Help Me Hera: Should I make amends with my former MFA cohort?
Years ago I was ostracised from the group. Is it finally time to reach out? Want Hera’s help?…
Help Me Hera: I’m 24 and moving back in with my parents
Why do I feel like such a failure? Want Hera’s help? Email your problem to helpme@thespinoff.co.nz or fill out…
Help Me Hera: I’m pregnant and I hate my job
How do I survive the next few months until maternity leave? Want Hera’s help? Email your problem to…
Help Me Hera: I’m an asexual woman, worried about my future
Will I be alone forever? Want Hera’s help? Email your problem to helpme@thespinoff.co.nz or fill out this form. Help…
Help Me Hera: Should I move home to New Zealand?
I want to come back, but it seems like the economy is a sinking ship. Want Hera’s help?…
Help Me Hera: My child has terrible taste in music
How do I deal with the fact my own flesh and blood would rather listen to Mumford &…
Help Me Hera: A festive miscellany of advice
A smorgasbord of wisdom for almost every possible situation. Want Hera’s help? Email your problem to helpme@thespinoff.co.nz or fill…
Help Me Hera: I am completely out of beans
How do I recapture the joyful energy of my 20s? Want Hera’s help? Email your problem to helpme@thespinoff.co.nz…
Help Me Hera: Should I be worried about my age gap relationship?
I’m 21 and she’s 29. Is it wrong that I find it hot? Want Hera’s help? Email your…
Help Me Hera: How do I survive Christmas with my cheating brother-in-law?
My sister says she’s forgiven him, but I don’t know if I can look him in the eye.…