{"id":100336,"date":"2025-10-25T11:15:07","date_gmt":"2025-10-25T11:15:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/100336\/"},"modified":"2025-10-25T11:15:07","modified_gmt":"2025-10-25T11:15:07","slug":"jacinda-ardern-on-life-after-politics-and-her-new-book-mums-busy-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/100336\/","title":{"rendered":"Jacinda Ardern on life after politics and her new book Mum\u2019s Busy Work"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">Ardern needed to be prepared for Monday\u2019s briefing, sign correspondence and read through a raft of papers. She saved the best for last \u2013 a purple folder filled with letters from children. She answered each and every one.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cIt was always my joyful folder,\u201d she says, adding that she often needed to start ploughing through the briefcase on a Friday night to get through it all.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">Ultimately, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/lifestyle\/mums-busy-work-review-how-jacinda-arderns-book-portrays-modern-parenting\/QX5Q5GVYPFBRPDOTKLDIDP4VM4\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/lifestyle\/mums-busy-work-review-how-jacinda-arderns-book-portrays-modern-parenting\/QX5Q5GVYPFBRPDOTKLDIDP4VM4\/\">Mum\u2019s Busy Work<\/a> is an aspirational book with a key message. \u201cIt doesn\u2019t matter what we go and do in those days, the most important thing for us will always be our kids,\u201d Ardern explains.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">And while the book\u2019s pages, illustrated by Ruby Jones, are aimed at children, they\u2019re not its only target audience. \u201cI hope parents feel reassured in just reading the story, that time is not the best measure of what matters the most,\u201d she says, adding this is something she struggled with.<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"Jacinda Ardern with Clarke Gayford and their daughter Neve Te Aroha Ardern Gayford. Photo \/ Getty Images\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>Jacinda Ardern with Clarke Gayford and their daughter Neve Te Aroha Ardern Gayford. Photo \/ Getty Images<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cSo much of my time went into a role that was incredibly important and it will forever be the privilege of my lifetime, but it was a large chunk of time in my day and I didn\u2019t want to diminish how important my daughter was to me as well. Time is not the best measure, nor is it the only measure.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">While Ardern has much in common with everyday mums and dads \u2013 including those Instagram-famous birthday cakes that she alternates making with Clarke each year for Neve\u2019s birthday \u2013 the reality is that she became a mum in the most extraordinary of circumstances. As the world\u2019s youngest woman elected to office and only the second woman in office to give birth, she was very much in the spotlight.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">While heavily pregnant, Ardern graced the halls of Buckingham Palace for the opening session of the Commonwealth Heads of Government Meeting. During that visit and hoping for some wise words about being a mum when all eyes are on you and with an intense workload, she turned to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/topic\/royals\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/topic\/royals\/\">late Queen Elizabeth<\/a> for advice.<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"Jacinda Ardern turned to the late Queen Elizabeth for motherhood advice. Photo \/ Getty Images\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>Jacinda Ardern turned to the late Queen Elizabeth for motherhood advice. Photo \/ Getty Images<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cShe said, \u2018You just get on with it\u2019,\u201d says Ardern. \u201cShe just happened to get on with it in a very graceful way.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">Days after baby Neve\u2019s arrival, her proud parents presented her to the country with a press conference.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI had to make sure I was presentable enough, pull myself together a little, that I looked normal enough when I walked, which is something I hadn\u2019t really tested, particularly as I\u2019d stayed in a 15sq m space for the three days prior. I was a little nervous about that,\u201d Ardern explains. \u201cNeve was also a little unsettled, so we needed to manage that. So actually, the big moments became the small moments.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">And in sharing these moments, Ardern took the country along with her \u2013 and she very much felt the love in return.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cNeve is called Neve Te Aroha, the love, the love, because there was a dual meaning. Both my parents were born there [Te Aroha], it\u2019s our maunga, but it felt like the best representation of how we felt,\u201d she says of introducing her to the country.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">On their shelves now is a large book filled with messages from people all around New Zealand. She wants her now 7-year-old daughter to \u201cknow, understand and appreciate the care and love that was there\u201d, Ardern says. \u201cWe also desperately want for her to be her own person, too. It\u2019s been hard trying to figure out how to do both of these things.