{"id":403210,"date":"2026-04-21T10:26:10","date_gmt":"2026-04-21T10:26:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/403210\/"},"modified":"2026-04-21T10:26:10","modified_gmt":"2026-04-21T10:26:10","slug":"rachel-goldberg-polins-new-memoir-piercingly-articulates-the-ordeal-of-losing-a-son","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/403210\/","title":{"rendered":"Rachel Goldberg-Polin’s new memoir piercingly articulates the ordeal of losing a son"},"content":{"rendered":"

Rachel Goldberg-Polin\u2019s raw, searing memoir, \u201cWhen We See You Again,\u201d pierces the reader\u2019s heart and mind throughout its 272 pages.<\/p>\n

The book details Goldberg-Polin\u2019s profoundly painful journey over the two years following October 7, 2023, when her eldest child, Hersh Goldberg-Polin <\/a>was abducted from a field shelter by Hamas terrorists and taken captive, as he and others were attacked at the Nova desert rave.<\/p>\n

Some 1,200 people were slaughtered in the bloody attack on southern Israel, and 251 were abducted to the Gaza Strip on October 7. Hersh Goldberg-Polin, 23, was killed in captivity on August 29, 2024.<\/p>\n

Immediately following the onslaught and Hersh\u2019s abduction, the family embarked on an immense fight to free him from Hamas, becoming a face of the hostage struggle on the international stage as they met with world leaders and advocated on behalf of those held in Gaza.<\/p>\n

Goldberg-Polin is the primary voice in the book, which was released on April 21 by Random House, and includes an afterword by her husband, Jon Polin; she is also the reader on the audio version. The Hebrew translation will come out in May.<\/p>\n

Goldberg-Polin has often spoken about her transformation from a \u201cregular, warm beige\u201d life as a homemaker and educator to become a mother whose voice resonated around the globe.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhen We See You Again\u201d delves into that struggle, exploring the sharp rupture of Goldberg-Polin\u2019s life brought about by her son\u2019s abduction, into \u201cThe Before\u201d and \u201cThe After,\u201d as she calls it in capital letters.<\/p>\n

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\n\t\tRachel Goldberg-Polin and Jon Polin, parents of hostage Hersh Goldberg-Polin, issue a video statement pleading for a hostage deal and urging him to stay strong and survive, April 24, 2024. (Courtesy)<\/p>\n

There are many delightful moments shared from The Before: Goldberg-Polin as an only child growing up in Chicago, wholly loved and appreciated by her parents, doted on by her grandparents. She shares memories of summer camp in northern Michigan and her first steps delving deeper into her Judaism.<\/p>\n

She offers details of her life with Polin, a fellow Chicagoan whom she re-met as a young adult and married in Jerusalem, and the early years of their marriage in Berkeley, California, and Richmond, Virginia, as well as their decision to move back to Israel and raise their children in Jerusalem.<\/p>\n

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\n\t\tThe cover of \u2018When We See You Again,\u2019 a memoir written by bereaved mother Rachel Goldberg-Polin, released April 21, 2026 (Courtesy)<\/p>\n

Goldberg-Polin shares wonderfully specific particulars, from the shape of Hersh\u2019s toes, his smelly armpits and floppy brown hair, to their relationship as mother and son. She describes moments in their family life, such as their Friday night walks to synagogue, and talks of Mrs. Carlton, Hersh\u2019s beloved first-grade teacher.<\/p>\n

We, the readers, get to know Hersh a little bit more, and that\u2019s a gift from his mother to us.<\/p>\n

Goldberg-Polin is funny and self-deprecating, more than once asking if a certain situation exemplified bad parenting on her part.<\/p>\n

Those are the easy parts to read.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no avoiding the agonizing sections that are interspersed throughout, as Goldberg-Polin describes the intense grief she\u2019s endured since October 7, when Hersh was taken. That pain only intensified when Hersh was killed in August 2024, shot six times by his captors, his body returned in skeletal condition, his hair covered with gunpowder.<\/p>\n

It becomes clear that Goldberg-Polin has acquired, or maybe always had, an agonizing amount of self-awareness that enables her to write about the catastrophe that unfolded on October 7 and ended 330 days later \u2014 a number she constantly uses \u2014 with her son\u2019s murder alongside five other hostages in a Gaza tunnel, or \u201cThe Beautiful Six,\u201d as she calls them.<\/p>\n

