{"id":186731,"date":"2025-12-16T01:31:07","date_gmt":"2025-12-16T01:31:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/186731\/"},"modified":"2025-12-16T01:31:07","modified_gmt":"2025-12-16T01:31:07","slug":"brown-university-parent-local-rabbi-reflects-on-pair-of-tragedies-that-hit-close-to-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/186731\/","title":{"rendered":"Brown University parent, local rabbi reflects on pair of tragedies that hit close to home"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Rabbi Adam Stock Spilker reflects on his son narrowly escaping a shooting at Brown University, while also grappling with an attack in Australia.<\/p>\n<p>ST PAUL, Minn. \u2014 As Rabbi Adam Stock Spilker prepares to light the first candle of Hanukkah, he\u2019s also reflecting on a pair of tragedies that touched both his family and his community.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>On Saturday night, the senior rabbi of Mount Zion Temple in St. Paul was at home with his wife when they received a text from their son, Eiden, a 29-year-old <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kare11.com\/article\/syndication\/associatedpress\/authorities-renew-search-for-the-brown-university-shooter-after-releasing-a-person-of-interest\/616-d519c109-1efb-41ca-9690-6d66d766f3b7\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Brown University<\/a> graduate now working at the university as a \u201cmaker in residence\u201d in the Brown Design Workshop.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe workshop shares space in the engineering building. It&#8217;s right next to it, so the hallway connects to where the auditorium was and the bathroom. And he was about to go to that bathroom,\u201d recounted the rabbi about how his son was mere feet \u2013 and moments \u2013 away from where the shooter started firing at students in a bathroom before moving onto the building&#8217;s auditorium.<\/p>\n<p>Once Eiden realized what was happening, his father said he then helped lead others to safety.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe and some others helped get some of the students out of the ground design space onto the street. Then the police said you need to run, get into spaces, shelter in place, and they got into safety,\u201d Rabbi Spilker said, noting that Eiden now recalls those moments as \u201ca blur.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And while the Brown graduate himself continues processing what happened, so does his father struggle to accept the close call involving one of his three children.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThank God you&#8217;re OK. And my heart breaks for the victims, which it does. But then I started realizing \u2013 my body started realizing, as it started shaking \u2013 like, oh my gosh, this is where, but for the grace of God, Eiden could have been there,\u201d Spilker shared.<\/p>\n<p>And while the father contemplated the close call, his relative peace only lasted a few hours. The next morning, the rabbi awoke to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kare11.com\/article\/syndication\/associatedpress\/us-jewish-groups-urge-heightened-security-at-public-events-after-hanukkah-attack-in-australia\/616-6f9e2d3b-7e42-4f54-9a60-1d271356962b\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">news about an attack<\/a> on his \u201cfellow Jews\u201d during a Hanukkah gathering in Australia.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou think about the human loss and the terror that these families and the turmoil that they\u2019re feeling, and it is really hard,\u201d Rabbi said, adding that he fears the rhetoric of today \u2013 largely targeting the actions of Israel \u2013 puts all Jews at risk.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen that turns into statements such as, \u2018Globalize the Intifada,\u2019 that statement has real-world consequences,\u201d he warned.<\/p>\n<p>But while this rabbi is still recovering from the weekend\u2019s darkness, today he also holds onto the light of Hanukkah, along with the resilience and hope of his Jewish and greater community.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cRemember that there are many, many more people with love in their hearts than hate in their hearts \u2013 and to hold onto that, that is important,\u201d he said before recalling the Hanukkah message he shared with his congregation just a couple days ago: \u201cWe often talk about the miracle of the oil lasting for eight nights. I think the real miracle\u2026 is they had the faith to light it on that first day, thinking it was only going to last for one day. And they lit that light. That&#8217;s faith, and that&#8217;s what we have to do in times of darkness.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Rabbi Adam Stock Spilker reflects on his son narrowly escaping a shooting at Brown University, while also grappling&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":186732,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[42,43,40,38,41,39],"class_list":{"0":"post-186731","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-headlines","8":"tag-headlines","9":"tag-news","10":"tag-top-news","11":"tag-top-stories","12":"tag-topnews","13":"tag-topstories"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/186731","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=186731"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/186731\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/186732"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=186731"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=186731"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=186731"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}