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"The former Prime Minister says she couldn\u2019t have returned to work six weeks after having Neve without the &quot;village&quot; around her. Photo \/ NZ Woman's Weekly\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>The former Prime Minister says she couldn\u2019t have returned to work six weeks after having Neve without the &#8220;village&#8221; around her. Photo \/ NZ Woman&#8217;s Weekly<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">She says she has never lost those feelings of love she experienced from the country in the early days of motherhood, but insists she couldn\u2019t have returned to work six weeks after having Neve without the \u201cvillage\u201d around her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cFor the most part, Clarke was the primary caregiver, but he still had a [TV] show and he would have to film,\u201d Ardern, 45, says. \u201cSo when he was doing that, it was either my mother, his mother or Neve\u2019s godmother who would care for her. And from time to time, it would be my cousin or my sister. We were very lucky to have those people consistent in our lives \u2013 but there\u2019s a special appreciation of our mothers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cPeople often ask me, \u2018When you became a mother, did it change the way you did your job, or the kinds of policies you focused on?\u2019 And in some ways, no, because I had always been interested in children\u2019s policies, and I\u2019d always tried to prioritise it. But one thing it did make me focus on a lot more was our solo mothers, because I had a greater appreciation, because I wasn\u2019t doing it alone.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cSupport and a sense of security come from knowing there are people you can call on.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">But for now, since stepping away from politics in January 2023, Ardern is filling her days with projects important to her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">She works with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/topic\/prince-william\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/topic\/prince-william\/\">Prince William<\/a>, who shares a birthday with Neve and to whom he sent a Buzzy Bee on her first birthday, on the global environmental Earthshot Prize.<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"Since stepping away from politics in January 2023, Jacinda Ardern has been filling her days with projects important to her. Photo \/ NZ Woman's Weekly\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>Since stepping away from politics in January 2023, Jacinda Ardern has been filling her days with projects important to her. Photo \/ NZ Woman&#8217;s Weekly<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI wanted to be around that kind of innovation and optimism and to be a part of a platform for that because there\u2019s a lot to be disheartened by, especially in the climate space,\u201d Ardern says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">Her other work includes a fellowship with Conservation International, which she recently finished, and a fellowship in empathetic leadership and politics. She is still the patron for the Christchurch Call To Action as well as other roles supporting women\u2019s health and wellbeing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">It seems Ardern is still incredibly busy \u2013 but those Sunday nights?<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cIt\u2019s completely different,\u201d she smiles. \u201cThen, things just had to be done. You couldn\u2019t say, \u2018I\u2019m tired tonight\u2019, or \u2018I\u2019ll do that another time\u2019. It was part of the schedule and you\u2019d work around it. Now, I prioritise in a different way, like having dinner with my family, or making dinner for my family.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">Sometimes, they\u2019ll watch a movie together.<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cWe\u2019re going through a phase of being like, \u2018Oh, why don\u2019t we watch that film we used to like when we were younger?\u2019 But some of them you can\u2019t go too early with,\u201d Ardern laughs. \u201cLike The Princess Bride \u2013 I forgot about the swamp rats!\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">She also, fittingly for a children\u2019s book author, reads to Neve each night.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">It\u2019s an activity close to Ardern\u2019s heart. She grew up loving choose-your-own adventure books as well as Nancy Drew and The Babysitter\u2019s Club, and says the gift of reading, \u201copens up the world for children. You see it in a way you forget about or take for granted, but it\u2019s also the ability to escape that it provides\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">These days, while she still needs to read serious books such as those about violent online extremism, there\u2019s also room for novels. On her nightstand right now are Gabrielle Zevin\u2019s Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow, and before that, A Beautiful Family by New Zealand author Jennifer Trevelyan.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">But despite the massive life changes as she traverses new adventures and achievements, with Clarke and Neve by her side \u2013 and without that all-important briefcase \u2013 Ardern can\u2019t help but admit with a twinkle in her eye, \u201cI still tend to work in the evenings\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"Mum\u2019s Busy Work by Jacinda Ardern. Photo \/ NZ Woman's Weekly\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>Mum\u2019s Busy Work by Jacinda Ardern. Photo \/ NZ Woman&#8217;s Weekly<\/p>\n<p class=\"dptlwVDgxxGx\" style=\"display:none\">Mum\u2019s Busy Work by Jacinda Ardern, (PenguinRandom House, $30).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Ardern needed to be prepared for Monday\u2019s briefing, sign correspondence and read through a raft of papers. 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