Goldberg-Polin\u2019s use of language is rich and unique, as she creates new ways of expressing her sorrow. \u201cHope is mandatory,\u201d was a saying she repeated during the months of Hersh\u2019s captivity.<\/p>\n

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\n\t\tRachel Goldberg-Polin, left, and Jon Polin, center, parents of Israeli-American hostage Hersh Goldberg-Polin, along with other relatives of hostages held in the Gaza Strip by Hamas, take part in a protest calling for their release in Kibbutz Nirim, August 29, 2024. (AP Photo\/Tsafrir Abayov, File)<\/p>\n

Now she adds other imagery and turns of phrase, such as the \u201c18-wheel truck that crushed them with sorrow,\u201d her status as \u201cthe mother of a dead son,\u201d or being \u201ccoated in pain.\u201d<\/p>\n

Goldberg-Polin utilizes a broad and varied wellspring of references \u2014 which come from the Bible and Talmud, philosophers and rabbis, as well as Jean Valjean of \u201cLes Miserables,\u201d psychiatrist Elisabeth Kubler-Ross and fellow bereaved parent and author David Grossman \u2014 to describe and try to gain an understanding of this crushing grief.<\/p>\n

She repeatedly talks about her husband, Jon, and two daughters, Leebie and Orly, as well as a dedicated cadre of dear friends and supporters, always by first name, never using last names, whether it\u2019s Rabbi Angela (Buchdahl) or the US president (Joe Biden).<\/p>\n

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\n\t\tParents of hostage Hersh Goldberg-Polin, Rachel Goldberg-Polin and Jon Polin speak on the third day of the Democratic National Convention at the United Center in Chicago, Illinois, on August 21, 2024. (CHARLY TRIBALLEAU \/ AFP)<\/p>\n

Though many of the details have been shared before, there\u2019s a newness to them \u2014 one that causes the heart to ache at the enormity of what happened to this set of parents and others, and the unbearable truth of what Goldberg-Polin says, that no one can truly emerge from this kind of pain.<\/p>\n

As Goldberg-Polin writes, she and her family have a different \u201cwhy,\u201d referring to a quote by Austrian psychologist and Holocaust survivor Viktor Frankl that now bears personal meaning for the family after Hersh\u2019s captivity in the Gaza tunnels.<\/p>\n

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\n\t\tFreed hostage Or Levy\u2019s arm in an image posted by him on March 19, 2025, with a fresh tattoo of a quote cited by fellow hostage Hersh Goldberg-Polin, who was later murdered in captivity. (Courtesy)<\/p>\n

Hersh shared the famous mantra, \u201cWhen you have a why, you can bear any how,\u201d with his fellow hostages in an attempt to raise morale and inspire resilience. Quoting from \u201cMan\u2019s Search for Meaning,\u201d Hersh turned this philosophy into a daily survival tool, encouraging those who were held with him to focus on their reasons to live.<\/p>\n

Former hostage Or Levy, who briefly met Hersh in captivity, shared what he discussed with Hersh when he met with the Goldberg-Polins after he was released.<\/p>\n

Goldberg-Polin says she doesn\u2019t know what her family\u2019s \u201cwhy\u201d is yet; they don\u2019t understand it, and it \u201cinvolves forever pain.\u201d<\/p>\n

And yet, as tortured as Goldberg-Polin is by what happened to her son, she\u2019s also determined to make it back to the other land; she wants to learn how to \u201cread this map.\u201d<\/p>\n

It\u2019s everything the reader wants for her as well.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Rachel Goldberg-Polin\u2019s raw, searing memoir, \u201cWhen We See You Again,\u201d pierces the reader\u2019s heart and mind throughout its…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":403211,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[412,1514,42,190782,190783,14218,43,190785,190784,67947,40,38,41,39],"class_list":["post-403210","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-headlines","tag-books","tag-hamas-hostages","tag-headlines","tag-hersh-goldberg-polin","tag-jon-polin","tag-memoir","tag-news","tag-nova-festival","tag-october-7-hamas-atrocities","tag-rachel-goldberg-polin","tag-top-news","tag-top-stories","tag-topnews","tag-topstories"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/403210","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=403210"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/403210\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/403211"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=403210"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=403210"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=403210"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}