{"id":402203,"date":"2026-04-20T19:46:11","date_gmt":"2026-04-20T19:46:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/402203\/"},"modified":"2026-04-20T19:46:11","modified_gmt":"2026-04-20T19:46:11","slug":"dont-be-afraid-to-spend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/402203\/","title":{"rendered":"Don\u2019t Be Afraid to Spend"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">Charlie\u2019s $2.4 million portfolio supports a 4% safe withdrawal rate \u2014 $96,000 annually \u2014 but he spends only $50,000. He\u2019s stuck in a scarcity loop.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">This pattern affects first-generation wealth builders in their 60s and 70s with seven-figure portfolios and sufficient monthly income. The scarcity mindset that enabled accumulation now prevents retirement spending that the math fully supports.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">\u201cThat fear, it\u2019s not rational, right?,\u201d said host Rachel Cruze. \u201cYou got $2.4 million sitting there.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">The analyst who called NVIDIA in 2010 just named his top 10 AI stocks. <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/247wallst.com\/lp\/top-10-ai-stocks\/?i=1edf5a5e-321d-47d1-921b-8beedeecb3eb&amp;p=ecf6d5a4-7e6e-4e25-84bb-587ab66e3617&amp;pos=keypoints&amp;tpid=1582746&amp;l=a5c26dce-da07-4303-a158-921be0f3c60c&amp;c=de44328e-c72f-42e3-a560-da454af2ac81&amp;utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=feed&amp;utm_content=feed||1582746\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Get them here FREE;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Get them here FREE&quot;}\">Get them here FREE<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">Charlie is a retired IBM computer engineer with $2.4 million in net worth and 50 years of sports officiating under his belt. Before a recent road trip with his wife, he &#8220;hooked up for like five additional volleyball games&#8221; to cover the cost &#8220;even though I could pay for it.&#8221; His wife has told him he needs to transition &#8220;from a saver to a spender.&#8221; Charlie&#8217;s response: &#8220;I can&#8217;t seem to let go.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">The Ramsey Show&#8217;s George Kamel told Charlie to loosen up. &#8220;You&#8217;re stuck in your scarcity loop right now,&#8221; he said. His fear of spending is irrational.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">READ: The analyst who called NVIDIA in 2010 <a href=\"https:\/\/247wallst.com\/lp\/top-10-ai-stocks\/?i=1edf5a5e-321d-47d1-921b-8beedeecb3eb&amp;p=b46e70c8-cf34-4e1c-a27d-bb4cdc79b4f6&amp;pos=mid_content&amp;tpid=1582746&amp;l=a5c26dce-da07-4303-a158-921be0f3c60c&amp;c=de44328e-c72f-42e3-a560-da454af2ac81\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:just named his top 10 AI stocks;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;just named his top 10 AI stocks&quot;}\" class=\"link \">just named his top 10 AI stocks<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">Here&#8217;s the psychological pattern Kamel identified: People who build wealth from nothing, first-generation millionaires who didn&#8217;t grow up with money, typically get there by treating every dollar as scarce. That discipline is the engine of accumulation. The problem is the brain doesn&#8217;t automatically switch modes when the accumulation phase ends. The same neural wiring that helped Charlie save now prevents him from spending, even when spending is financially rational.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">Co-host Rachel Cruze explained: &#8220;[Money] almost becomes an idol because it has so much control over us out of this fear that something&#8217;s gonna happen and I&#8217;m not gonna be okay. And that fear, it&#8217;s not rational, right? You got $2.4 million sitting there.&#8221; Charlie&#8217;s fear is costing him something real: quality time with his wife and 17 grandkids.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">Kamel walked Charlie through the reality. &#8220;You&#8217;re spending $50,000 a year out of this much of your nest egg,&#8221; he said. &#8220;That&#8217;s a 1% spend. You can go up to 3%, 4%, 5% without ever running out of money.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">This is the safe withdrawal rate concept, an important number that a retiree with a large portfolio needs to understand. The research-backed baseline is that a diversified portfolio can sustain roughly a 4% annual withdrawal indefinitely, adjusted for inflation. Charlie is only pulling \u00a01% annually. That gap between what he&#8217;s spending and what his portfolio can safely support is the financial permission he keeps refusing to give himself.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">His $8,000 to $9,000 monthly income already covers his baseline needs. The portfolio isn&#8217;t being touched for living expenses in any meaningful way. So the side hustles aren&#8217;t filling a financial gap, but they may be filling a psychological one.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">Charlie&#8217;s profile is more common than it sounds. First-generation wealth builders in their 60s and 70s, with portfolios well above $1 million and monthly income exceeding expenses, frequently under-spend by a wide margin. The scarcity loop is not uncommon among people who built wealth through sustained sacrifice rather than inheritance or windfall.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">The fix isn&#8217;t willpower alone, Kamel said. &#8220;What if you just cut the side hustle for 6 months and said, &#8216;I&#8217;m not going to do it, and I&#8217;m going to spend money?'&#8221; He also recommended a &#8220;dream date&#8221; with his wife to identify specific spending targets, then pre-committing those as line items in the budget. Pre-decided spending removes the in-the-moment guilt that triggers the scarcity response.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">Cruze suggested that Charlie (and any retiree in a similar situation) meet with a financial advisor to calculate exactly how much extra they can safely spend per year, then assign that money to experiences and time-buying services. Seeing a specific, advisor-validated number could make the spending easier.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">The math already says Charlie can spend more. The only remaining job is retraining the part of his brain that built $2.4 million by never believing that.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1fy9kyt\">Wall Street is pouring billions into AI, but most investors are buying the wrong stocks. The analyst who first identified NVIDIA as a buy back in 2010 \u2014 before its 28,000% run \u2014 has just pinpointed 10 new AI companies he believes could deliver outsized returns from here. One dominates a $100 billion equipment market. Another is solving the single biggest bottleneck holding back AI data centers. A third is a pure-play on an optical networking market set to quadruple. Most investors haven&#8217;t heard of half these names. <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/247wallst.com\/lp\/top-10-ai-stocks\/?i=1edf5a5e-321d-47d1-921b-8beedeecb3eb&amp;p=01173850-71f4-455c-bfa3-d0377c4d2d64&amp;pos=end_of_article&amp;tpid=1582746&amp;c=de44328e-c72f-42e3-a560-da454af2ac81&amp;l=a5c26dce-da07-4303-a158-921be0f3c60c&amp;utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=feed&amp;utm_content=feed||1582746\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Get the free list of all 10 stocks here;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Get the free list of all 10 stocks here&quot;}\">Get the free list of all 10 stocks here<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Charlie\u2019s $2.4 million portfolio supports a 4% safe withdrawal rate \u2014 $96,000 annually \u2014 but he spends only&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":402204,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[114,268,31113,85,46,116439,4136,266,267,47460,931,153666,190391],"class_list":{"0":"post-402203","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-personal-finance","8":"tag-business","9":"tag-finance","10":"tag-george-kamel","11":"tag-il","12":"tag-israel","13":"tag-monthly-income","14":"tag-nvidia","15":"tag-personal-finance","16":"tag-personalfinance","17":"tag-rachel-cruze","18":"tag-spending","19":"tag-top-10-ai-stocks","20":"tag-wealth-builders"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/402203","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=402203"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/402203\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/402204"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=402203"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=402203"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=402203"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}