{"id":315810,"date":"2026-03-01T05:19:12","date_gmt":"2026-03-01T05:19:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/315810\/"},"modified":"2026-03-01T05:19:12","modified_gmt":"2026-03-01T05:19:12","slug":"moby-home-was-terrifying-at-times-my-mom-dated-hells-angels","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/315810\/","title":{"rendered":"Moby: ‘Home was terrifying at times. My mom dated Hells Angels’"},"content":{"rendered":"

My mom was deeply complicated. She\u2019s one of the smartest, most creative people I\u2019ve ever met, but also very\u2026 I don\u2019t know what her diagnosis would be. Maybe she was borderline. I don\u2019t know, but she would go from being happy, smart, creative to being incredibly depressed and angry, sometimes just at the drop of a hat. So there was a lot of tension in my house. At times it was great, and at times it was really challenging, and I never quite knew what I was going to get. When I think back to that 16-year-old, it\u2019s like an insecure guy who lived in a sad suburb with a possibly mentally ill single parent. I hated it.\u00a0<\/p>\n

We were very poor. There were a lot of deaths and abuse in my family. My father killed himself when I was three. I\u2019d say half of my family members died of something by the time I was 15. We were on government assistance, food stamps, on welfare in a very affluent town. So it was very strange. Up until the time I was 18, I had never met another poor person.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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I liked climbing trees, but the reason I climbed trees was to get away from my house. The house, the home was terrifying at times. You know, my mom dated Hells Angels. There were guns, there were drugs, there was violence, there was abuse. So I was out running around, climbing trees, but just so I could avoid being home. \u00a0<\/p>\n

I wasn\u2019t driven in terms of grand, professional aspirations, because I didn\u2019t think that was in the realm of possibility. I didn\u2019t know that success through creativity was even a possibility. So my ambitions were quite small. When I was 16, my biggest hope was that one of my bands would play a show and more than 10 people would show up. But we would rehearse and rehearse and rehearse and write hundreds of songs and obsessively work on what we were doing in the hope that more than 10 people might come to a show.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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I remember our first gig, and it\u2019s tragic, but hopefully kind of adorable. When we were 15, my high school band, Vatican Commandos, had been practising and practising, and decided it was finally time to play our debut show. We rehearsed probably a couple of hundred times, so thought, OK, we\u2019re ready. We invited everyone we knew to our first show, and it was going to be in a field, because we rehearsed in a barn, and it was next to a field.\u00a0It was a Sunday afternoon. We dragged our equipment into the field, taking three or four extension cords and linking them together, and we set up in the middle of the field. And, I\u2019m not exaggerating, no one showed up. My first show was to an audience of one small dog. His name was Sparky, and the moment we started playing, he went back to his house. But to our credit, we played the entire show.<\/p>\n

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I was a strange kid. I would dress up based on whatever type of music I had been listening to the night before. So sometimes that meant coming to school looking like I was the fifth member of Black Flag or Minor Threat. But if I was listening to Adam and the Ants, I would come to school with a scarf tied in my hair with a white stripe on my nose. If I had been listening to Orchestral Manoeuvres in the Dark, I would try to dress like someone in Vienna in 1932. So people were baffled.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\"\"2000: Onstage at his \u201cprofoundly special\u201d Glastonbury set. Image: Julian Makey \/ Shutterstock<\/p>\n

When I was 18 or 19, I released an EP with this band I was in, and we made 300 copies. We gave away 250 of them, but we sold 50 copies. To me that felt like astounding success. In terms of bigger success, in 1990 I released this obscure, very minimalist, little techno song called Go, and this record company wanted a remix. And so I was working on the remix, and to take a break, I watched an episode of Twin Peaks, and heard Laura Palmer\u2019s Theme by Angelo Badalamenti. I was like, huh, I could probably play this on top of the remix. And that was when, all of a sudden, it went from selling 500 copies of a record to selling 500,000 copies of a record.\u00a0<\/p>\n

My favourite gig was the second time I played Glastonbury, in 2000. It was a year after the album Play came out, and it had just become ridiculously successful. I was playing on the second stage at Glastonbury, and it was nine o\u2019clock at night, so the sun was going down and the sky was pink, and it was warm, and there were 125,000 people singing along to the songs. Joe Strummer and Bez were on the side of the stage dancing, and I remember that moment just being like, wow, this is actually profoundly special.<\/p>\n

Right before she died, when my mom was in the hospital, I looked at my birth certificate, and it said, \u201cNumber of births prior to this: one.\u201d I was like, huh, either that\u2019s a typo, or I have a half-brother or sister. And that\u2019s how I found out my mother had gotten pregnant in high school and put the child up for adoption. I have no idea who that person, my brother, is, and I also don\u2019t really care. You know, we share DNA with pine trees. It\u2019s hard to get too excited about the fact that there\u2019s someone out there with a slightly increased percentage of shared DNA with me.<\/p>\n

If I could have one last conversation with anyone\u2026 I guess my father, because he killed himself at such a young age, when he was 26, and I would just simply want to say, I\u2019m sorry that you were suffering that much. But if that\u2019s what you felt like you needed to do, it was OK.<\/p>\n

\"\"2025: Performing at Portola Festival, San Francisco, USA. Image: Jaime Schultz \/ Shutterstock<\/p>\n

If I could relive one day it would be when a friend of mine took me to learn to water ski. I grew up very poor. But a friend of mine\u2019s uncle had a water-skiing boat on a beautiful lake. It was one of those perfect summer days, like 80\u00b0C, the water was cool, but still nice. It was just one of those days when you\u2019re 19 years old, and the world seems endless. The water is beautiful. You\u2019re laughing with your friends. At one point, I remember getting pulled behind the boat on a piece of wood or a boogie board or something. And it was so euphoric and just delightful. So if I could virtually relive a moment. It would be that moment.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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Moby<\/a>\u2019s new album, Future Quiet, is out now on BMG. He tours Europe this summer. <\/p>\n

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