{"id":265320,"date":"2026-01-30T12:01:10","date_gmt":"2026-01-30T12:01:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/265320\/"},"modified":"2026-01-30T12:01:10","modified_gmt":"2026-01-30T12:01:10","slug":"you-cant-live-angry-all-the-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/265320\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018You can\u2019t live angry all the time\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cI see and hear about inquiries from Israeli doctors, some of them quite senior, who are exploring options and testing the waters about moving to the United States,\u201d Prof. Avi Almozlino told ynet. Almozlino is chairman of the neurology department at Newton-Wellesley Hospital in Massachusetts and is among the most senior \u2014 and certainly the most veteran \u2014 Israeli physicians in the U.S.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"gelleryOpener\" aria-label=\"open article gallery\" data-image-id=\"ArticleImageData.r1e11B2bqLZx\" id=\"image_ArticleImageData.r1e11B2bqLZx\"><\/p>\n<p>5 View gallery <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.r1e11B2bqLZx\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/SJg115rF78bg_0_0_1280_720_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e4\u05e8\u05d5\u05e4' \u05d0\u05d1\u05d9 \u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5\" title=\"Prof. Avi Almozlino  (Photo: Eclipse Media) \" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/a><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.r1e11B2bqLZx\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/SJg115rF78bg_0_0_1280_720_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e4\u05e8\u05d5\u05e4' \u05d0\u05d1\u05d9 \u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5\" title=\"Prof. Avi Almozlino  (Photo: Eclipse Media) \" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Prof. Avi Almozlino <\/p>\n<p>(Photo: Eclipse Media)<\/p>\n<p>For more than 40 years, Almozlino has been an Israeli doctor in the United States. Throughout those years, he considered returning to Israel, and the longing was difficult, but in the end he chose to settle in the U.S. He also volunteers as co-chair of the Israeli American Council, which brings together Israeli communities across the country.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m not angry at Israeli doctors who come to America; it\u2019s a personal choice. For some people, it works,\u201d he said. \u201cYou don\u2019t want to stay in Israel and be angry all the time \u2014 I don\u2019t think you\u2019d function. I don\u2019t encourage it and I don\u2019t facilitate it, but those who already do it, I try to help if they\u2019re here. We need to be inclusive of those who are already here, regardless of how they arrived. Someone who decided Israel wasn\u2019t right for them and wants to be part of the community \u2014 I will certainly include and help them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Do you encourage them?<br \/>\n\u201cI don\u2019t encourage it, because it isn\u2019t easy. Life led my wife and me to the U.S. From a Zionist perspective, actively immigrating here as an act of protest, especially if you\u2019re a senior, well-established doctor in Israel, is not the right move in my opinion. On a personal level, coming to the U.S. and starting over is hard. The system is different, the language is different \u2014 even the medical language is different. The mentality is different, too. I came here at 28; that made it easier. For someone more mature, the transition is much harder. I know people who came later in life, struggled, and some even returned.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In fact, Prof. Almozlino never worked as a physician in Israel beyond his internship. His entire career was built in the U.S. \u201cWe wanted to return. Twice I was practically on the plane back to Israel. I was in contact with hospitals in Israel, Sheba and Ichilov. They told me, \u2018Come back \u2014 it will be fine.\u2019 People warned me about the words \u2018it will be fine.\u2019 I wanted solid facts, which no one could give me, so we stayed one step short of boarding. That was in my late 30s.