{"id":213018,"date":"2025-12-31T11:19:12","date_gmt":"2025-12-31T11:19:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/213018\/"},"modified":"2025-12-31T11:19:12","modified_gmt":"2025-12-31T11:19:12","slug":"my-hoarding-is-not-a-lifestyle-choice-its-a-mental-health-issue-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/213018\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;My hoarding is not a lifestyle choice, it&#8217;s a mental health issue&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bea SwallowWest of England<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1765835709_216_grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-5340b511-0 gUePlo hide-when-no-script\" aria-label=\"image unavailable\"\/><img decoding=\"async\"   src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/a389eb50-cf7a-11f0-8390-cf8c18f355e0.png.webp.webp\" loading=\"eager\" alt=\"Handout The bedroom of a person with hoarding disorder, stacked high with piles of books and clothes.\" class=\"sc-5340b511-0 hLdNfA\"\/>Handout<\/p>\n<p>Hoarding was recognised as a complex mental health condition in 2013<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">A sliver of space left on a mattress, narrow winding pathways carved through clutter and precarious piles of newspapers &#8211; this is just a small glimpse behind the curtain of a person living with a hoarding disorder.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Jess, not her real name, navigated a turbulent childhood which she said manifested itself in adulthood as a &#8220;paralyzing anxiety&#8221; when faced with difficult situations.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;I feel my environment has always been out of control and that&#8217;s part of the problem,&#8221; she explained. &#8220;It&#8217;s an inability to deal with things.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Jess, who lives in north Bristol, said her problem with clutter began innocently through accumulating books in a bid to become more &#8220;self-reliant&#8221; after moving to university to escape her difficult home life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">As the years passed her collection morphed into a hoard that was too  &#8220;overwhelming&#8221; to face &#8211; every room in her flat overflowing with boxes of paperwork, food, packaging and clothing. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">On one occasion, her parents turned up unannounced on the doorstep for a surprise visit but she could not bear to let them in. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;I felt absolutely dreadful, I was so embarrassed&#8221; she said. &#8220;In that moment, I felt the pain of not being able to be who I wanted to be.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Jess, who is in her 70s, goes into &#8220;panic mode&#8221; when the doorbell rings and will not allow anyone into her home due to fear of shame and judgement. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">She described the &#8220;terror&#8221; of making new friends in case they might expect their invite to be reciprocated and chooses her words carefully to avoid exposing the &#8220;chaos&#8221; she calls home. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;It&#8217;s an extremely distressing and limiting condition,&#8221; she explained. &#8220;It has such a massive impact on every aspect of my life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;Somebody coming in from the outside, who doesn&#8217;t have an understanding, might think we&#8217;re lazy, unclean or greedy. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;But it&#8217;s not a lifestyle choice, it&#8217;s a mental health issue.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>What is hoarding disorder?<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Hoarding was recognised as a complex mental health condition in 2013.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Between two and five per cent of the UK population is estimated to be affected by a hoarding disorder &#8211; equating to about 1.2 million people. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">It is defined as the urge to acquire unusually large amounts of possessions and an inability to get rid of those possessions &#8211; even when they have no practical use or monetary value.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/mental-health\/conditions\/hoarding-disorder\/\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 iCaRzc\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">According to the NHS<\/a>, hoarding becomes a significant problem if it negatively affects the person&#8217;s quality of life, causes significant distress and interferes with everyday living. <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1765835709_216_grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-5340b511-0 gUePlo hide-when-no-script\" aria-label=\"image unavailable\"\/><img decoding=\"async\"   src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/b7a5d390-d04e-11f0-a892-01d657345866.png.webp.webp\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Nosa A selfie of James Hicks wearing a grey sweatshirt with a black collar poking out the top. He has green-grey eyes, black curly hair and a trimmed beard, and is smiling at the camera. Behind him there is a cream wall, a wooden doorway and a plant.\" class=\"sc-5340b511-0 hLdNfA\"\/>Nosa<\/p>\n<p>Psychotherapist James Hicks works in research and treatment for a range of mental health issues, including OCD, hoarding and specific phobias<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">James Hicks, 41, a cognitive behavioural therapist (CBT) at Nosa in Staple Hill, said it often stems from a &#8220;heightened emotional attachment&#8221; to objects. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;When you look deeper into somebody&#8217;s past, quite often you&#8217;ll find they were treated less than desirably by the people that were important in their lives,&#8221; he said. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;What would it feel like if you had value and meaning but somebody simply dismissed you? Well that would feel awful, wouldn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;They believe they are responsible for the wellbeing of their belongings and if they discard them, they are doing them a disservice.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;If you felt every time you took the rubbish out you were ripping yourself away from a loved family member then you might have some idea of what it&#8217;s like to suffer from hoarding disorder,&#8221; he added.