{"id":457378,"date":"2026-05-24T09:03:10","date_gmt":"2026-05-24T09:03:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/457378\/"},"modified":"2026-05-24T09:03:10","modified_gmt":"2026-05-24T09:03:10","slug":"my-dad-might-still-be-alive-if-doctors-had-gone-to-his-home-we-need-more-mental-health-support","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/457378\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018My dad might still be alive if doctors had gone to his home &#8211; we need more mental health support\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Your support helps us to tell the story<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 iOIawn\">From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing. Whether it&#8217;s investigating the financials of Elon Musk&#8217;s pro-Trump PAC or producing our latest documentary, &#8216;The A Word&#8217;, which shines a light on the American women fighting for reproductive rights, we know how important it is to parse out the facts from the messaging.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 iOIawn\">At such a critical moment in US history, we need reporters on the ground. Your donation allows us to keep sending journalists to speak to both sides of the story.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 iOIawn\">The Independent is trusted by Americans across the entire political spectrum. And unlike many other quality news outlets, we choose not to lock Americans out of our reporting and analysis with paywalls. We believe quality journalism should be available to everyone, paid for by those who can afford it.<\/p>\n<p>Your support makes all the difference.Read more<\/p>\n<p>In the grip of severe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/depression\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">depression<\/a>, Phil Wright could not leave his house or even speak to his doctor on the phone.<\/p>\n<p>Because home visits are not guaranteed on the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/nhs\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">NHS<\/a>, it meant the father stayed trapped inside for several months without help, while his <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/mental-health\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">mental health<\/a> deteriorated.<\/p>\n<p>Last month, he took his own life \u2013 a tragedy his daughter believes could have been prevented if he had access to the right support.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen my dad passed away, his doctors sent a sympathy card, and I literally ripped it up,\u201d Abbey Wright told The Independent. \u201cI thought if you had done your job properly, you wouldn\u2019t have to give sympathy for what happened.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Phil-Wright.jpeg\"  loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Phil Wright suffered from depression for two years\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/>Phil Wright suffered from depression for two years (Abbey Wright)<\/p>\n<p>Phil\u2019s family realised he desperately needed help last year, when he told them he no longer wanted to be alive.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe wouldn&#8217;t leave the house, he\u2019d never come out, and then in October, he had a breakdown. He was crying, he didn&#8217;t want to be here anymore, he just didn&#8217;t see the point.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>Ms Wright, who was terrified for her father, called 111 to see if a doctor could come to their home.<\/p>\n<p>She was told that wasn\u2019t possible and her father would have to leave the house or speak to somebody over the phone if he wanted to get help.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt baffled me,\u201d she said. \u201cI thought, what are we meant to do now? I can&#8217;t drag a fully grown man to the doctor, kicking and screaming.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Abbey-Wright-and-her-father-Phil-Wright.jpeg\"  loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Ms Wright said her home visits could have significantly helped her father\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/>Ms Wright said her home visits could have significantly helped her father (Abbey Wright)<\/p>\n<p>Despite repeatedly asking for someone to visit, Phil was only able to get phone appointments, and his wife would have to do most of the talking.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don&#8217;t know how you can assess someone&#8217;s mental health on the phone&#8230; A phone appointment is not enough to be able to assess the situation,\u201d Ms Wright said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou cannot see the anxiety, their body language, their lips trembling; you can&#8217;t see any of that on a phone, so you need to see that in person to be able to fully understand they&#8217;re not well.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ms Wright, who was visiting her father twice a day, said she felt helpless. \u201cIt\u2019s like the lights were on, but he wasn&#8217;t home. He would just stare into space. He just wasn&#8217;t himself at all.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere&#8217;s only so much you can do as a family to try and be there for them. I didn&#8217;t know what was going on in his head, my mum certainly didn&#8217;t, and I don&#8217;t think he did himself.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Phil-Wright-and-his-granddaughter.jpeg\"  loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Mr Wright and his granddaughter\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/>Mr Wright and his granddaughter (Abbey Wright)<\/p>\n<p>She believes that at-home care would have been \u201chugely\u201d impactful and could have saved her father\u2019s life.<\/p>\n<p>Now, Ms Wright wants to see mandatory home visits for people struggling with severe mental health issues who are unable to leave the house.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen someone is experiencing extreme mental health issues and cannot leave their home, there should be a mandatory requirement for healthcare professionals to conduct house visits,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThese individuals need immediate and compassionate face-to-face care, not vague suggestions or impersonal phone calls.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>A spokesperson for Gresleydale Healthcare Centre, Mr Wright\u2019s doctors\u2019 surgery, said: \u201cWe were extremely saddened to hear about Mr Wright\u2019s passing, and our heartfelt sympathies and thoughts are with his family and friends.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAlthough we are unable to speak about individual cases, the policy of our practice does include the provision of home visits, alongside telephone appointments, for patients who are unable to leave their home. Each case is assessed on an individual basis.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAs part of our normal procedures in circumstances like these, we will review our contacts with Mr Wright and his family in the time leading up to his passing to understand if there are things we could have done differently and if there are any changes to policies or processes needed in the future. A learn from patient safety event has been undertaken and shared with the ICB for learning.<\/p>\n<p>It urged anyone who needs help for a mental health crisis or emergency to call NHS 111.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/a5212636f9903dd28081e8aa20135b69Y29udGVudHNlYXJjaGFwaSwxNzU4OTA1NzIz-2.12453435.jpg\"  loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Ms Wright believes everyone with severe mental health issues should have access to home visits\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/>Ms Wright believes everyone with severe mental health issues should have access to home visits (PA Archive)<\/p>\n<p>Gemma Byrne, the policy and influencing manager at mental health charity Mind, said: \u201cFor anyone experiencing severe mental health problems, access to the right support is crucial. Where people need face-to-face, human support, we must be able to deliver it.<\/p>\n<p>Last week, the government announced a new mental health strategy that aims to drive a shift from crisis intervention to preventative care as part of its 10-year health plan.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cA decade from now, we cannot still be talking about a system that is overstretched, reactive, and struggling to meet demand,\u201d Ms Byrne said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe need a future-focused mental health system that intervenes earlier, responds faster, and delivers high-quality support that reflects the complexity of people\u2019s lives.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>An NHS spokesperson said: \u201cThe NHS is continuing to take action to strengthen and improve services for those living with a severe mental illness, but we know there is more to do. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cEvery area in England now has new crisis resolution and home treatment teams in place to provide rapid support, including face-to-face care and home visits where clinically appropriate, to ensure people experiencing severe mental health issues can access care in the right setting for their needs.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you are experiencing feelings of distress, or are struggling to cope, you can speak to the Samaritans, in confidence, on 116 123 (UK and ROI), email <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/news\/uk\/home-news\/mailto:jo@samaritans.org\">jo@samaritans.org<\/a>, or visit the <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.samaritans.org\/\">Samaritans<\/a> website to find details of your nearest branch<\/p>\n<p>If you are based in the USA, and you or someone you know needs mental health assistance right now, call or text 988, or visit <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/988lifeline.org\/\">988lifeline.org<\/a> to access online chat from the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. This is a free, confidential crisis hotline that is available to everyone 24 hours a day, seven days a week.If you are in another country, you can go to <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.befrienders.org\/\">www.befrienders.org<\/a> to find a helpline near you<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Your support helps us to tell the story From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":457379,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"tags":[163,85,46,522,523],"class_list":["post-457378","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-mental-health","tag-health","tag-il","tag-israel","tag-mental-health","tag-mentalhealth"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/457378","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=457378"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/457378\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/457379"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=457378"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=457378"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=457378"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}