I gave my 7-year-old the viral Tin Can phone because all her friends had it — here’s the verdict after a month

So, we bought a Tin Can phone to see what all the fuss was about.

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To add a contact, you can connect the app to your contacts list, or type in a Tin Can number into the app. With the latter, a notification is sent to that person, who must approve you before you can call them. I recommend you make your name as clear as possible; I received a contact request with just a kid’s first name, and I had no idea who they were. Fortunately, you can edit a person’s contact info to something recognizable.

The app also lets you set quiet times, when the phone is operable. I like that you can set a different schedule for each day, so you can set specific hours for weekends versus weekdays. And, you can create a voicemail message, so your child’s friends can leave messages if you’re not around. Annoyingly, you can only listen to voicemails on the phone itself, and not the app.

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It’s amusing to see children brought up in an age of smartphones use a type of phone that’s much, much older. When my kid first used the Tin Can, she held it in front of her face, like she was expecting a FaceTime call. I told her she’d hear her grandma better if she held the phone to her ear.

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Kids aren’t used to the lack of visual cues, either, which leads to a lot of awkward pauses as they wait to hear each other speak.

Call quality was good, but not great. For the most part, calls were clear, both when holding the phone to her head and in speakerphone mode. However, several voicemails left for my kid were crackly, which made them hard to understand.

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It also proved to be a good incentive for her to get her chores done — I told her she needed to practice piano before she could make any calls, and whaddya know, she ran right over to the ivories and tore through her lesson.

I also asked the parents of my kid’s friends what they thought about the phone, and the reactions were largely positive.

“Despite the cords, it’s really nice to have a way to get in touch with the kids when I’m at work. It’s also cute to see them initiating calls to my family,” one parent said.

“I can already see how it’s building [my child’s] conversation skills,” said another. “It encourages them to think about questions they might want to ask, or talk about things that they will do together later in a way that in-person play doesn’t necessitate.”

I can already see how it’s building conversation skills

A third parent also noted the generational divide. “I love how little my child understands phone etiquette when there’s no screen involved to see the other person. Lots of awkward pauses.”

Finally “[our kid] told me this morning that he ‘feels so grown up not that he can talk to his friends whenever he wants.”

However, there were a few critiques. “The cords are waaaaay too easy to unplug,” said one parent. “Just ask my 2.5-year-old who does it every time we get a call.”

Another parent suggested that the phone’s ringer could be louder, or there be an option for it to ring the parent’s phone when there’s a call.

Tin Can is far from the only company to offer child-focused phones.

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Like many of my kid’s toys, the novelty of the Tin Can wore off pretty quickly. After a few weeks, she had only made a couple of calls to her grandparents, and barely any to her friends, so I cancelled the monthly plan. I also noticed that she also stopped receiving calls from her friends after the initial flurry of activity, so it seems like interest in general has died down.

When we first got the phone, I signed up for a monthly plan, but after seeing her lack of interest, I cancelled it. Fortunately, we were still on the free trial, so it didn’t end up costing me anything.

It would be great if kids who have, say, a Tin Can could call someone who has a Pinwheel or Ring Ring phone. Otherwise, you’re locked into buying a phone on the particular service that’s most popular among your child’s parents. It’s like a more exclusive version of the blue bubble.

Ultimately — and this is a good thing — is that there are far more interesting things to my 7-year-old than a phone. Maybe it’s because it’s the middle of the summer and no one’s around, but even when I suggested she call one of her friends, she sort of just shrugs. Then she ran off to play outside.

Have you picked up one of these phones for your kids? What’s the right age to get a kid a phone? Let me know in the comments.