{"id":635634,"date":"2026-10-04T00:14:15","date_gmt":"2026-10-04T00:14:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/635634\/"},"modified":"2026-10-04T00:14:15","modified_gmt":"2026-10-04T00:14:15","slug":"they-work-raise-kids-and-use-drugs-until-their-heart-explodes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/635634\/","title":{"rendered":"They work, raise kids \u2014 and use drugs until \u2018their heart explodes\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>On a typical weekend, Amir, a pseudonym, comes home after a week of work, meets up with friends and starts snorting drugs. Sometimes hours pass before they even leave the house. From there, they head to a party that lasts until morning, and when the party ends, the night does not necessarily end with it.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEven when the party is over, a lot of the time it\u2019s still not enough,\u201d he said. \u201cWe keep going to an after-party at a club or someone\u2019s house, and we keep taking drugs.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"gelleryOpener\" aria-label=\"open article gallery\" data-image-id=\"ArticleImageData.HklDsr905fg\" id=\"image_ArticleImageData.HklDsr905fg\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.HklDsr905fg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/H1fP1YMcGl_0_340_720_405_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e1\u05de\u05d9\u05dd\" title=\"Drugs \" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/a><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.HklDsr905fg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/H1fP1YMcGl_0_340_720_405_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e1\u05de\u05d9\u05dd\" title=\"Drugs \" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/p>\n<p>A few hours or a day later, he returns to his other life. Amir, 38, from Givatayim, a city near Tel Aviv, works as an analyst. He is successful at his job, is well regarded and feels his career is continuing to advance. No one at the company where he works knows that almost every weekend, another life begins for him.<\/p>\n<p>Jackie, also a pseudonym, does not fit the traditional image of a drug addict either. The 40-year-old high school teacher and mother of two lives in central Israel. Less than two years ago, the world of techno, outdoor raves and music festivals was almost entirely foreign to her. Today, she goes out most weekends and regularly uses stimulants and, at times, psychedelic drugs.<\/p>\n<p>The two are very different. Amir already acknowledges that he sees signs of dependence in himself, perhaps even addiction. Jackie, by contrast, is convinced at this stage that drugs have actually improved her life. But they have one thing in common: They work, function and maintain relationships \u2014 and to a large extent, it is precisely their ability to function at a high level that allows them to continue.<\/p>\n<p>Three years after the Hamas-led Oct. 7, 2023, attack, data show the phenomenon extends far beyond Tel Aviv\u2019s club scene.<\/p>\n<p>A study by the Israel Center on Addiction and Mental Health, or ICA, followed samples of Jewish adults in Israel at four points in time: April 2022, December 2023, June 2024 and February 2025. Over that period, researchers found an increase in problematic use of prescription sedatives, opioids and drugs more broadly.<\/p>\n<p>In several areas, including problematic drug or alcohol use, researchers recorded a sharp increase after Oct. 7, followed by some decline during 2024. But the downward trend did not continue. After the rate stood at about 25% in 2024, it climbed again to 26.8% in February 2025.<\/p>\n<p>ICA\u2019s 2025 annual report presented the same broader picture: More than one in four Israelis were found to be engaging in high-risk use of addictive substances. Among young adults ages 18 to 26, the figure was one in three, as it was among those who served in the military during the war, either on active duty or in the reserves.<\/p>\n<p>According to the report, use of sedatives and sleeping medications rose 2.5-fold compared with the period before the war. Opioid use nearly doubled, with a similar increase recorded in stimulant use. Additional data were collected during 2026 but have not yet been analyzed.<\/p>\n<p>The Health Ministry has explicitly identified the trend. Since the outbreak of the war, it says, there has been an increase in harmful use of alcohol and drugs, as well as addictive behaviors, particularly among people who were already at risk. The ministry points to trauma, insecurity, prolonged exposure to news and the loss of a sense of control as factors that can drive people to seek numbness or escape.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleWrappedImageData.SJlz1v5Ccfl\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/H1TEAuf9Gg_193_59_776_1034_0_medium.jpg\" style=\"width:120px;height:160px\" alt=\"\u05d3&quot;\u05e8 \u05e8\u05d5\u05e2\u05d9 \u05e6\u05d5\u05e7\u05e8\" title=\"Dr. Roy Zucker (Photo: Yariv Goldfarb) \" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/>Dr. Roy ZuckerPhoto: Yariv Goldfarb<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Roy Zucker, a specialist in internal medicine and infectious diseases who works in drug-use harm reduction, said he is seeing the change on the ground as well.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere is unequivocally an increase in substance use in Israel,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>But Zucker said it would be overly simplistic to blame the war alone.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt already started during COVID,\u201d he said. \u201cIt\u2019s a process that has grown over the years, in Israel and around the world. What we have been going through here served as a kind of catalyst.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>At the heart of the increase, he said, is a simple human need: escape.