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"gelleryOpener\" aria-label=\"open article gallery\" data-image-id=\"ArticleImageData.r1egi2b5LWl\" id=\"image_ArticleImageData.r1egi2b5LWl\"><\/p>\n<p>5 View gallery <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.r1egi2b5LWl\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/H1ZZcrtX8Wg_0_0_1280_720_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e4\u05e8\u05d5\u05e4' \u05d0\u05d1\u05d9 \u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5 \u05d5\u05e8\u05e2\u05d9\u05d9\u05ea\u05d5 \u05e0\u05e2\u05de\u05d9 \u05e2\u05dd \u05d3\u05d0\u05d2\u05dc\u05e1 \u05de\u05d0\u05e8\u05d9\" title=\"Prof. Avi Almozlino and his wife, Naomi, with journalist Douglas Murray  (Photo: Noam Galai) \" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/a><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.r1egi2b5LWl\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/H1ZZcrtX8Wg_0_0_1280_720_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e4\u05e8\u05d5\u05e4' \u05d0\u05d1\u05d9 \u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5 \u05d5\u05e8\u05e2\u05d9\u05d9\u05ea\u05d5 \u05e0\u05e2\u05de\u05d9 \u05e2\u05dd \u05d3\u05d0\u05d2\u05dc\u05e1 \u05de\u05d0\u05e8\u05d9\" title=\"Prof. Avi Almozlino and his wife, Naomi, with journalist Douglas Murray  (Photo: Noam Galai) \" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Prof. Avi Almozlino and his wife, Naomi, with journalist Douglas Murray <\/p>\n<p>(Photo: Noam Galai)<\/p>\n<p>For years, he and his wife spent weekends going to yard sales. \u201cWe bought things we thought would be suitable when we returned to Israel. We stored them away and they gathered dust, until we realized we probably weren\u2019t going back, and then we sold them at our own yard sale.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Do you miss Israel?<br \/>\n\u201cYes, there\u2019s longing, but I allow myself to travel to Israel twice a year. In the early years it was harder because I worked intensely to build my professional standing. Today I make up for it with trips to Israel, ties with Israeli friends and involvement in the IAC.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Does it weigh on you that you didn\u2019t manage to return?<br \/>\n\u201cHonestly, no. In the early years, yes, and it pushed me toward wanting to return, but it\u2019s a good question I haven\u2019t really thought about. The fact that my son lives there may ease my conscience a bit.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"gelleryOpener\" aria-label=\"open article gallery\" data-image-id=\"ArticleImageData.ryxAbTW58Wl\" id=\"image_ArticleImageData.ryxAbTW58Wl\"><\/p>\n<p>5 View gallery <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.ryxAbTW58Wl\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/SkW9rt78bx_0_162_1280_721_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e4\u05e8\u05d5\u05e4' \u05d0\u05d1\u05d9 \u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5\" title=\"Photo: Courtesy\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/a><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.ryxAbTW58Wl\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/SkW9rt78bx_0_162_1280_721_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e4\u05e8\u05d5\u05e4' \u05d0\u05d1\u05d9 \u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5\" title=\"Photo: Courtesy\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Almozlino, 70, was born and raised in Tel Aviv and has a distant family connection to Shoshana Arbeli-Almozlino, who served as Israel\u2019s health minister in the 1980s. He grew up two blocks from David Ben-Gurion\u2019s home and, as a child, would see him and be excited like all the neighborhood kids. \u201cThey would always bring Ben-Gurion boxes of chocolates, and Paula would take them and hand them out to the neighborhood children so he wouldn\u2019t eat them,\u201d he recalled.<\/p>\n<p>He developed an interest in life sciences in high school and studied in a biology track. He enlisted in the Golani Brigade, but after a herniated disc became a researcher at the induction center. After the army, he studied medicine at Tel Aviv University and completed his internship at Beilinson Hospital.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAt the end of my internship I was newly married. My wife, Naomi, is an architect and a Technion graduate. The stars aligned. She received a scholarship for a master\u2019s degree at Harvard, and I was accepted into a neurology residency at a Boston hospital, one of the best in the world. We decided we wanted to experience the world for a few years. We thought it would last four or five years \u2014 and we never went back.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIsrael has excellent medicine and outstanding doctors. I\u2019ve always said I am a product of Israel\u2019s medical education,\u201d he said. \u201cWhen I arrived in Boston at 28, my English wasn\u2019t great, my manners weren\u2019t exactly American, and I entered a residency program with top U.S. medical school graduates, many from Harvard. What saved me was the medical education I received in Israel. Maybe their English was better, but my medicine was just as good, if not better.