{"id":468374,"date":"2026-05-30T23:17:11","date_gmt":"2026-05-30T23:17:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/468374\/"},"modified":"2026-05-30T23:17:11","modified_gmt":"2026-05-30T23:17:11","slug":"dr-jeni-haynes-how-the-survivor-of-extreme-abuse-and-did-used-her-alters-to-put-her-father-behind-bars","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/468374\/","title":{"rendered":"Dr Jeni Haynes: How the survivor of extreme abuse and DID used her alters to put her father behind bars"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Bridget McManus\" data-testid=\"author-avatar-image\" height=\"64\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/00bf77364173de54033d38fe26a343dcc5b260e7.gif\"  width=\"64\" class=\"sc-9a01536c-0 libeSR\"\/>Save<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-d1b14060-4 JmUoF\">You have reached your maximum number of saved items.<\/p>\n<p>Remove items from your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/goodfood\/saved\" class=\"sc-3f16ee48-12 sc-d1b14060-2 jyLmZI iQLtAb\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">saved list<\/a> to add more.<\/p>\n<p>AAA<\/p>\n<p>Dr Jeni Haynes has spent her life trying to make people believe what is, to many, unbelievable: that she has 2682 people inside her mind. Haynes was diagnosed with dissociative identity disorder (DID), formerly known as <a class=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/lifestyle\/health-and-wellness\/how-jeni-haynes-legitimised-multiple-personality-disorder-20220907-p5bg64.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">multiple personality disorder<\/a> (MPD), a decade before she took the stand in a 2019 trial in a Sydney court that put <a class=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/national\/nsw\/dad-sentenced-to-45-years-for-sexual-abuse-of-daughter-with-2500-personalities-20190906-p52olh.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">her father, Richard Haynes, behind bars for 45 years<\/a>. Setting a legal precedent, <a class=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/national\/jeni-has-a-plan-how-jeni-haynes-took-on-her-horrifically-abusive-father-20220905-p5bfju.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">six of her alternate personalities<\/a>, or \u201calters\u201d, gave evidence, recalling in photographic detail the abuse, rape and torture she endured throughout her childhood.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Dr Jeni Haynes, who has dissociative identity disorder, tells her story in a groundbreaking SBS documentary.  \" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/9fbfa2e9bca841c5066b4a4fa142bc92a2ca1a6a.jpeg\"  class=\"sc-d34e428-1 ldCIuB\"\/>Dr Jeni Haynes, who has dissociative identity disorder, tells her story in a groundbreaking SBS documentary.  <\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe\u2019re perfectly sane people using an incredible survival strategy to survive what should be un-survivable,\u201d says the Entity Currently Known as Jeni, as she introduces herself in the groundbreaking SBS documentary We Are Jeni. She uses the pronouns \u201cwe, us and our\u201d to acknowledge that all her alters are always present. They include protective Erik; leather-clad Muscles; and four-year-old Symphony, the original alter who created the entire \u201cconstellation\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe only way I survived my dad was being able to switch into different alters,\u201d says Haynes. \u201cBecause every time somebody got too exhausted from what he was doing, we switched them out and sent somebody else in, like shoving in a new battery.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She gets that DID is difficult to grasp, even for those who have it. She spent 18 years in academia, studying psychology (\u201cto find out what was wrong with me\u201d); criminology (\u201cto find out whether what he did was criminal\u201d); and completing a PhD in male victimology (\u201cto stop me being afraid of half the population\u201d).<\/p>\n<p>Related Article<a href=\"https:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/culture\/tv-and-radio\/abc-documentary-gives-rolf-harris-australian-accusers-a-chance-to-be-heard-20260525-p600d4.html\" tabindex=\"-1\" class=\"sc-cba76dee-0 hdiTqm\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Rolf Harris in 1975 in a still from the documentary Rolf Harris: Primetime Predator.\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/4931dcd8f7ec9cbe7e2df3c9fca2bc1a496d2517.jpeg\"  class=\"sc-d34e428-1 ioInpc\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>When approached by filmmakers Mariel Thomas and Akhim Dev, she seized the opportunity to tell her story in her own words. In We Are Jeni, she presents confronting truths and dispels myths. Classic movies such as The Three Faces of Eve and Sybil filter DID through the eyes of therapists, she says, hiding the experience \u201cbehind innuendo and euphemism\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>She turned off the 2009 Toni Collette series, United States of Tara, after five minutes, triggered by a \u201csexy\u201d alter. However, her psychiatrist, Dr George Blair-West, who appears in the documentary and with whom Haynes co-authored her memoir, The Girl in the Green Dress, declined to watch the series because he found it too realistic, \u201clike work\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Psychiatrist Dr George Blair-West appears in the documentary We Are Jeni.