{"id":1298,"date":"2025-09-08T00:09:16","date_gmt":"2025-09-08T00:09:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/1298\/"},"modified":"2025-09-08T00:09:16","modified_gmt":"2025-09-08T00:09:16","slug":"meet-the-revenge-quitters-why-people-are-ditching-their-jobs-and-refusing-to-go-quietly-work-careers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/1298\/","title":{"rendered":"Meet the revenge quitters: why people are ditching their jobs \u2013 and refusing to go quietly | Work &#038; careers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">In 2011, Joey La Neve DeFrancesco had been working in room service at a luxury hotel in Providence, Rhode Island, for nearly four years, whisking delicacies on demand to guests\u2019 rooms, when he reached breaking point. He was paid a measly $5.50 (\u00a34) an hour, made to work punishingly long shifts and, to top it off, had managers taking a cut of his hard-earned tips.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">The poor treatment ratcheted up after DeFrancesco and colleagues tried to unionise workers at the hotel. In response, managers would berate those involved for making tiny mistakes. Things got so petty that workers on shift who had to take calls from guests were banned from sitting down.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">DeFrancesco decided to call it quits. On the day he finally bid farewell, he snuck into the hotel\u2019s employee quarters with a seven-strong marching band and surprised his boss with a musical ambush. \u201cI\u2019m here to tell you that I\u2019m quitting,\u201d he said, before walking out to the triumphant soundtrack of his band in full swing and chanting \u201cJoey quits\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">DeFrancesco, who was 22 years old at the time, hastily organised a friend to film the encounter. After sitting on the video for a few days, he uploaded it to YouTube where it quickly went viral. Thirteen years on, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=9A4UGtM4hDQ&amp;t=166s\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">video<\/a> has amassed nearly 10m views.<\/p>\n<p>Brassed off \u2026 Joey La Neve DeFrancesco quits his low-paid hotel job in 2011.  Photograph: Youtube<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">\u201cWe really didn\u2019t think it was going to get much attention,\u201d says DeFrancesco. The 36-year-old labour organiser and musician, who lives in New York, says he felt \u201cliberated\u201d after he quit and turned the tables on his managers. \u201cNow I\u2019m going to embarrass you for treating everyone terribly here,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Did leaving in a viral blaze of glory hamper his ability to get another job? Not in the slightest. Soon after leaving, DeFrancesco began working in a museum. He says the incident has \u201chonestly never come up\u201d in job interviews since. In fact, he says it might be something to \u201cput on the r\u00e9sum\u00e9\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">While DeFrancesco\u2019s tale holds a strong position in the job resignation hall of fame, it faces increasing competition from a new generation of workers leaving their jobs with viral aplomb. The phenomenon of revenge quitting, where frustrated or unhappy employees show how they really feel about their workplaces, is on the rise. Even clergymen are not immune to such temptations: in July, Father Pat Brennan <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/articles\/cy4n2k5nv98o\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">provided<\/a> a \u201cparting gift\u201d to his congregation in the form of a poem that doubled up as a resignation letter, where he took aim at \u201cdisgruntled, unlikable\u201d parishioners who spread \u201cgossip\u201d from their \u201choly lips\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Parting gift \u2026 Father Pat Brennan\u2019s resignation letter. Photograph: Facebook<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">The employer-rating site Glassdoor <a href=\"https:\/\/www.glassdoor.com\/blog\/worklife-trends-2025\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">warned<\/a> late last year that \u201ca wave of revenge quitting [is] on the horizon\u201d in 2025 amid falling employee satisfaction. In the UK, a survey of 2,008 workers released in July by the recruitment company Reed found that 15% of British employees had revenge quit their jobs. The firm\u2019s chair, James Reed reckons that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.personneltoday.com\/hr\/one-in-seven-revenge-quit-in-latest-employee-trend\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">social media was accelerating the trend<\/a> after a flurry of revenge quitters shared their stories online. Brianna Slaughter was one of them, with their video ending with the rallying cry: \u201cThese corporations will fire you in one day and leave you with nothing. If you want to leave, leave babe.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">The 26-year-old American, who lives in Kyoto, Japan, was two hours away from teaching their next English class when they quit on the spot. For a while, things had been manageable, but everything changed with the arrival of a meddling new manager. \u201cIf I finished a lesson one minute early or one minute late, she would reprimand me,\u201d Slaughter says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">When Slaughter started the job, they had plenty of free time and their colleagues were mostly \u201cchill\u201d, but the cracks soon began to appear. They were paid 2,000 yen (\u00a310) per class, instead of an hourly wage, which meant having to stick around unpaid for hours between classes for a paltry paycheck. Schedules weren\u2019t handed out until the day before, making planning almost impossible. And the job was sedentary, which took a toll. \u201cI went to the doctor and they said, because you\u2019re sitting all the time, you have inflammation in your neck,\u201d Slaughter says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Slaughter\u2019s breaking point came with the arrival of the new manager. She told Slaughter to wear long-sleeved tops to hide their apparently \u201coffensive tattoos\u201d and often sat in on classes, which, they say, made everyone feel \u201cawkward\u201d. It got to a point where Slaughter was crying every night. Last May, after receiving a measly paycheck of 100,000 yen (\u00a3500) for a month of \u201chardcore classroom teaching\u201d, enough was enough.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018If you want to leave, leave babe\u2019 \u2026 Brianna Slaughter on TikTok.  Photograph: TikTok<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Slaughter sent a resignation letter to a higher-up, who \u201cbegged\u201d them to stay, before swiftly reminding them of the two-month notice period. In their TikTok <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@fkamorena\/video\/7392455143381339434\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">video<\/a>, which has 1.2m views, Slaughter says they told their manager: \u201cTwo months? You\u2019re lucky if I give you fucking two weeks. I gave you two hours, babe. I\u2019m leaving now.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Far from stalling their career, their tale going viral opened up new possibilities. \u201cI made $7,000 on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/technology\/tiktok\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" data-component=\"auto-linked-tag\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">TikTok<\/a> the month I quit,\u201d says Slaughter, who has since made a living as a content creator, advising people interested in moving to Japan. Some even got in touch and said the video inspired them to say goodbye to their own toxic workplaces. \u201cThey said: I think I\u2019m going to quit my job too. This was my sign.