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Almozlino has a son and a daughter, Adam and Julie. His eldest son, Adam, 38, immigrated to Israel. \u201cIn December 2020, at the height of COVID, when everyone was isolated, my son, a data scientist, went to Israel for three months, settled in Tel Aviv and fell in love with it. He met a woman, got married a year and a half ago, and has since founded a startup.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>What did you think of his move? Were you jealous?<br \/>\n\u201cI don\u2019t know if jealous is the right word. I was truly happy for him. There\u2019s something about Israel that\u2019s hard to find elsewhere. It felt like closing a circle. I think I\u2019m a Zionist in every fiber of my being, and what better expression of the Zionist idea than having your firstborn make aliyah and fulfill the Zionist dream?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>News, images and voices from the October 7 massacre quickly reached across the ocean and caught Prof. Almozlino in the middle of a workday. \u201cIt was a very difficult day. I was shocked, like everyone else. That day and in the days that followed, I felt like someone with severe attention issues, because you\u2019re constantly focused on what\u2019s happening in Israel. I was shaken.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Did you lose friends after October 7?<br \/>\n\u201cIn the first days there was full empathy and sympathy, Jewish and non-Jewish. At first, Israel was clearly seen as the victim. People constantly checked that my family was OK. They didn\u2019t even know what the Gaza border region was. As time went on and Israel responded, that faded and the empathy disappeared. Some colleagues \u2014 mostly Jewish \u2014 and close friends who are naturally pro-Israel stayed with us. No one accused me of genocide, but people stopped wanting to talk about it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"gelleryOpener\" aria-label=\"open article gallery\" data-image-id=\"ArticleImageData.BylU1AZ98be\" id=\"image_ArticleImageData.BylU1AZ98be\"><\/p>\n<p>5 View gallery <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.BylU1AZ98be\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/B1PWK5PrZ6_0_52_1300_732_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e4\u05e8\u05d9\u05e6\u05ea \u05d4\u05d2\u05d3\u05e8 \u05d1\u05d2\u05d1\u05d5\u05dc \u05e2\u05d6\u05d4\" title=\"Photo: Reuters\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/a><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.BylU1AZ98be\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/B1PWK5PrZ6_0_52_1300_732_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e4\u05e8\u05d9\u05e6\u05ea \u05d4\u05d2\u05d3\u05e8 \u05d1\u05d2\u05d1\u05d5\u05dc \u05e2\u05d6\u05d4\" title=\"Photo: Reuters\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Did you encounter hostility?<br \/>\n\u201cHonestly, no \u2014 not professionally, not with colleagues or patients. But among some Jews in the community we meet on Shabbat and pray with \u2014 mostly academics from Jewish families \u2014 there were those who criticized Israel\u2019s decision-making and conduct of the war. \u2018You\u2019re a bit too aggressive,\u2019 they said.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Did you consider returning to Israel after October 7?<br \/>\n\u201cI\u2019m at a stage in life where I don\u2019t know how much I can change it. I\u2019m still at my professional peak, but when I slow down, I\u2019ll return to Israel for part of the year and hope to contribute medically. Right now, I run a neurology department here and have major responsibilities. I can\u2019t allow myself to spend long periods in Israel.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Last October, shortly before the release of the last 20 living hostages and the announcement of a ceasefire with Hamas, two articles published in The Lancet and The New England Journal of Medicine sparked outrage in Israel. Among other claims, they accused Israel of genocide and the destruction of Gaza\u2019s health system. What angered many was that Israeli doctors were involved. Prof. Almozlino rejects those claims.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWar is a complicated business, and it\u2019s hard to meet every ideal standard of conduct given the nature of war,\u201d he said. \u201cIt\u2019s something to strive for, but hard to maintain consistently. From what I know of Israel and the IDF, I don\u2019t believe the military ever intentionally targeted civilians or had malicious intent. Civilian harm is tragic, but it resulted from the conditions imposed by the enemy, Hamas. Ignoring that fact and blaming those defending you deserves condemnation.