{"id":12739,"date":"2025-09-09T23:24:09","date_gmt":"2025-09-09T23:24:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/12739\/"},"modified":"2025-09-09T23:24:09","modified_gmt":"2025-09-09T23:24:09","slug":"christchurch-boy-connor-coster-remembered-after-four%e2%80%91year-cancer-battle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/12739\/","title":{"rendered":"Christchurch boy Connor Coster remembered after four\u2011year cancer battle"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">But his parents, Bobby Coster and Lisa Robertson, were told curative options had run out and that the family was \u201cliving on borrowed time\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">A rare chromosome mutation made Connor\u2019s cancer especially aggressive and hard to treat. <\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">He underwent CAR T-cell therapy in Melbourne, Australia, in what initially seemed a positive turn in his treatment, but not long after, doctors discovered his blood counts weren\u2019t recovering. <\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">Further investigation revealed he had developed therapy-related myelodysplastic syndrome (MDS), a serious blood disorder caused by previous cancer treatment.<\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">Despite constant pain and setbacks, Connor\u2019s family said he remained loving, positive and full of heart.<\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">After four years of bravely battling, Connor  died on August 13.<\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cOne thing that Connor has wanted for the last four years is just to live, and that was true right up until the end. He wanted to shed his light on the world and experience it all,\u201d Robertson said.<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"Connor was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic lymphoma in Christchurch at age 4. Photo \/ Supplied\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>Connor was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic lymphoma in Christchurch at age 4. Photo \/ Supplied<\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">She described him as a boy who loved people deeply. <\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cHe loved his friends, he loved his family. He just loved being able to put a smile on anybody\u2019s face,\u201d she said. <\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cEven though he was feeling pretty rotten near the end, he got pretty sick one day and said to Bobby, \u2018Are you okay, Daddy?\u2019 and Bobby said, \u2018Yeah, I\u2019m okay babe, are you?\u2019 Right up until the end, he was very much caring and thinking about others and other people\u2019s feelings.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">Friends and the wider community had rallied to support the family, <a href=\"https:\/\/givealittle.co.nz\/cause\/please-help-connor-achieve-his-final-dreams\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/givealittle.co.nz\/cause\/please-help-connor-achieve-his-final-dreams\">raising funds to help Connor tick items off his bucket list, from family trips to Rainbow\u2019s End to adventures in Arthur\u2019s Pass.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">Connor\u2019s younger brother, Koda, who turns  5 this week, continues to keep a close bond with his brother.<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"Conner died last month, nearly four years after being diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic lymphoma. Photo \/ Supplied\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>Conner died last month, nearly four years after being diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic lymphoma. Photo \/ Supplied<\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cOne day ,he said twice, \u2018Connor\u2019s up in the stars. I can see him\u2019,\u201d Robertson said. <\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cEvery day he tells us Connor\u2019s off playing somewhere&#8230; But at night, he breaks down and says, \u2018I miss my brother\u2019.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">For his birthday, Koda insists on a Beyblade that he said Connor promised him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">For his parents, the task ahead is to honour Connor\u2019s legacy. <\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"A rare chromosome mutation made Connor\u2019s cancer especially aggressive and hard to treat. Photo \/ Supplied\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>A rare chromosome mutation made Connor\u2019s cancer especially aggressive and hard to treat. Photo \/ Supplied<\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cBobby\u2019s adamant that he wants to put the light out in the world like Connor did and just live. Live with love,\u201d Robertson said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">The family said they have been overwhelmed by the kindness of the wider community, \u201cand how touching it is to know how much of an impression Connor\u2019s life made on a lot of people.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cHe taught us to feel love and show love in a way we never knew possible.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">For those wanting to support the family, <a href=\"https:\/\/givealittle.co.nz\/cause\/please-help-connor-achieve-his-final-dreams\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/givealittle.co.nz\/cause\/please-help-connor-achieve-his-final-dreams\">donations can be made at this link.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"VYEVUgvTMz\" style=\"display:none\">Ben Tomsett is a multimedia journalist based in Dunedin. 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