{"id":491449,"date":"2026-06-13T22:08:13","date_gmt":"2026-06-13T22:08:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/491449\/"},"modified":"2026-06-13T22:08:13","modified_gmt":"2026-06-13T22:08:13","slug":"dave-matthews-alienates-longtime-jewish-fans-with-comments-on-israel-gaza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/491449\/","title":{"rendered":"Dave Matthews alienates longtime Jewish fans with comments on Israel, Gaza"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Growing up, I was never much of a concertgoer. I didn\u2019t understand the allure. \u201cI own the albums, why should I pay extra money to see them repeat it?\u201d was my thought process.<\/p>\n<p>But then, in mid-college, I traveled with some friends to see the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jpost.com\/diaspora\/antisemitism\/article-898787\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Dave Matthews<\/a> Band. Although their CDs lived along with many others of mine, I wasn\u2019t a huge fan. But something changed after I saw them live.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">It was more of a communal experience, like seeing a movie in the theaters as opposed to at home. Beyond becoming a concert enthusiast, I became a lifelong DMB fan \u2013 or so I thought.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">One of the most memorable concerts was at an outdoor venue in Boston. It was raining throughout the opening acts, and there was concern that it might be canceled. I was praying it wouldn\u2019t be true.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">By this point, the Dave Matthews Band were my favorite live performers.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"The aftermath of Hamas's Nova music festival massacre in Re'im, southern Israel, on October 7, 2023. Picture taken November 2, 2023\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"822\" height=\"829\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/657458.jpeg\"\/>The aftermath of Hamas&#8217;s Nova music festival massacre in Re&#8217;im, southern Israel, on October 7, 2023. Picture taken November 2, 2023 (credit: Arie Leib Abrams\/Flash90)<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">When Dave finally took the stage alone, the crowd went crazy as he picked up a twelve-string guitar to open with the song \u201cJTR.\u201d The chorus is a refrain of the words \u201crain down on me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Each time he belted it out, the energy of the crowd intensified. \u201cHe\u2019s crazy,\u201d I recall thinking. In retrospect, it was just stupid. The amount of electricity on that stage could have killed him. And as it turns out, nothing has changed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Even after emigrating to Israel, some 20 years post-college, Dave Matthews still played a prominent role in my Apple Music library. It could have been due to nostalgia or the fact that well into my 40s, DMB \u2013 despite the death and estrangement of two band members \u2013 was still producing solid music.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">And I wasn\u2019t alone in my admiration. My wife and brother-in-law were also fans. Some of our best memories were attending concerts together when we visited \u201cthe old country.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">But then, like so many other artists we love, politics got in the way.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">I can remember exactly where I was when I first heard of it. \u201cYou don\u2019t know what he\u2019s been saying?\u201d a colleague asked me over breakfast. \u201cOh no,\u201d I replied.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cAre you sure you want me to tell you this?\u201d he asked. I had to know.<\/p>\n<p>Matthews opposes Israel&#8217;s offensive following October 7<\/p>\n<p>Since <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jpost.com\/tags\/the-october-7-massacre\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">October 7<\/a>, Dave Matthews has been a vocal opponent of the Israeli offensive. Concerts were littered with statements about how all war was wrong and that the war in Gaza was a genocide.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">I remember sloughing off Dave\u2019s lefty politics in my youth. At the time, I wasn\u2019t much of a news buff, so it didn\u2019t bother me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Who could argue with a message of peace?<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">However, in the last two and a half years, many concerts have ended with him holding up signs of \u201cStop the Genocide\u201d and<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cStop Killing Children\u201d while draped in a keffiyeh.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">It was just too much. The sad day finally arrived when I deleted all of his music from my library. My brother-in-law and I still send each other messages every now and again about the band, but none of them are positive.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">A few weeks ago, a favorite comedian of mine, Pete Holmes, shared a bit about how everyone unilaterally stopped eating Subway sandwiches. \u201cOne day in the late 2010s, we all got a wireless transmission. No more Subway. And no more Dave Matthews. It was the same day. No more DMB and no more BMTs [a type of Subway sandwich].\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cI wish I had gotten the memo,\u201d I wrote to my brother-in-law. It would have saved me a lot of heartache.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">But sometimes, there are those who just can\u2019t leave bad enough alone.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Apparently, Dave Matthews has finally felt the financial ramifications of those of us who had to leave him behind. A video is making the rounds online of him reading a prepared statement to a crowd at one of his concerts.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt is no secret that I disagree with the policies of Israel and the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jpost.com\/tags\/united-states\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">United States<\/a> and the treatment of the civilian population in Gaza and the West Bank,\u201d he began. \u201cThat should by no means be twisted into anyone thinking I\u2019m bigoted or antisemitic in any way at all.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Dave then lists numerous famous Jews, indicating society\u2019s debt to their various world-changing contributions.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">He also shared that he was attending his best friend\u2019s son\u2019s bar mitzvah on October 7, which was interrupted by the horrible news. If he had stopped there, it wouldn\u2019t have made up for all that he had done, but it would have at least been a quasi-positive statement.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cThe violence born out of that day against the Palestinian people is no less horrific and multiplies the death and suffering over and over.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">There\u2019s something missing in this statement. Dave, you skipped over a major detail in the story \u2013 Hamas and the atrocities they waged on the Jewish people. What resulted from October 7 was not and is still not about vengeance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">If Israel could have neutralized the threat of the terrorist organization that raped and burned women and children without any collateral damage, we happily would have.<\/p>\n<p>With the ever-present threat of rocket fire from Iran and daily drones from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jpost.com\/israel-news\/defense-news\/article-898923\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Hezbollah<\/a>, the attacks are relentless.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Multiple terrorists from the West Bank infiltrated an Israeli town and gunned down six innocent civilians. And a vehicle-ramming attack recently occurred near the entrance of our town as my 15-year-old daughter was making her way home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">We held our breath until she arrived safely.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Working for peace is not wrong. We Jews pray for it three times a day. But you\u2019re pressuring the wrong side. Israel has consistently strived for peaceful coexistence with its neighbors \u2013 yet defending ourselves is non-negotiable.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">To demand only peace when killers are at your doorstep is as foolish as standing on an electrified stage in the middle of a lightning storm.<\/p>\n<p>The writer is a rabbi, a wedding officiant, and a mohel who performs britot (ritual circumcisions) and conversions in Israel and worldwide. Based in Efrat, Israel, he is the founder of Magen HaBrit, an organization protecting the practice of brit milah and the children who undergo it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Growing up, I was never much of a concertgoer. 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