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"gelleryOpener\" aria-label=\"open article gallery\" data-image-id=\"ArticleImageData.SJeLSRW9I11l\" id=\"image_ArticleImageData.SJeLSRW9I11l\"><\/p>\n<p>5 View gallery <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.SJeLSRW9I11l\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/ryWEJ6FIWl_0_113_1280_721_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e4\u05e8\u05d5\u05e4' \u05d0\u05d1\u05d9 \u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5 \u05d5\u05de\u05e9\u05e4\u05d7\u05ea\u05d5. \u05de\u05d9\u05de\u05d9\u05df: \u05d1\u05ea\u05d5 \u05d9\u05d5\u05dc\u05d9 \u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5, \u05d0\u05d9\u05d2'\u05d9 \u05e7\u05d0\u05d4\u05df-\u05d2\u05e4\u05df (\u05d1\u05e2\u05dc\u05d4 \u05e9\u05dc \u05d1\u05ea\u05d5), \u05d0\u05e9\u05ea\u05d5 \u05e0\u05e2\u05de\u05d9 \u05d6\u05d9\u05d2\u05dc-\u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5, \u05d0\u05d1\u05d9 \u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5, \u05d0\u05e0\u05d4 \u05de\u05d5\u05e1\u05e7\u05d5\u05d1\u05d9\u05e5 (\u05d0\u05e9\u05ea \u05d1\u05e0\u05d5) \u05d5\u05d1\u05e0\u05d5 \u05d0\u05d3\u05dd \u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5\" title=\"Prof. Avi Almozlino and his family  (Photo: Courtesy) \" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/a><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.SJeLSRW9I11l\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/ryWEJ6FIWl_0_113_1280_721_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e4\u05e8\u05d5\u05e4' \u05d0\u05d1\u05d9 \u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5 \u05d5\u05de\u05e9\u05e4\u05d7\u05ea\u05d5. \u05de\u05d9\u05de\u05d9\u05df: \u05d1\u05ea\u05d5 \u05d9\u05d5\u05dc\u05d9 \u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5, \u05d0\u05d9\u05d2'\u05d9 \u05e7\u05d0\u05d4\u05df-\u05d2\u05e4\u05df (\u05d1\u05e2\u05dc\u05d4 \u05e9\u05dc \u05d1\u05ea\u05d5), \u05d0\u05e9\u05ea\u05d5 \u05e0\u05e2\u05de\u05d9 \u05d6\u05d9\u05d2\u05dc-\u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5, \u05d0\u05d1\u05d9 \u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5, \u05d0\u05e0\u05d4 \u05de\u05d5\u05e1\u05e7\u05d5\u05d1\u05d9\u05e5 (\u05d0\u05e9\u05ea \u05d1\u05e0\u05d5) \u05d5\u05d1\u05e0\u05d5 \u05d0\u05d3\u05dd \u05d0\u05dc\u05de\u05d5\u05d6\u05dc\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5\" title=\"Prof. Avi Almozlino and his family  (Photo: Courtesy) \" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Prof. Avi Almozlino and his family <\/p>\n<p>(Photo: Courtesy)<\/p>\n<p>In the end, you advocate for Israel but live a comfortable life in the U.S. How do you reconcile that dissonance?<br \/>\n\u201cYes, I live a relatively comfortable life in the U.S.; that\u2019s where life led me. I try to do my part for Israel. Medicine consumes you \u2014 you can work 22-hour days \u2014 yet I chose to devote time to Israel and to the Jewish and Israeli community here. I believe the historic role of the Israeli American community is to form a strong, unique bloc that serves as the spearhead of American support for Israel.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cToday, Israeli Americans number between 800,000 and 900,000. The Foreign Ministry defines anyone eligible for an Israeli passport as an Israeli American. That\u2019s about 15 percent of American Jewry. Israeli Americans care more about Israel than many American Jews, and American Jewish support is a key pillar of U.S. support for Israel. Our role is to build a strong, influential Israeli community that strengthens the Jewish-American community\u2019s support \u2014 and U.S. support for Israel is essential to Israel\u2019s success and survival.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u201cI see and hear about inquiries from Israeli doctors, some of them quite senior, who are exploring options&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":265321,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[85,46,43],"class_list":{"0":"post-265320","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-israel","8":"tag-il","9":"tag-israel","10":"tag-news"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/265320","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=265320"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/265320\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/265321"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=265320"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=265320"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=265320"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}