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1765835709_216_grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-5340b511-0 gUePlo hide-when-no-script\" aria-label=\"image unavailable\"\/><img decoding=\"async\"   src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/42b23e30-cf7b-11f0-8c06-f5d460985095.jpg.webp.webp\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Handout A composite image showing two pictures side by side. On the left there is a small room with an open wardrobe, which is full of stacked books, piles of clothing and CDs. On the right there is a staircase with the right hand side full of tall piles of newspapers, cardboard boxes and bags.\" class=\"sc-5340b511-0 hLdNfA\"\/>Handout<\/p>\n<p>In the years since these images were taken, the piles of books and newspapers had reached the top of Horace&#8217;s stairway wall<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Horace, not his real name, also has a hoarding disorder. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">He said this &#8220;sense of loss&#8221; originated when his father threw away his collection of 1920&#8217;s records as a teenager without consulting him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;I was absolutely gutted, really angry and upset,&#8221; he recalled. &#8220;It was a question of him imposing his will on me. In the back of my mind that has stuck with me. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;Whether that became a trigger to keep things and make sure nobody disposed of them, I don&#8217;t know, but I suspect it probably was.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Mini bereavement&#8217; <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">An inherent &#8220;thirst for knowledge&#8221; eventually led to Horace stockpiling books and newspapers with the intention of cutting out interesting excerpts later. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">He would even dig through neighbours&#8217; recycling boxes because the thought of wasting valuable information was unbearable. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;I had a mountain of newspapers, almost as tall as I was, blocking my hallway and staircase,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;I would have to clamber over it to get to any other room. Bags and bags of books and newspapers stacked on top of each other that I&#8217;d collected over 20 years. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;It&#8217;s ridiculous to think I got myself into that situation, but I did.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Horace said he had drastically reduced his hoard over time but described getting rid of his things as a &#8220;mini bereavement&#8221;, watching items he once loved disappear, knowing he will never see them again. <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1765835709_216_grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-5340b511-0 gUePlo hide-when-no-script\" aria-label=\"image unavailable\"\/><img decoding=\"async\"   src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/d3db9ae0-d049-11f0-8c06-f5d460985095.png.webp.webp\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Making Space Piles of hundreds of newspapers stacked on top of each other to a height of around six foot. The top of a window with chequered curtains is barely visible on the right. \" class=\"sc-5340b511-0 hLdNfA\"\/>Making Space<\/p>\n<p>This image was taken by a volunteer at Making Space charity before they helped clear a room full of newspapers<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">The pair have since joined a charity group called Making Space, funded by Bristol City Council, which helps provide practical and emotional support for those with the condition.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Volunteers receive training on how to work on a one-to-one basis with tenants and must be able to give two hours of their time a week.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Case manager Naomi Morgan described the<a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/wecr.org.uk\/jobs-and-volunteering\/\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 iCaRzc\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"> <\/a><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/wecr.org.uk\/jobs-and-volunteering\/\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 iCaRzc\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">&#8220;hugely rewarding&#8221; role<\/a> as an &#8220;integral part of transforming people&#8217;s lives&#8221; by increasing their confidence and wellbeing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Jess said the tailored experience has not only helped her clear space but &#8220;make a home&#8221;, and now looks forward to &#8220;a more sociable and less anxiety-ridden future&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Untangling the origins&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Jess now possesses a better understanding of what causes her hoarding tendencies, but says &#8220;it has been a long journey&#8221;. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;It&#8217;s really hard for people with hoarding disorder to understand why they&#8217;re doing the things they&#8217;re doing, why they&#8217;re living this way,&#8221; she explained.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;It doesn&#8217;t make any sense, and it&#8217;s hard to untangle those origins.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Horace urged people to treat those with the disorder with &#8220;kindness, patience, respect and empathy&#8221;, and allow the person to remain in control.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;Even if you can&#8217;t understand it, don&#8217;t be judgemental,&#8221; he pleaded. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;Try to support them by encouraging them, rather than simply saying &#8216;this is no way to live&#8217;.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Bea SwallowWest of England Handout Hoarding was recognised as a complex mental health condition in 2013 A sliver&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":213019,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"tags":[163,85,46,522,523],"class_list":{"0":"post-213018","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-mental-health","8":"tag-health","9":"tag-il","10":"tag-israel","11":"tag-mental-health","12":"tag-mentalhealth"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/213018","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=213018"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/213018\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/213019"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=213018"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=213018"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=213018"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}