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe crazy reality we\u2019re living through and the desire to escape a little \u2014 if not to physically get away from here, then to escape mentally,\u201d Zucker said. \u201cThese substances provide a few hours of escape from reality.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Prof. Shauli Lev-Ran, a psychiatrist, co-founder of the Israel Center on Addiction and Mental Health and its academic director, explains the same mechanism through the body\u2019s stress response.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHuman beings and other living creatures can remain in survival mode for a limited amount of time,\u201d he said. \u201cA zebra being chased goes into a state of stress, it runs away and eventually the chase ends. We are not built to live for prolonged periods at the level of stress appropriate to a survival situation.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But in Israel, he said, \u201cthe alarm never passed.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleWrappedImageData.rJgYwvqRcMg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/BJPjpEikZe_211_0_368_490_0_medium.jpg\" style=\"width:120px;height:160px\" alt=\"\u05e4\u05e8\u05d5\u05e4' \u05e9\u05d0\u05d5\u05dc\u05d9 \u05dc\u05d1-\u05e8\u05df\" title=\"Prof. Shauli Lev-Ran (Photo: Rami Zerenger) \" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/>Prof. Shauli Lev-RanPhoto: Rami Zerenger<\/p>\n<p>Oct. 7 did not remain a single-day traumatic event. It was followed by a prolonged war, repeated reserve duty, the evacuation of communities, air raid sirens, missile attacks, time spent in bomb shelters, loss and uncertainty.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe look for some way to regulate ourselves,\u201d Lev-Ran said. \u201cThe brain learns: Before, I was stressed. I couldn\u2019t sleep, calm down or enjoy myself. I took something \u2014 and now I can. The brain is a good student, and it learns to repeat that action again and again. For some people, problematic use develops and, at the extreme end, addiction.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Amir was first exposed to drugs during his post-army backpacking trip, a common rite of passage for young Israelis after completing mandatory military service. At first, it was mainly cannabis, and later he experimented with stronger substances. But for years, he said, his drug use in Israel was rare: \u201cOnce in a while, if at all.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>After Oct. 7, that changed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSince then, my use has increased significantly, and so has the use among a lot of people around me,\u201d he said. \u201cI go to parties much more often and use a lot more drugs. It\u2019s no longer something that happens occasionally.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Amir primarily uses mephedrone and ketamine, and sometimes cocaine, MDMA and ecstasy.<\/p>\n<p>The drugs provide several things at once.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey make me enjoy myself more and let go. But there\u2019s also an element of escape,\u201d he said. \u201cThose are a few hours when I don\u2019t have to think about what\u2019s happening here. I don\u2019t have to think about the war, the news and this whole reality.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Since the war began, he has been partying and using drugs nearly every weekend, with his use sometimes spilling into the middle of the week. Drugs are no longer confined to parties.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt has seeped into almost everything,\u201d he said. \u201cIt happens at home, too, when I meet up with friends. And it\u2019s not easy for me to say this, but there are also times when I use alone.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"gelleryOpener\" aria-label=\"open article gallery\" data-image-id=\"ArticleImageData.SklAId5R5fg\" id=\"image_ArticleImageData.SklAId5R5fg\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.SklAId5R5fg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/r1lczvRzTke_0_0_1000_667_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e1\u05de\u05d9\u05dd\" title=\"Photo: Shutterstock\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/a><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.SklAId5R5fg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/r1lczvRzTke_0_0_1000_667_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05e1\u05de\u05d9\u05dd\" title=\"Photo: Shutterstock\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/p>\n<p>He and his friends have tried to set rules: weekends only. Never alone. Never before work.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut most of the time, it doesn\u2019t really last,\u201d he acknowledged. \u201cI\u2019ve told myself quite a few times, \u2018This is the last time,\u2019 but in reality, it wasn\u2019t. The pattern always comes back.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If Amir had begun missing work, failing to complete assignments or running into financial trouble, it might have been easier to recognize that a line had been crossed. Instead, almost the opposite has happened.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s the scary thing about this whole story. I don\u2019t feel like I\u2019m paying a significant price in my professional life,\u201d he said. \u201cI\u2019m good at what I do, I\u2019m successful and my trajectory is only going up.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>There are days when he is more tired, takes less initiative and does only what is required of him. But he still considers those effects marginal.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don\u2019t see a clear impact from the parties and drugs on my success \u2014 and that\u2019s probably one of the things that keeps me going,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>No one at work knows. Amir fears that if his drug use were discovered, colleagues would see him as unserious or irresponsible, damaging the professional standing he has built.