{"id":227507,"date":"2026-01-08T16:23:11","date_gmt":"2026-01-08T16:23:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/227507\/"},"modified":"2026-01-08T16:23:11","modified_gmt":"2026-01-08T16:23:11","slug":"after-hilary-duffs-husband-ruthlessly-mocked-ashley-tisdale-weve-got-some-new-reports-on-the-cause-of-all-the-toxic-mom-group-drama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/227507\/","title":{"rendered":"After Hilary Duff\u2019s Husband Ruthlessly Mocked Ashley Tisdale, We\u2019ve Got Some New Reports On The Cause Of All The \u201cToxic Mom Group\u201d Drama"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Unless you\u2019ve been hiding under a rock all week, I imagine you\u2019ve heard about this \u201ctoxic mom group\u201d drama going on with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/natashajokic1\/ashley-tisdale-name-change-french\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Ashley Tisdale;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Ashley Tisdale<\/a> French.<img alt=\"A person in a stylish black outfit sits in an interview setting with bookshelves and decorations in the background\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"700\" height=\"467\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/cf3b8c1df3ed328bf94df382dbecfac5.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p> Bravo \/ Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>On January 1, Ashley \u2014 who shares two daughters with her husband, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/abbyzinman\/ashley-tisdales-daughter-watches-hsm\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Christopher French;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Christopher French<\/a> \u2014 published a personal essay for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thecut.com\/article\/ashley-tisdale-french-mom-group-mean-girls-parenting.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:The Cut;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">The Cut<\/a>, in which she wrote about \u201cbreaking up with\u201d her \u201ctoxic\u201d group of mom friends in LA.<img alt=\"Two people walking on a city street; one in a white suit with a black handbag, the other in a denim jacket and cap, wearing casual brown pants\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"700\" height=\"960\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/4ab00c364d01c557fd15ca65a2eb9949.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p> Jose Perez \/ Getty Images<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/stephaniesoteriou\/winona-ryder-surrounded-by-young-women-weird-stuff-faces?utm_source=yahoo-recirc-links\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:\u201cYou\u2019re Gonna Want That Back\u201d: Winona Ryder Just Reflected On The Young Women She Knows Undergoing Buccal Fat Removal;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">\u201cYou\u2019re Gonna Want That Back\u201d: Winona Ryder Just Reflected On The Young Women She Knows Undergoing Buccal Fat Removal<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201cI remember being left out of a couple of group hangs, and I knew about them because Instagram made sure it fed me every single photo and Instagram Story,\u201d she wrote. \u201cAnother time, at one of the mom\u2019s dinner parties, I realized where I sat with her \u2014 which was at the end of the table, far from the rest of the women. I was starting to feel frozen out of the group, noticing every way that they seemed to exclude me.\u201dNotably, Ashley did not name any of the moms she was referring to, but it didn\u2019t take long for fans to piece together that Ashley used to be part of the same <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CgsNPp-v6I2\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:mom group;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">mom group<\/a> as other celebrities like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/jenniferabidor\/teen-movie-ladies-00s-then-now\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Mandy Moore;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Mandy Moore<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/leylamohammed\/hilary-duff-mature-lyrics-joel-madden-rumors\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Hilary Duff;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Hilary Duff<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/leylamohammed\/meghan-trainor-slams-weight-loss-critics\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Meghan Trainor;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Meghan Trainor<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Advertisement<\/p>\n<p>Advertisement<\/p>\n<p>Advertisement<\/p>\n<p>Advertisement<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/larryfitzmaurice\/how-gwyneth-paltrow-feels-chris-martin-dakota-johnson-split?utm_source=yahoo-recirc-links\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Here&#039;s How Gwyneth Paltrow Reportedly Feels About Chris Martin And Dakota Johnson&#039;s Alleged Split;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Here&#8217;s How Gwyneth Paltrow Reportedly Feels About Chris Martin And Dakota Johnson&#8217;s Alleged Split<\/a><\/p>\n<p>A representative for Ashley publicly denied the widespread speculation that her essay was about that particular group of women; however, Hilary\u2019s husband, Matthew Koma, went and majorly stirred the pot this week by posting a parody of the article on social media, branding Ashley \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/leylamohammed\/hilary-duff-husband-slams-ashley-tisdale-toxic-moms-essay\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:self-obsessed;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">self-obsessed<\/a>\u201d and \u201ctone-deaf.\u201d<img alt=\"Two people pose in front of an Apple Music logo; one wears a polka dot dress, the other a denim jacket and red cap\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"1156\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/22bc1f8810f4962b9fa9adffd20cff18.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p> Amy Sussman \/ Getty Images<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Matthew\u2019s parody of the essay headline read: \u201cWhen You&#8217;re The Most Self-Obsessed Tone Deaf Person On Earth, Other Moms Tend To Shift Focus To Their Actual Toddlers,\u201d while an additional sub-headline said: \u201cA Mom Group Tell All Through A Father&#8217;s Eyes.