{"id":490843,"date":"2026-06-13T11:50:10","date_gmt":"2026-06-13T11:50:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/490843\/"},"modified":"2026-06-13T11:50:10","modified_gmt":"2026-06-13T11:50:10","slug":"couple-dated-as-teens-but-broke-up-and-led-separate-lives-40-years-later-theyve-reconnected-never-give-up-on-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/490843\/","title":{"rendered":"Couple Dated as Teens but Broke Up and Led Separate Lives. 40 Years Later, They\u2019ve Reconnected: \u2018Never Give Up on Love\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>NEED TO KNOW<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Maretta Ross and Fred Ross reconnected nearly 40 years after losing touch when Fred reached out on Facebook<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Maretta was hesitant to reconnect but sought advice from a mutual friend before giving Fred her number<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cNever give up on love,\u201d said Fred, with Maretta later adding, \u201cGood things come to those who wait\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Four decades after two teenagers shared a homecoming dance, they reconnected as adults and found a second chance at love.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Maretta Ross and Fred Ross were teenagers who attended rival South Georgia high schools, according to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.walb.com\/2026\/06\/03\/decades-later-second-chance-love-they-built-separate-lives-then-love-brought-them-back\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:WALB;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;WALB&quot;}\" class=\"link \">WALB<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;We met at the skating rink in Pelham, Ga. when we were like 15 years old,&#8221; Maretta recalled to the outlet after sharing photos of them together from that time period on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DYzTRUUOcvK\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Instagram;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Instagram&quot;}\" class=\"link \">Instagram<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"A couple (stock image)Credit: getty\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/c44e441c8e59b46be3061107fcebfa03.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>A couple (stock image)<br \/>Credit: getty<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The two dated briefly, &#8220;went to some church picnics&#8221; and danced at homecoming together, but they ultimately broke up \u2014 going their separate ways for years.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I hadn&#8217;t seen him anywhere, even when I would return home,&#8221; she said. &#8220;I left, went to college, got married. He got married. I never saw him again in the store when visiting home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Maretta was married for 30 years. After her divorce, she was at a crossroads and confused about the direction of her life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI had been married my whole adult life,\u201d she said, admitting she didn&#8217;t plan to get married again after that.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">However, Fred never forgot his high school love. Almost 40 years after the pair lost touch, he decided to reach out to her through Facebook.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;He had been divorced a lot longer than me,&#8221; Maretta explained. &#8220;I had been divorced for like six years, so it was still kind of new.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Because of this, she was hesitant. She contacted his longtime friend, Todd West, and asked what she should expect from Fred&#8217;s personality as an adult.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI reached out to Todd, and I said, \u2018Should I give him my number? What is he like now? I don&#8217;t know him anymore,&#8217; \u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Maretta decided to give Fred her number, and he called around an hour later. From there, the two \u201cnever really stopped\u201d talking.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The two had an &#8220;easy&#8221; connection, and Fred had been \u201cwaiting for the right one&#8221; before connecting with Maretta. After the call, they met in person and even strengthened their strong bond.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"A couple (stock image)Credit: getty\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/fe2baf99bfa01fbe135e6a5f8bb8c675.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>A couple (stock image)<br \/>Credit: getty<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cIt was wonderful,\u201d she said. \u201cWe just talked and talked and talked and talked just really got to know one another once again.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Now, in July, Maretta and Fred will celebrate their third wedding anniversary. \u201cNever give up on love,\u201d she said. \u201cBecause you just never know.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Never miss a story \u2014 sign up for\u00a0<a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/forms.dotdashmeredith.com\/people-news-inline\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:PEOPLE&#039;s free daily newsletter;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;PEOPLE&#039;&quot;}\">PEOPLE&#8217;s free daily newsletter<\/a>\u00a0to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;We went our separate ways, but made it back to one another,&#8221; Fred said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">As for what advice Maretta would give for others approaching love, she suggests that others be patient and kind.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cAllowing someone to help lead,\u201d she said. \u201cI was so strong-minded\u2026 I&#8217;ve had to humble myself a little bit and be a partner.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cGood things come to those who wait,\u201d Maretta added. \u201cBe kind to everyone because you don&#8217;t know when you&#8217;ll see them again.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Read the original article on <a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/couple-broke-up-as-teens-led-separate-lives-fell-in-love-40-years-later-11993887\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:People;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;People&quot;}\" class=\"link \">People<\/a><\/p>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"NEED TO KNOW Maretta Ross and Fred Ross reconnected nearly 40 years after losing touch when Fred reached&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":490844,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[146,226485,226487,85,46,226486,226488,16975],"class_list":["post-490843","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-entertainment","tag-entertainment","tag-fred-ross","tag-good-things-come-to-those-who-wait","tag-il","tag-israel","tag-maretta-ross","tag-never-give-up-on-love","tag-stock-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/490843","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=490843"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/490843\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/490844"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=490843"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=490843"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=490843"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}