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI make sure they don\u2019t find out,\u201d he said. \u201cIt\u2019s clear to me that if people at work knew, they would look at me differently.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But Amir himself is no longer convinced that everything is fine.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDeep down, I know I have a problem. I know I\u2019ve developed a dependence, and maybe some degree of addiction,\u201d he acknowledged.<\/p>\n<p>During one recent period when he was using drugs almost every day, there was a physical price as well.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI felt really bad. I had chest pains and felt like my heart was going to explode. I even tried to seek help,\u201d he recalled.<\/p>\n<p>He said that when he looked for treatment, he mainly encountered group-based options. His fear that someone might recognize him ultimately stopped him from pursuing them.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI didn\u2019t want to join a group where someone might know me or tell someone else,\u201d he said. \u201cI was afraid people would find out. So in the end, I gave up on getting help.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Prof. Lev-Ran said Amir\u2019s story illustrates one of the major traps of addiction among successful, high-functioning people.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFirst of all, this is a person with strengths. The fact is that he manages to keep going,\u201d Lev-Ran said. \u201cBut that\u2019s what is deceptive and paradoxical: The same strengths that help him keep going often also prevent him from seeking help because he hasn\u2019t yet reached the point of saying, \u2018I can\u2019t do this anymore.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Society, he said, uses too narrow a definition of the word \u201cfunctioning.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere is functioning at work and functioning in school, but there is also functioning as a parent,\u201d he said. \u201cI may read a story to my children, and no one can accuse me of not functioning \u2014 but I\u2019m not really present.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lev-Ran likens it to an iceberg. Above the waterline are the things that are easy to see: Did the person show up for work, submit the report, pay the bill or finish the assignment? Below the surface are their relationship with their body, relationships with others, romantic life, parenting, leisure and sense of self.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWork and school are sometimes the red line,\u201d he said. \u201cBelow that line, I tell myself I\u2019ve crashed. But the fact that I haven\u2019t crossed that red line doesn\u2019t mean everything is OK.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>One way to think about substance use, he said, is as a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSometimes it\u2019s even the most stable relationship a person has. The state wasn\u2019t there for me, relationships can disappoint \u2014 but the substance is always there. It\u2019s loyal.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That is why, Lev-Ran said, the question is not simply whether someone clocked in for work in the morning.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe question is how this relationship affects my other relationships \u2014 my romantic relationship, friendships, parenting, family, money, leisure and my relationship with myself.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Jackie\u2019s story is very different. She is 40, divorced and a mother of two. For years, she was immersed in her studies and work. She used cannabis and occasionally experimented with other substances, but the party scene was barely part of her life.<\/p>\n<p>In the years after her separation, she said, she went through a prolonged period of loneliness, family tensions and difficulty finding her place as a mother and partner. Then, in early 2025, she decided to go alone to an outdoor rave. The experience changed something in her.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"gelleryOpener\" aria-label=\"open article gallery\" data-image-id=\"ArticleImageData.HJgDljc0qMx\" id=\"image_ArticleImageData.HJgDljc0qMx\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.HJgDljc0qMx\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/9476830_0_0_640_360_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05de\u05e1\u05d9\u05d1\u05d4 \u05de\u05d5\u05e2\u05d3\u05d5\u05df\" title=\"Photo: Shutterstock\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/a><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.HJgDljc0qMx\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/9476830_0_0_640_360_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05de\u05e1\u05d9\u05d1\u05d4 \u05de\u05d5\u05e2\u05d3\u05d5\u05df\" title=\"Photo: Shutterstock\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/p>\n<p>\u201cI had this incredible feeling of freedom,\u201d she said. \u201cI realized this was something that had been missing from my life. I had to relearn how to be present, communicate with people, meet people, move, use my body and listen to music.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In less than two years, parties became a regular part of her routine. She now goes out most weekends and primarily uses stimulants, along with psychedelic drugs at times.<\/p>\n<p>But Jackie does not describe the drugs as a problem she knows she needs to solve. Quite the opposite.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI prefer who I am when I\u2019m on drugs,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>Jackie recalled being invited to a party on the condition that she not use drugs. Her response to her friend was almost a statement of principle.