{"id":142185,"date":"2025-11-19T18:55:09","date_gmt":"2025-11-19T18:55:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/142185\/"},"modified":"2025-11-19T18:55:09","modified_gmt":"2025-11-19T18:55:09","slug":"ravyn-lenae-on-the-runaway-success-of-love-me-not","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/142185\/","title":{"rendered":"Ravyn Lenae on the runaway success of &#8216;Love Me Not&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Last December, Ravyn Lenae stood in the street and pointed her phone at herself to film a TikTok set to her song \u201cLove Me Not.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMe after linking with him one last time cause I\u2019m not bringing him into 2025,\u201d she captioned <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@ravynlenae\/video\/7452144190382787883?lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">the video<\/a> \u2014 a cutesy kiss-off to a guy she\u2019d clearly decided was holding her back from where she was meant to go.<\/p>\n<p>Nearly a year later, it appears the singer was right: In early April, \u201cLove Me Not\u201d \u2014 a swinging, lightly psychedelic soul number about a hot-and-cold lover \u2014 gave Lenae her first entry on Billboard\u2019s Hot 100; a week later, she made her debut at the Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival. Several months after that, she performed to an enthusiastic crowd at Lollapalooza just before \u201cLove Me Not\u201d peaked at No. 5 in mid-August.<\/p>\n<p>Now, with one of 2025\u2019s biggest hits under her belt, Lenae, 26, is winding down her breakout year by opening for Sabrina Carpenter as Carpenter\u2019s Short n\u2019 Sweet tour <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/entertainment-arts\/music\/story\/2025-11-17\/sabrina-carpenter-short-n-sweet-tour-crypto-com-arena-best-moments\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">wraps up this week<\/a> with six sold-out shows through Sunday at Crypto.com Arena.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cA lot of this period has been me asking other artists, \u2018Is this how it normally is?\u2019\u201d Lenae tells me on a recent evening. \u201cHow do you balance the social aspect and the online aspect and the touring with also staying highly creative?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Not to mention tending to a personal life.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat\u2019s that?\u201d she asks with a laugh. \u201cThat\u2019s literally nonexistent.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>           <img id=\"yt-img-cswfR85D7jM\" class=\"absolute\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1763578507_339_hqdefault.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\"\/>                 <\/p>\n<p>The runaway success of \u201cLove Me Not,\u201d which has been streamed more than 700 million times on Spotify, is no doubt what\u2019s put the breathy-voiced Lenae before many listeners for the first time. (A remix featuring Rex Orange County has another  164 million Spotify streams.)<\/p>\n<p>At one point as the song was blowing up, she <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@ravynlenae\/video\/7483204239364295978?lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">responded<\/a> to a fan on TikTok who\u2019d been surprised to learn that Lenae is Black \u2014 \u201cY\u2019all didn\u2019t read the name Ravyn Lenae and think, \u2018Oh, that\u2019s a Black girl?\u2019\u201d the singer asks in the clip \u2014 then went ahead and clarified that also she\u2019s not British, as some evidently had assumed.<\/p>\n<p>Yet \u201cLove Me Not\u201d actually comes a decade into a career that began while Lenae was still in high school. She signed to Atlantic Records at age 16 and soon was touring and working in the studio with the likes of SZA and <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/entertainment-arts\/music\/story\/2022-10-10\/steve-lacy-bad-habit-grammys-2023\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Steve Lacy<\/a>; \u201cHypnos,\u201d her debut LP, came out in 2022 and made Pitchfork\u2019s closely watched list of the year\u2019s best albums.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m pretty conceited about the fact that I\u2019ve loved Ravyn for as long as I have,\u201d says the singer and actor <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/entertainment-arts\/music\/story\/2025-10-16\/renee-rapp-bite-me-new-album-tour\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Rene\u00e9 Rapp<\/a>, who like Carpenter took Lenae out on the road this year as an opening act. Rapp discovered one of Lenae\u2019s early EPs when she herself was in high school and has been a fan ever since. \u201cI\u2019m like, \u2018You bitches are new, and don\u2019t get me wrong \u2014 I\u2019m so happy you\u2019re here. But let\u2019s get it right: I was boots on the ground first.