{"id":154349,"date":"2025-11-26T18:50:22","date_gmt":"2025-11-26T18:50:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/154349\/"},"modified":"2025-11-26T18:50:22","modified_gmt":"2025-11-26T18:50:22","slug":"dave-ramsey-caller-28-says-her-mental-health-is-suffering-in-dark-apartment-he-snaps-back-being-broke-is-going-to-mess-with-your-wellness-too","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/154349\/","title":{"rendered":"Dave Ramsey Caller, 28, Says Her Mental Health Is Suffering In &#8216;Dark&#8217; Apartment\u2014He Snaps Back &#8216;Being Broke Is Going To Mess With Your Wellness Too&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">A 28-year-old caller from Vancouver joined <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/GcSlWDRZYos?si=bsIUwnAjgVjfO3_8\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:&quot;The Ramsey Show&quot;;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">&#8220;The Ramsey Show&#8221;<\/a> with a housing dilemma that quickly became a lesson in personal finance denial.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Alexandria said she was living in a dark, windowless basement suite that was taking a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.benzinga.com\/personal-finance\/management\/25\/09\/47539425\/this-36-year-old-earns-114k-but-calls-herself-a-loser-her-story-reveals-the-hidden-mental-health-crisis-of-modern-debt?nid=49038889&amp;utm_campaign=partner_feed&amp;utm_content=site&amp;utm_medium=partner_feed&amp;utm_source=yahooFinance\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:serious toll on her mental health;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">serious toll on her mental health<\/a>. Even though she had recently landed a job paying 40 Canadian dollars ($28.37) an hour, she said she couldn&#8217;t find a better place she could afford.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Her <a href=\"https:\/\/www.benzinga.com\/personal-finance\/financial-advisors\/25\/08\/47351556\/dave-ramsey-rips-into-passive-income-real-estate-hype-says-landlords-are-being-sold-tiktok-dreams?nid=49038889&amp;utm_campaign=partner_feed&amp;utm_content=site&amp;utm_medium=partner_feed&amp;utm_source=yahooFinance\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:current rent was CA$980;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">current rent was CA$980<\/a>. The cheapest upgrade she could find was another basement for CA$1,300. She said she had already ruled out getting a roommate, having lived with over 40 people in the past, and didn&#8217;t want to relocate because she believed her income would drop in a different city.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Don&#8217;t Miss:<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">That&#8217;s when Dave Ramsey asked if she had any debt. She admitted she still had student loans\u2014but also had CA$35,595 saved in a Canadian brokerage account. Ramsey told her to cash it out and pay the loans off immediately.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">&#8220;I know that&#8217;s what you would teach,&#8221; she replied, &#8220;but the investment&#8217;s doing really well.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Co-host George Kamel didn&#8217;t hesitate. &#8220;You&#8217;re broke,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">That&#8217;s when Ramsey jumped in. &#8220;Why did you call us for help if you don&#8217;t want to follow the plan?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">The conversation turned to wellness\u2014her justification for not sharing a home. &#8220;I need to prioritize living on my own to ensure that I prioritize my wellness,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Ramsey didn&#8217;t let it slide. &#8220;Being broke is going to mess with your wellness too,&#8221; he said. &#8220;You can&#8217;t just make up your own rules and call it wellness.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Trending: An EA Co-Founder Shapes This VC Backed Marketplace\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/www.benzinga.com\/money\/gameflip?nid=49038889&amp;utm_campaign=partner_feed&amp;utm_content=site&amp;utm_medium=partner_feed&amp;utm_source=yahooFinance\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Now You Can Invest in Gaming&#039;s Next Big Platform;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Now You Can Invest in Gaming&#8217;s Next Big Platform<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">He explained that what was really fueling her anxiety wasn&#8217;t just the apartment\u2014it was indecision. &#8220;Open loops are what bring anxiety,&#8221; he said. &#8220;Meaning decisions that are not made.&#8221; Leaving every option hanging, refusing to choose, was more stressful than choosing the hard thing and moving forward.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">He laid out her real options: move somewhere cheaper, take on a roommate, stay in the basement, or stay broke. But pretending all four could be avoided wasn&#8217;t a solution\u2014it was a fantasy. &#8220;Pick your pain,&#8221; Ramsey said. &#8220;One of those four is coming to you.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A 28-year-old caller from Vancouver joined &#8220;The Ramsey Show&#8221; with a housing dilemma that quickly became a lesson&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":154350,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"tags":[1125,163,85,46,522,523],"class_list":{"0":"post-154349","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-mental-health","8":"tag-dave-ramsey","9":"tag-health","10":"tag-il","11":"tag-israel","12":"tag-mental-health","13":"tag-mentalhealth"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/154349","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=154349"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/154349\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/154350"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=154349"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=154349"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=154349"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}