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019d love to come, but I\u2019m going to do drugs,\u201d she said. \u201cIf I come without drugs, you won\u2019t meet me. If you want to meet me, I need to do drugs.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In Jackie\u2019s view, the substances unlocked something in her that had been closed off for years. Once a woman who struggled even to dance at a wedding, she began meeting people, building new friendships and feeling comfortable in her body.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cToday I know how to dance, I have friends, I know how to have fun,\u201d she said. \u201cThere were parts of me that were missing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The change, she said, has also carried over into the classroom and her home life.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf I come in bitter and depressed and haven\u2019t spoken to anyone for two days, I have no patience for my students,\u201d she said. \u201cThey talk and it annoys me, and I bark at them to be quiet. When I\u2019m happier, it really improves that, too.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She said drug use has also helped her be more present with her children.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf I use drugs and see that I\u2019m functioning better, that I\u2019m a happier person, that I enjoy being with my students more and enjoy being with my children more \u2014 then wow, that\u2019s great,\u201d she said. \u201cSuddenly I know how to enjoy situations and give of myself. It changes my life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Her partner saw things differently. When her drug use increased to several times a week, she said, it became a source of arguments and even threatened the future of their relationship. There were periods when she tried to stop, but as time passed, her feelings of guilt actually diminished.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAt first, there were a lot of moments when I thought there was something wrong with me, that what I was doing wasn\u2019t OK and that I had to stop,\u201d she said. \u201cBut the more I see that I like the effect it has on me and on my life, the less I think I\u2019m overdoing it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Still, Jackie hopes that eventually she will no longer need the substances.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe goal is to be the best version of myself without the help of drugs,\u201d she said. \u201cRight now, I see them as a learning tool.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIs it possible for someone in distress to use an addictive substance and for it to actually help them function better in the short term? Absolutely. I\u2019m worried about the person who will be there in 2028 and 2030. It\u2019s a gradual, creeping process. At some point, something that was a friend can become an enemy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lev-Ran recognizes in Jackie\u2019s account a mechanism well known in psychiatry: self-medication.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeople don\u2019t use substances because they\u2019re bad people, but because they feel bad,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>Someone dealing with depression, anxiety, loneliness or emotional distress may discover that a particular substance provides relief, he explained, and in the short term, it sometimes genuinely works.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIs it possible for someone in distress to use an addictive substance and for it to actually help them function better in the short term? Absolutely,\u201d he said. \u201cOtherwise, people wouldn\u2019t turn to it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That is precisely what makes the initial stage so deceptive.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere is a period when we feel the benefits much more than the costs,\u201d Lev-Ran said. \u201cBut we can go from something that helps us do a particular thing to a situation where, without it, we can no longer do that thing. That is already the development of dependence.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>When considering Jackie, whose intensive drug use began only in early 2025, Lev-Ran is not looking solely at her condition today.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m worried about the person who will be there in 2028 and 2030,\u201d he said. \u201cIt\u2019s a gradual, creeping process. At some point, something that was a friend can become an enemy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The change is not only in the amount of drugs being used, but also in the place they occupy in social life.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeople used to do it on the down low. Today, it\u2019s completely out in the open,\u201d Amir said. \u201cIt\u2019s not just at parties anymore. It\u2019s at people\u2019s homes, gatherings with friends and even weddings. Since when did people do drugs like this at weddings? Today, you go to the bathroom and see a line of people going into a stall together to snort drugs.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"gelleryOpener\" aria-label=\"open article gallery\" data-image-id=\"ArticleImageData.BkeeUn9A9fg\" id=\"image_ArticleImageData.BkeeUn9A9fg\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.BkeeUn9A9fg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/HyaqeqzFn_0_0_1000_667_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05d0\u05e7\u05e1\u05d8\u05d6\u05d9 MDMA \u05e1\u05dd \u05e1\u05de\u05d9\u05dd \u05e1\u05de\u05d9 \u05de\u05e1\u05d9\u05d1\u05d5\u05ea\" title=\"Photo: Shutterstock\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/a><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"ReduxEditableImage_ArticleImageData.BkeeUn9A9fg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/HyaqeqzFn_0_0_1000_667_0_x-large.jpg\" alt=\"\u05d0\u05e7\u05e1\u05d8\u05d6\u05d9 MDMA \u05e1\u05dd \u05e1\u05de\u05d9\u05dd \u05e1\u05de\u05d9 \u05de\u05e1\u05d9\u05d1\u05d5\u05ea\" title=\"Photo: Shutterstock\" aria-hidden=\"false\"\/><\/p>\n<p>The Health Ministry has also noted that the use of \u201cparty drugs,\u201d including MDMA, ketamine, GHB and cocaine, is increasing among both younger and older Israelis, not only in clubs but also at social gatherings.