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>To Rapp\u2019s ears, Lenae\u2019s airy soprano \u201chas this beautiful ping at the top that I\u2019ve only ever heard in Minnie Riperton,\u201d she says. \u201cShe\u2019s just like a little fairy. She floats around, and her voice does the same thing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLove Me Not,\u201d which is still hanging out in the upper reaches of the Hot 100, is from Lenae\u2019s sophomore album, \u201cBird\u2019s Eye,\u201d which came out in August 2024. She recorded the song with the producer Dahi, who\u2019s known for his work with <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/entertainment-arts\/music\/story\/2024-11-24\/kendrick-lamar-gnx-new-album-review\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Kendrick Lamar<\/a> and <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/entertainment-arts\/tv\/story\/2024-02-15\/the-vince-staples-show-netflix\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Vince Staples<\/a>; Dahi started the track years ago with Anderson .Paak then put it in a drawer before he\u2019d finished it.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAt the time, I was really into MGMT,\u201d Dahi says, referring to the alternative rock duo whose dreamy-jangly guitar sound echoes throughout \u201cLove Me Not.\u201d With Lenae, he pushed the song toward classic R&amp;B \u2014 \u201csomething that would be played on \u2018Happy Days\u2019 or some s\u2014,\u201d he says \u2014 but retained a spacey vibe that keeps it from feeling rooted in any specific era or genre.<\/p>\n<p>Lenae says her goal was to create something \u201csoulful and Black but that transcends time and race\u201d; the result can be heard in a lineage of enduring hard-to-classify hits like Outkast\u2019s \u201cHey Ya!\u201d and Gnarls Barkley\u2019s \u201cCrazy\u201d that charm listeners across demographic lines.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you don\u2019t like \u2018Crazy,\u2019 there\u2019s something wrong with you,\u201d Lenae says as a pedicurist exfoliates her feet in a West Hollywood hotel room. It\u2019s the end of a long day that began with an early-morning flight from New York, where Lenae <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=BBd47EpZdJA\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">performed with Kali Uchis<\/a> on \u201cThe Tonight Show\u201d and at Madison Square Garden. Now, after a photo shoot, she\u2019s changed into gray sweats to sneak in a moment of self-care during our chat.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWith the heels I\u2019m wearing all the time, you can see the corns,\u201d she says, looking down to check out the pedicurist\u2019s progress. \u201cI wonder what Beyonc\u00e9\u2019s feet look like. \u2019Cause if mine look like this? She\u2019s putting in work.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Though \u201cLove Me Not\u201d was singled out by critics right away, the song really took off late last year after a DJ posted a viral TikTok that <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@thats_0de\/video\/7424580124793638190\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">mashed it up<\/a> with Solange\u2019s \u201cLosing You\u201d as part of a series exploring \u201ceuphoric\u201d breakup songs. An admiring post on X by SZA \u2014 \u201cOne of my fav albums this year,\u201d she <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/x.com\/sza\/status\/1873682745853104293?lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">wrote<\/a> of \u201cBird\u2019s Eye\u201d \u2014 helped bring more attention to Lenae\u2019s music.<\/p>\n<p>            <img class=\"image\" alt=\"Ravyn Lenae\"   width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1763578509_20_\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>         <\/p>\n<p>Ravyn Lenae in West Hollywood.<\/p>\n<p>(Ian Spanier \/ For The Times)<\/p>\n<p>The singer grew up in Chicago, where her mother\u2019s parents landed in the late \u201970s as immigrants from Panama. That\u2019s their house on the city\u2019s south side in the music video for \u201cLove Me Not,\u201d which Lenae directed and which shows her and her younger sister dancing just outside the bedroom where Lenae slept as a kid.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI knew this song would be a lot of people\u2019s introduction to me, so I wanted them to immediately jump into my world,\u201d she says. \u201cMy grandparents are very shy people, and when my grandma saw the video, she was like, \u2018Oh, Ravyn, baby \u2026\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Singing at talent shows as a 12-year-old, Lenae wanted to be a \u201ca mix between Alicia Keys and Beyonc\u00e9,\u201d as she puts it; later, she learned to perform Christina Aguilera\u2019s \u201cBeautiful\u201d and Rihanna\u2019s \u201cTake a Bow.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was like, \u2018I\u2019m-a win \u2019em over with this one,\u2019\u201d she says of the dramatic ballads. \u201cI\u2019m sure I sound crazy on video.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lenae, who went on to study at the Chicago High School for the Arts, came to understand that the soft lilt of her voice distinguished her from those powerhouses; she found inspiration in \u201cthe sensuality and the femininity\u201d of music by <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/entertainment-arts\/music\/story\/2025-07-26\/diana-ross-hollywood-bowl-best-moments\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Diana Ross<\/a>, Patrice Rushen and Janet Jackson, whose \u201cAll for You\u201d album \u2014 released in 2001, when Lenae was 2 \u2014 would become a touchstone.