back,\u201d she says. \u201cIt\u2019s not useful if mom comes home and she\u2019s whipping her back or trying to stay in this character. To drop it is really useful for me so that you can fill your cup again.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"This article contains some spoilers for \u201cAll Her Fault.\u201d For Sarah Snook, having to leave her then-2-year-old daughter&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":118478,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[75871,16337,19513,14224,3962,146,75870,75873,85,46,64045,75869,75872,20550,75868,8075,17982,1264],"class_list":["post-118477","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-entertainment","tag-blame-woman","tag-child","tag-dakota-fanning","tag-daughter","tag-day","tag-entertainment","tag-fault","tag-first-place","tag-il","tag-israel","tag-jenny","tag-marissa-irvine","tag-milo","tag-mother","tag-sarah-snook","tag-school","tag-set","tag-work"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118477","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=118477"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118477\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118478"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=118477"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=118477"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=118477"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}