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Zucker said the significant change, in his view, is not necessarily the increase in drug use at parties, where such substances have been present for years, but their spread beyond that setting.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat\u2019s interesting is the shift in substance use outside parties,\u201d he said. \u201cSuddenly, it\u2019s a few friends at someone\u2019s house, too, and there are lines waiting on the kitchen counter.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Over time, he said, conditioned associations can develop: A person no longer simply wants a drug at a party but begins to feel they need it to enjoy the event itself.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe brain creates associations about how you\u2019re supposed to have fun,\u201d Zucker said. \u201cPeople tell themselves, \u2018I can\u2019t enjoy myself with my friends if there isn\u2019t a line around. What am I supposed to do with them without it?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Amir already recognizes that feeling in himself.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou get used to it,\u201d he said. \u201cIt becomes harder to enjoy a party or let loose without a substance. A certain threshold develops that you need to reach, and over time you also need to use more to get the same feeling.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>According to Zucker, some of this normalization stems from the failure of the old fear-based messaging about drugs.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll our lives, we were taught that life is black and white: You did drugs \u2014 you got addicted, you\u2019re finished, you\u2019re going to die,\u201d he said. \u201cThen someone tries something for the first time, terrified, and discovers that not only did they not die or immediately become addicted \u2014 they actually enjoyed it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>From there, he said, it is easy to swing to the opposite extreme.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBlack turns into white, without understanding that there is an entire gray world in between.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That gap is also why Zucker advocates a harm-reduction approach: not portraying drug use as risk-free, but also not relying solely on the message \u201cdon\u2019t do drugs,\u201d which is ineffective for people who intend to use them anyway.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf I said about everything, \u2018Drugs are bad,\u2019 people wouldn\u2019t listen to me when I tell them there\u2019s a particular substance they really need to be careful with,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>The risk is compounded, he said, because users do not always know what they are consuming. Substances sold under a particular name mayFfourtljbjnkn.knklinnmlllll actually contain mixtures or entirely different drugs.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeople simply don\u2019t know what they\u2019re putting into their bodies,\u201d Zucker said. \u201cAnd if you don\u2019t know what you\u2019re putting into your body, how can you know what is dangerous to mix?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lev-Ran points to five warning signs that do not depend on whether someone is still showing up at the office.<\/p>\n<p>The first, and most important, is loss of control.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI said I would use once a week, but by Tuesday I\u2019m already at an event,\u201d he said. \u201cI said Thursday\u2019s party would end that night, and it turned into 48 hours. I tried to cut back and couldn\u2019t.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The second is entering risky situations, such as driving under the influence, working while impaired or repeatedly returning to situations in which the person has already been harmed.<\/p>\n<p>The third is when the substance becomes the primary or only means of emotional regulation.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI used to exercise, meet friends, listen to music,\u201d Lev-Ran said. \u201cNow I have only one thing. Take it away from me \u2014 and I\u2019m finished.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The fourth warning sign is the price a person is paying, even if the consequences are not yet dramatic. The fifth is a narrowing of life: friends they no longer see, hobbies that have disappeared, places they no longer visit and activities that were once part of their lives.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere isn\u2019t one single criterion,\u201d Lev-Ran stressed. \u201cBut the more of these areas I look at and say, \u2018Yes, there\u2019s an issue there,\u2019 the greater the likelihood that I\u2019ve slipped into problematic use or addiction. It\u2019s a spectrum.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For Amir, there is another factor: money. Some months, he said, he spends thousands of shekels on drugs. He deliberately avoids calculating the exact amount.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don\u2019t even look at my monthly expenses because I don\u2019t want to know how much it really is,\u201d he said. \u201cWhen you\u2019re older, you have a career and an income. You\u2019re no longer a 23-year-old with no money who\u2019s afraid of getting into trouble. It\u2019s actually the success that allows you to keep going.