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Since then, the internet has been abuzz with theories about what may have happened here. And now, a source close to the group has spoken to <a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/ashley-tisdale-mom-group-drama-stemmed-misalignment-values-sources-exclusive-11880539\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:People;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">People<\/a> about the cause of the falling out, claiming that it stemmed from \u201ca misalignment of values that Ashley decided to make public.\u201d<img alt=\"A woman with long hair and bangs smiles on the red carpet, wearing a tailored dark jacket over a buttoned shirt\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"1300\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/28bce49b71c4d292a75a9e4e4ebb9359.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p> Axelle \/ Getty Images<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/mychalthompson\/48-actors-lookalikes?utm_source=yahoo-recirc-links\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:People Are Sharing Actors Who They Didn&#039;t Realize Are Two Different People, And It&#039;s Uncanny;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">People Are Sharing Actors Who They Didn&#8217;t Realize Are Two Different People, And It&#8217;s Uncanny<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Friends naturally drift apart,&#8221; they added. &#8220;It didn\u2019t warrant a dramatic breakup text.&#8221;<img alt=\"Group of women outdoors, all smiling and wearing matching comfortable outfits with &quot;Mother&quot; printed. Casual and relaxed setting\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"702\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/fda4c7125c5e8f4f92efc2c52c5cb8e3.jpeg\"\/>A second source shared more insight into Ashley\u2019s reasoning for sharing the essay, suggesting that she \u201cput this out there\u201d because she wants people to know that \u201ctoxic behavior is not acceptable.\u201d \u201cThis is blowing up in the craziest way,\u201d they acknowledged.<\/p>\n<p>Advertisement<\/p>\n<p>Advertisement<\/p>\n<p>Advertisement<\/p>\n<p>Advertisement<\/p>\n<p>At the time of writing, it appears that Ashley no longer follows Hilary or Mandy on Instagram. She does, however, still follow Meghan. We\u2019ve reached out to Ashley\u2019s representative about all this, and we\u2019ll be sure to let you know if we hear anything in response.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/stephaniesoteriou\/millie-bobby-brown-telling-parenting-photos-jake-bongiovi?utm_source=yahoo-recirc-links\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:After People Criticized Jake Bongiovi For Not Helping Millie Bobby Brown With Their Baby And Bags In Recent Paparazzi Footage, Millie Shared Some Pretty Eyebrow-Raising Instagram Photos;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">After People Criticized Jake Bongiovi For Not Helping Millie Bobby Brown With Their Baby And Bags In Recent Paparazzi Footage, Millie Shared Some Pretty Eyebrow-Raising Instagram Photos<\/a><\/p>\n<p>In the meantime, something tells me we\u2019re gonna be talking about this for a while\u2026More on this<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Also in Celebrity: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/larryfitzmaurice\/quinta-brunson-comments-divorce-kevin-anik?utm_source=yahoo-recirc-links\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Here&#039;s What Quinta Brunson Had To Say About Her Divorce From Kevin Anik;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Here&#8217;s What Quinta Brunson Had To Say About Her Divorce From Kevin Anik<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Also in Celebrity: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/kaylayandoli\/millennials-gen-z-identify-famous-people-from-80s-fs?utm_source=yahoo-recirc-links\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Listen Up, Millennials And Gen Z&#039;ers: If You Can Identify These 17 Famous People, Your Parents Raised You Right;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Listen Up, Millennials And Gen Z&#8217;ers: If You Can Identify These 17 Famous People, Your Parents Raised You Right<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Also in Celebrity: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/angelicaamartinez\/embarrassing-celeb-moments-2025-cringe?utm_source=yahoo-recirc-links\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:18 Celebrity Interview Moments From This Year That Are SoOoOoOo Awkward, I&#039;m Feeling Major Secondhand Embarrassment;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">18 Celebrity Interview Moments From This Year That Are SoOoOoOo Awkward, I&#8217;m Feeling Major Secondhand Embarrassment<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/ellendurney\/ashley-tisdale-toxic-mom-group-drama-cause?utm_source=yahoo-recirc-links\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Read it on BuzzFeed.com;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Read it on BuzzFeed.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Unless you\u2019ve been hiding under a rock all week, I imagine you\u2019ve heard about this \u201ctoxic mom group\u201d&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":227508,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[62982,458,146,1077,7394,85,46,124293,124292],"class_list":{"0":"post-227507","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-celebrities","8":"tag-ashley-tisdale","9":"tag-celebrities","10":"tag-entertainment","11":"tag-getty-images","12":"tag-hilary-duff","13":"tag-il","14":"tag-israel","15":"tag-mom-friends","16":"tag-mom-group"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/227507","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=227507"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/227507\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/227508"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=227507"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=227507"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=227507"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}