\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/a2f62825d1d8c7ac356bdfc905f6357c7bb74ec3.jpeg\"  class=\"sc-d34e428-1 ldCIuB\"\/>Psychiatrist Dr George Blair-West appears in the documentary We Are Jeni.<\/p>\n<p>Also appearing in the documentary is the man Haynes calls \u201cGod on legs\u201d, NSW Police detective Paul Stamoulis. \u201cHe listened, and then he went out and got evidence.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Reliving her trauma for the documentary came at a cost. \u201cThere were days when we cried. There were days when we could only think in song lyrics. But [the filmmakers] handled it beautifully.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Related Article<a href=\"https:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/culture\/tv-and-radio\/that-s-the-easy-way-out-why-olympian-ariarne-titmus-decided-to-face-her-greatest-fear-20260519-p5zym6.html\" tabindex=\"-1\" class=\"sc-cba76dee-0 hdiTqm\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Ariarne Titmus on Nine\u2019s new reality series Shark!.\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/c17d6e883a0e6eec02c7f1fa7429bd7e03c00d18d09befdd884237da41e2a23a.jpeg\"  class=\"sc-d34e428-1 ioInpc\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Haynes was adamant no child actor would portray her. Instead, animation infers the abuse and illustrates her internal world. Now aged 56, she wears a colostomy bag, a legacy of the damage done by her father.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI can see it as a permanent reminder of what my dad did,\u201d she says. \u201cOr I can see it as a permanent reminder that despite what my dad says, I am worthy of medical care. I choose, as often as possible, to frame it through that positive lens.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>History and archaeology are on her academic wish list, but for now, she is focusing on her hobbies: Dungeons &amp; Dragons (\u201cIt\u2019s an opportunity to let different alters role-play different ways of being\u201d) and making jewellery. <\/p>\n<p>She intends to keep speaking her truth in the hope people living with DID, and survivors of child abuse, will be silent no more.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat I hope my story shows is that abuse is not about sex,\u201d she says. \u201cThe sexual abuse of children is about power. And it\u2019s weak, ineffectual humans getting their power from hurting somebody weaker than them, more vulnerable than them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>We Are Jeni premieres at 7.30pm on Sunday, June 7, on SBS and SBS On Demand. <\/p>\n<p>Help is available from the <a class=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.1800respect.org.au\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">National Sexual Assault, Domestic Family Violence Counselling Service<\/a> on 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) and <a class=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeline.org.au\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Lifeline<\/a> on 13 11 14.<\/p>\n<p>Want more TV? We\u2019ve got you.Save<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-d1b14060-4 JmUoF\">You have reached your maximum number of saved items.<\/p>\n<p>Remove items from your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/goodfood\/saved\" class=\"sc-3f16ee48-12 sc-d1b14060-2 jyLmZI iQLtAb\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">saved list<\/a> to add more.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Bridget McManus\" data-testid=\"author-avatar-image\" height=\"40\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1780183031_227_00bf77364173de54033d38fe26a343dcc5b260e7.gif\"  width=\"40\" class=\"sc-9a01536c-0 libeSR\"\/><a class=\"sc-cba76dee-0 hdiTqm sc-b5b9fd03-2 jcGta-D\" href=\"https:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/by\/bridget-mcmanus-hveyc\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Bridget McManus<\/a> is a television writer and critic for Green Guide. She was deputy editor of Green Guide from 2006 to 2010 and now also writes features and interviews for Life &amp; Style in The Saturday Age and M magazine in The Sunday Age.From our partners<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Save You have reached your maximum number of saved items. Remove items from your saved list to add&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":468375,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"tags":[163,85,46,522,523],"class_list":["post-468374","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-mental-health","tag-health","tag-il","tag-israel","tag-mental-health","tag-mentalhealth"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/468374","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=468374"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/468374\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/468375"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=468374"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=468374"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=468374"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}