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The days afterward are not always easy. At times, he is more tired and sluggish, takes less initiative and does only what he has to do. But for him, those consequences still do not outweigh the perceived benefits.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cUltimately, I go back to it because it\u2019s fun,\u201d Amir said. \u201cIt makes me feel good, keeps me alert for many hours and sometimes I feel like it makes me more creative.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lev-Ran struggles to find an exact precedent elsewhere in the world for what Israel has experienced since Oct. 7. Events such as the Sept. 11 attacks in the United States were enormous national disasters, but they were discrete events. In Israel, an initial trauma was followed by years of war, alongside a technological reality in which drugs are far more accessible than in the past and other potentially addictive behaviors are available on every smartphone.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe\u2019re writing the book on this as we go,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s like trying to fill a bucket with a hole in it. You can invest enormous resources in filling it, but if you don\u2019t fix the hole, the water keeps leaking out.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>One population of particular concern, he said, is young people \u2014 especially those who served in the military, either on active duty or in the reserves, as well as those exposed extensively to graphic videos and threatening content on social media.<\/p>\n<p>But in Lev-Ran\u2019s view, addiction is not an issue confined to a single \u201cat-risk group,\u201d nor is it something that should be addressed only at the margins of rehabilitation programs.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere is no recovery from trauma and no mental health recovery without addressing addictive substances and addictive behaviors,\u201d he said. \u201cIt\u2019s like trying to fill a bucket with a hole in it. You can invest enormous resources in filling it, but if you don\u2019t fix the hole, the water keeps leaking out.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He is nevertheless optimistic about Israeli society\u2019s ability to recover. But first, he said, people need to abandon the old image of an addict as someone incapable of functioning.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere are many otherwise ordinary people using a lot of substances, and a very large proportion of people with problematic use or addiction are also functioning,\u201d he said. \u201cIf, after Oct. 7, someone still has a stereotypical image of what addiction looks like, it\u2019s time to refresh it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Amir already knows he is in a problematic place, but he, too, finds it difficult to give up what drugs have provided him during this period.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think it helped me survive this period better,\u201d he said. \u201cI had more fun, I was happier, and it helped me avoid sinking into all the shit this country has been through. I didn\u2019t feel an immediate price, but I know that I, and many people around me, have a problem. I also know that in the long run, using this frequently can\u2019t be good. It can\u2019t be good for the body.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Jackie is still in a different place. She hopes that in a few years she will no longer need that help.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI want to learn to be in the moment and give of myself, and then be able to enjoy things at the same level without drugs,\u201d she said. \u201cThat\u2019s the goal \u2014 to be the best version of myself, but without their help.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lev-Ran suggests that people like Amir and Jackie begin not by asking, \u201cAm I addicted?\u201d but with a broader question.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you say that the substance is helping you function, you may be right,\u201d he said. \u201cBut ask yourself, in a quiet moment: Alongside the benefits, are there areas of your life that people on the outside don\u2019t see where you\u2019re paying a price? In your relationships, your sense of competence, your ability to cope with difficulties on your own, your presence with the people you love.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Showing up for work in the morning, he said, is an important measure, but it is only one measure.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTo thrive, and not merely survive, we also need to be able to tolerate frustration, boredom, loneliness and stress,\u201d Lev-Ran said. \u201cIf we constantly rely on a substance to regulate those feelings, a moment will come when we need that ability \u2014 and it may no longer be available to us.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"On a typical weekend, Amir, a pseudonym, comes home after a week of work, meets up with friends&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":635635,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[42,43,40,38,41,39],"class_list":["post-635634","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-headlines","tag-headlines","tag-news","tag-top-news","tag-top-stories","tag-topnews","tag-topstories"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/635634","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=635634"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/635634\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/635635"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=635634"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=635634"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/il\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=635634"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}