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere\u2019s a lot to win by not being the loudest in the room,\u201d says Rapp.<\/p>\n<p>Lenae moved to L.A. in 2020. Her first year here was rough, she says \u2014 she missed her mom and felt the burden of a bank account with $100 in it. \u201cI remember some crying in the shower,\u201d the singer says now.<\/p>\n<p>Her 2022 song \u201cSkin Tight,\u201d a yearning flirtation she wrote and recorded with Lacy, registered as a turning point; so did the success of Lacy\u2019s quirky soul-rock hit \u201cBad Habit,\u201d which topped the Hot 100 on its way to Grammy nominations for record and song of the year.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat was a historical moment for artists like us that have been working at it for a long time \u2014 Black artists who\u2019ve always been a little to the left of what was going on,\u201d Lenae says. \u201cSteve going No. 1 showed there really are no rules and that there\u2019s space for all of us.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Beyond \u201cLove Me Not,\u201d highlights on \u201cBird\u2019s Eye\u201d include an intimate acoustic number, \u201cFrom Scratch,\u201d that Lenae says she and Dahi modeled on Lauryn Hill and D\u2019Angelo\u2019s \u201cNothing Even Matters\u201d; the lush and whispery \u201cDream Girl,\u201d which features input by Jackson\u2019s longtime collaborators Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis; and \u201cBad Idea,\u201d a percussive electro-funk jam that interpolates Bow Wow and Ciara\u2019s early-2000s \u201cLike You.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll those Ciara hits, I had the choreo down,\u201d Lenae says.<\/p>\n<p>The album also contains the tender yet mournful \u201cOne Wish,\u201d which Lenae wrote about her dad not being around as she was growing up.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI never, ever thought I\u2019d talk about that publicly, but I think I was just at a point in my life where it felt natural,\u201d she says. \u201cAnd me and him had just started reconciling, so it was very top of mind.\u201d She invited her father to come to L.A. to appear in the song\u2019s video, which depicts a young girl running after a car as a man angrily drives away; the day after the shoot, they went to Roscoe\u2019s and had a long talk about her childhood.<\/p>\n<p>           <img id=\"yt-img-4oNYTgzNEPQ\" class=\"absolute\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/img.youtube.com\/vi\/4oNYTgzNEPQ\/hqdefault.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\"\/>                 <\/p>\n<p>\u201cYesterday was his birthday, and I forgot,\u201d she tells me. \u201cI felt horrible, but then I was like, Should I feel horrible? I go back and forth with it all the time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lenae is extremely close with her mother, who\u2019ll sometimes join her on the road \u201cjust to spend time with me or hold my hand \u2014 to sleep in the same hotel bed,\u201d she says. \u201cThat\u2019s the person I know I can keep counting on.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>After this week\u2019s dates with Carpenter, Lenae will head east for a handful of shows on iHeartRadio\u2019s Jingle Ball tour \u2014 one more chance to build upon \u201cLove Me Not\u2019s\u201d Top 40 breakthrough. Then she and Dahi plan to focus on finishing her next album.<\/p>\n<p>So far, Lenae says, it\u2019s shaping up to be \u201ca little more punchy and explosive\u201d than \u201cBird\u2019s Eye.\u201d One of the new songs is about her mom; Lenae played it for her when she was here visiting not long ago.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI had the lyrics up, and as she was reading it, she looked up at me and there was a tear in her eye,\u201d she recalls. \u201cThen we started bawling together. I think that one might end up her favorite.\u201d<\/p>\n<p> <script async src=\"\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Last December, Ravyn Lenae stood in the street and pointed her phone at herself to film a TikTok&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":142186,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[54092,87712,146,27351,87716,85,46,87711,409,87713,87715,4131,17190,2702,87714,762,2059,1661],"class_list":["post-142185","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-entertainment","tag-bird","tag-dahi","tag-entertainment","tag-eye","tag-fav-album","tag-il","tag-israel","tag-lenae","tag-music","tag-rapp","tag-ravyn-lenae","tag-sabrina-carpenter","tag-singer","tag-song","tag-steve-lacy","tag-time","tag-video","tag-year"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/142185","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=142185"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/142185\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/142186"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=142185"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=142185"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=142185"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}