\u201d For those still on the fence, Slaughter says: \u201cYou should have left yesterday.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Young people are more likely to revenge quit. Reed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reed.co.uk\/career-advice\/quiet-quitting-vs-revenge-quitting\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">said<\/a> 26% of 18- to 34-year-olds and 22% of 35- to 44-year-olds in the UK admitted to doing it, compared with just 8% of people aged 45 to 54. In June, a survey by business research group the Conference Room found a 15% gap in job satisfaction between the youngest and oldest workers in the US, with 57% of under-25s saying they were satisfied with their jobs, compared with 72% of over-55s.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Four years ago, 25-year-old Carly, who lives in Alabama, US, was unemployed, \u201ckind of broke and willing to take anything\u201d. After contacting a temp agency, she was quickly offered a job as a receptionist, based on her CV alone, and she was asked to start the next day. \u201cThat was the first sign that this might not be the best place to work but I was desperate, so I took it,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">The first three months were \u201cfine\u201d and she got a promotion to HR payroll manager, but things soon went south. A new colleague, who was related to the bosses, started badmouthing her and spread a false rumour that she was an alcoholic because she used a lamp in her office instead of the overhead light. \u201cI just like ambience,\u201d says Carly.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">She was soon given an additional role on top of her current one: accounts payable manager. \u201cIt was just too much for one 21-year-old to manage by herself,\u201d she says. The firm briefly hired a man (who was paid $10 an hour more than her) to take over her role as HR payroll manager but he was swiftly fired after messing up the company\u2019s paychecks. She was forced back into doing both roles again.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">\u201cI was constantly stressed, upset, and crying,\u201d she says. Things came to a head when Carly\u2019s problem colleague called for her to attend a manager-wide meeting so he could \u201cair out his frustrations\u201d with her. \u201cIt was a ridiculous request,\u201d she says. \u201cHe basically wanted to bully me in front of everyone.\u201d She agreed to the meeting but, little did they know, she had other plans.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">On the morning of the meeting, Carly woke up early, drove to the office and scheduled an email to all the managers \u201cletting them know how fucked up their business was,\u201d she says. It began fairly graciously. \u201cI have decided that it is time to move on to a different venture,\u201d it said, but soon ramped up. She took aim at her short-lived replacement, calling him \u201cliterally dumb as a rock\u201d and said her heavy workload led to \u201cdaily stress that often built up into anxiety attacks and tearful nights\u201d. Signing off, it said: \u201cMy laptop and keys are on my desk.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">After the email was sent, her boss tried to call her. She didn\u2019t pick up the phone. \u201cI never heard from them again,\u201d she says. After Carly left the office for the final time, she felt euphoric. \u201cI could have stripped my clothes off and run naked all the way home. The anxiety and stress I had been feeling all vanished,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">She secured another job shortly afterwards, but she has some concerns about applying for future work. \u201cIf they ask, I\u2019ll just be honest and say, if you treat me good, I will not do that to you,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">While most people revenge quit to stick the middle finger to their bad bosses, warning off prospective new employees can also be a motivation. Katie Ostler had been working in a supermarket in Melbourne, Australia for two years when the time came to call it quits. She had started doing the job at 16 years old. \u201cIt was a really toxic, high-paced work environment and there was a lot of turnover,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Ostler, who is now 29, and lives in Manchester, UK, said her bosses had not bothered to learn her name for the first six months. \u201cIt wasn\u2019t a great place to be but I just kind of kept my head down and did what I needed to do,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">As she approached 18, a whole new set of job opportunities were opening up, specifically bar work. She was already handing her CV out to local pubs when an incident at the supermarket tipped her over the edge. One day, a customer began shouting at one of Ostler\u2019s 15-year-old colleagues over a refund. Instead of backing up the young female employee, their manager took the side of the customer and joined in on the yelling. \u201cI thought it was a good time to go,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Soon after, she was offered a job behind a bar and went to the supermarket to hand in her resignation with the one-week obligatory notice. She tried to give the letter to a supervisor, who said it needed to be handed directly to her manager. Ostler asked where he was, but was told that he was in the middle of an interview. They let slip where it was being held. She barged into the interview, handed her manager the letter and said aloud: \u201cDon\u2019t work here \u2013 here\u2019s my resignation.\u201d The room went silent and the interviewee gave her a confused expression. \u201cIt took a lot of bravery. I walked out before [my manager] could say anything,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">It wasn\u2019t the last she heard from him. She was on her way to start her new job when he called her and told her not to finish her final week because he \u201cdidn\u2019t want my toxic energy\u201d around the team. \u201cI remember thinking, have you looked in the mirror?\u201d she says. She did have to nip back to the supermarket for some groceries a few times afterwards. \u201cI avoided it when I could, but people would recognise me and say hello. Unfortunately, no one was cheering when I came in,\u201d she says. Still, resigning had felt triumphant enough. \u201cI felt like a boss. It was a very empowering moment.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"In 2011, Joey La Neve DeFrancesco had been working in room service at a luxury hotel in Providence,&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1299,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[114,85,46,265],"class_list":{"0":"post-1298","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-jobs","8":"tag-business","9":"tag-il","10":"tag-israel","11":"tag-jobs"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1298","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1298"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1298\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1299"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1298"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1298"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1298"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}