Jennifer Lopez\u2019s first husband, Ojani Noa, isn\u2019t holding back when it comes to the pop star\u2019s recent comments, urging her to \u201ctell the truth for once.\u201d<\/p>\n
The 51-year-old former model unleashed a scathing message on Instagram<\/a> on Friday, October 17,\u00a0 accusing the superstar of cheating and hypocrisy, among other things, after she publicly claimed she\u2019d never been \u201ctruly loved\u201d by her exes.<\/p>\n \u201cLet me just say, stop putting us down. Stop putting me down with your victim card,\u201d Noa wrote, referring to Lopez\u2019s recent remarks during her previous interview with Howard Stern. \u201cThe problem [is] not us. Not me. The problem [is] you. You [are] the one who couldn\u2019t keep it in your pants.\u201d<\/p>\n Noa, who was married to Lopez from 1997 to 1998, went on to insist that he had been faithful and devoted during their short-lived marriage. \u201cI\u2019m an amazing, loving person, great human being. Honest, faithful to you, never lied, never [misbehaved], never cheated on you,\u201d he wrote. \u201cI was good to you. I\u2019m too good of a [man] for you.\u201d He added that he had left his family and job to support her early Hollywood career, only to watch her \u201cchoose fame and fortune\u201d over their marriage.<\/p>\n The post came just days after Lopez, 56, told Stern she had never truly felt loved<\/a> by any of her former partners. \u201cWhat I learned, I learned that it\u2019s not that I\u2019m not lovable, it\u2019s that they\u2019re not capable\u2026 They don\u2019t have it in them,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n \ud83c\udfb6 SIGN UP for Parade\u2019s Daily newsletter to get the latest pop culture news & celebrity interviews delivered right to your inbox<\/a> \ud83c\udfb6<\/p>\n Elsewhere in the interview, she revealed one career move she still kicks herself over \u2014 passing on a major film that went on to become a hit. When Stern asked if she\u2019d ever turned down a role she later regretted, the singer admitted, \u201cyes,\u201d before revealing she had been offered the lead in the 2002 thriller Unfaithful. Lopez explained that at the time, she thought \u201cthe script wasn\u2019t good.\u201d But after the movie hit theaters, she realized Lyne had turned the material into something \u201cgreat.\u201d<\/p>\n Lopez has now tied the knot a total of four times. After Noa, she was married to Cris Judd from 2001 to 2003, Marc Anthony (whom she shares her 17-year-old twins Max and Emme with) from 2004 to 2014, and most recently Ben Affleck, whom she wed in 2022 and finalized her split from earlier this year.<\/p>\n Lopez has yet to respond to Noa\u2019s latest accusations and has not responded to Parade’s request for comment.<\/p>\n This story was originally reported by Parade<\/a> on Oct 19, 2025, where it first appeared in the News<\/a> section. Add Parade as a Preferred Source by clicking here.<\/a><\/p>\n