{"id":126702,"date":"2025-11-09T19:52:11","date_gmt":"2025-11-09T19:52:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/126702\/"},"modified":"2025-11-09T19:52:11","modified_gmt":"2025-11-09T19:52:11","slug":"unlikely-golden-bachelor-rivalry-forms-as-women-fight-over-bear-myrden-ahead-of-finale-drama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/126702\/","title":{"rendered":"Unlikely Golden Bachelor rivalry forms as women fight over Bear Myrden ahead of finale: &#8216;Drama&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">As <a data-i13n=\"cpos:1;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/au.lifestyle.yahoo.com\/the-golden-bachelors-major-format-change-after-contestant-brutally-rejects-bear-005812504.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:The Golden Bachelor;cpos:1;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The Golden Bachelor<\/a>\u00a0approaches its end, the competition to win <a data-i13n=\"cpos:2;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/au.lifestyle.yahoo.com\/samantha-armytage-and-bear-myrdens-golden-bachelor-salaries-have-leaked-didnt-need-the-money-232213738.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:Barry \u2018Bear\u2019 Myrden;cpos:2;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Barry \u2018Bear\u2019 Myrden<\/a>\u2019s heart is well and truly heating up. Sunday night\u2019s episode saw two fan favourites, <a data-i13n=\"cpos:3;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/au.lifestyle.yahoo.com\/the-golden-bachelors-sunny-explains-odd-rose-ceremony-detail-that-confused-fans-meant-a-lot-to-me-015353086.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:58-year-old CEO Sunny;cpos:3;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">58-year-old CEO Sunny<\/a> and 60-year-old doctor Kim, clash at the cocktail party while discussing their individual connections with Bear.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Tension had been brewing for quite some time between the pair, as Kim\u2019s dramatic arrival in a Porsche during the very first <a data-i13n=\"cpos:4;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/au.lifestyle.yahoo.com\/golden-bachelor-introduces-major-change-as-channel-9-show-enters-new-era-with-mature-aged-cast-permission-to-push-212547096.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:cocktail party;cpos:4;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">cocktail party<\/a> interrupted Sunny\u2019s one-on-one time with Bear. They then had a light-hearted tiff while discussing erotica novels, with Sunny saying she \u201cloved\u201d Fifty Shades of Grey because it was \u201ceye-opening\u201d, and Kim calling it \u201cyucky\u201d and \u201cboring\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">During Sunday night\u2019s episode, the pair had a very awkward conversation comparing their relationships with Bear and what he had told each of them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">RELATED:<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Kim, who has been twice widowed, then called Sunny out when she said she felt \u201cso sorry\u201d for Bear after he lost his wife to cancer 14 years ago.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cWhat I was always fearful of, having experienced the same sort of loss as Bear, is that people want to be with you because they feel sorry for you, and I think that\u2019s a trap you can fall into with someone who\u2019s lost someone,\u201d Kim shared.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cPeople who lose someone don\u2019t want to have people feel sorry for them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"The Golden Bachelor's Sunny and Kim.\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/c5e9ebb0-bb8d-11f0-bddb-5e55f320bb42.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Kim called Sunny out for saying she felt \u2019sorry\u2019 for Bear. Photos: Channel 9<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;There&#8217;s an intense connection&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Sunny, who has been very open about her connection with Bear, then asked Kim if she felt \u201cfriend-zoned\u201d by him, which she quickly shut down.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cDefinitely not a friendzone, definitely comfortable in a lover\u2019s way, and I don\u2019t feel sorry for him at all. I feel proud of him,\u201d Kim said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cThere\u2019s an intense connection, and it will be devastating if it doesn\u2019t sort of come to fruition.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">At the rose ceremony, Bear chose to take Sunny, Kim, and Janette through to Hometowns, saying goodbye to Gera and Jan, who received the first impression rose.<\/p>\n<p>Kim speaks out about &#8216;drama&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Kim spoke with Yahoo Lifestyle ahead of the season premiere last month and admitted that there was some \u201cdrama\u201d amongst the cast during filming.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cThere was drama, because you\u2019ll never get a whole bunch of anybody together without drama, but I don\u2019t think it was nasty drama,\u201d she detailed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cIt was fun drama, it was powerful, we were all challenging each other and making ourselves do better. It was fun, but yes, there were moments of drama.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">SHOP:<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Meanwhile, Sunny told Yahoo Lifestyle she had a \u201cwonderful time\u201d filming the show, but admitted it was difficult at first being surrounded by women after working in such a male-dominated field.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI\u2019m in the IT industry, which is always men, so I hire men, I fire men, and I order them around. And suddenly, I\u2019m in a huge group of women,\u201d she remarked.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cThe first couple of days, I was thinking, \u2018Oh my god, what\u2019s going on?\u2019, but I enjoyed the camaraderie and the support everyone was giving to each other, and that was one of the best takeaways. It was beautiful.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Want the latest lifestyle and entertainment news? 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