{"id":140993,"date":"2025-11-18T09:53:20","date_gmt":"2025-11-18T09:53:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/140993\/"},"modified":"2025-11-18T09:53:20","modified_gmt":"2025-11-18T09:53:20","slug":"wife-of-murdered-man-had-rejected-accused-killers-profile-from-marriage-bureau","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/140993\/","title":{"rendered":"Wife of murdered man had rejected accused killer&#8217;s profile from marriage bureau"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/4M94P8U_image_crop_124232\" width=\"1050\" height=\"700\" alt=\"Dunedin High and District Court\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"photo-captioned__information\">\nPhoto: RNZ \/ Nate McKinnon\n<\/p>\n<p>The wife of a Dunedin man stabbed to death has revealed she rejected a proposal from the man accused of his murder.<\/p>\n<p>Gurjit Singh was found dead on the lawn of his home in January last year after being stabbed more than 40 times.<\/p>\n<p>A 35-year-old man, known only as Rajinder, is on trial for murder at the High Court.<\/p>\n<p>His defence lawyer said Rajinder had no reason to kill Singh and there was no animosity between the two men.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking through a translator, Singh&#8217;s wife Kamaljeet Kaur told the court she rejected Rajinder&#8217;s profile from a marriage bureau in India around 2022 because she was already in contact with Singh.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I was not interested,&#8221; she said. Her parents said no to Rajinder&#8217;s proposal.<\/p>\n<p>She said she told Singh about his approach the same day.<\/p>\n<p>Kaur and Singh met online in 2021 and married in India in May 2023. The couple waited for a partner visa in order for Kaur to move to New Zealand in 2024.<\/p>\n<p>Kaur said her bags were packed and she was preparing to leave India when she found out Singh had been killed.<\/p>\n<p>She travelled from India to Dunedin to give evidence for the prosecution at Rajinder&#8217;s trial.<\/p>\n<p>Kaur confirmed her sister married one of Rajinder&#8217;s relatives.<\/p>\n<p>She also described overhearing a conversation on speaker phone where she found out Rajinder&#8217;s sister wanted her brother to marry Singh&#8217;s sister but Singh rejected the idea because she was too young.<\/p>\n<p>Singh had moved to Dunedin as a result of Rajinder&#8217;s job offer and had mentioned him a few times when he was his boss, Kaur said.<\/p>\n<p>Kaur said Singh later struck out on his own and was very successful.<\/p>\n<p>The couple was in contact daily, with Kaur last receiving a photo from Singh as he drove home from a pizza party the night before he was found dead.<\/p>\n<p>Her husband would normally contact her in the morning, so she was worried when she did not hear from him and calls and messages went unanswered.<\/p>\n<p>Kaur said she asked friend Tarsem Singh to check on her husband and when another mutual friend did so at his request, Singh was found dead.<\/p>\n<p>Defence questions wife Kamaljeet Kaur<\/p>\n<p>In response to questions from defence lawyer Anne Stevens KC, Kaur said it was normal for profiles to be sent to a bureau to arrange a marriage.<\/p>\n<p>She said she had never met Rajinder and had refused other proposals the same year because she wanted to study and did not want to marry.<\/p>\n<p>She told Stevens that she was not aware of any difficulties between Rajinder&#8217;s family and her own because of her rejection and Singh had never mentioned any difficulties in his relationship with Rajinder.<\/p>\n<p>Kaur said her husband had accepted Rajinder&#8217;s job offer because it would improve his chance of becoming a New Zealand resident.<\/p>\n<p>She told Stevens it was possible that discussions could take place with matchmakers without family knowing.<\/p>\n<p>Asked whether the term proposal meant matchmaker negotiations, rather than an actual marriage proposal, Kaur said yes.<\/p>\n<p>Family tried to find Rajinder a wife for two years<\/p>\n<p>Rajinder&#8217;s sister Harmeet Kaur said Kamaljeet Kaur&#8217;s family sought a marriage to her brother twice and it was her family that had rejected the proposal.<\/p>\n<p>Her family had tried to find her brother a wife for about two years and were using a marriage bureau, she said.<\/p>\n<p>The first proposal had been rejected by her mother.<\/p>\n<p>The marriage broker forced them to reconsider Kamaljeet Kaur a second time, but Rajinder was not interested, Harmeet Kaur said.<\/p>\n<p>She and her father got him to look at her photos before making a decision and a video call was lined up so Kamaljeet Kaur&#8217;s father could speak with Rajinder.<\/p>\n<p>But she said the other woman&#8217;s family decided not to progress the match as the woman had recently got a good job and did not want to leave India.<\/p>\n<p>Rajinder also asked Harmeet Kaur to ask Singh if his sister would marry him, but Singh rejected the idea, saying she was too young and wanted to study abroad.<\/p>\n<p>She told the court a mutual friend of Singh had told her she was upset at Singh for telling her he was going to Australia when he went to India and got married instead.<\/p>\n<p>The friend told her Singh had been asking for her help to arrange a marriage with her cousin, Kaur said.<\/p>\n<p>When she told her brother about the marriage, &#8220;he was surprised&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Neighbours, residents called to stand<\/p>\n<p>Neighbours and nearby residents were also called to the stand on Tuesday.<\/p>\n<p>Hilary St resident Alan Richardson recalled hearing a lot of breaking glass about 10.50pm on the night before Singh was found dead, thinking it might have been someone hitting a recycling bin.<\/p>\n<p>He later recalled hearing what sounded like someone shovelling it up and what appeared to be a car driving away.<\/p>\n<p>Another resident Taylor Wyllie called police about a suspicious man who appeared to &#8220;intent&#8221; on Singh&#8217;s home a few days before the murder.<\/p>\n<p>He saw the man with a rough beard and wavy hair looking into the house before staring off into the distance when they noticed Wyllie watching.<\/p>\n<p>The trial is set down for three weeks.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/radionz.us6.list-manage.com\/subscribe?u=211a938dcf3e634ba2427dde9&amp;id=b3d362e693\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Sign up for Ng\u0101 Pitopito K\u014drero<\/a>, a daily newsletter curated by our editors and delivered straight to your inbox every weekday.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Photo: RNZ \/ Nate McKinnon The wife of a Dunedin man stabbed to death has revealed she rejected&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":140994,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[48,47,42,43,49,46,44,45,40,38,41,39],"class_list":["post-140993","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-headlines","tag-audio","tag-current-affairs","tag-headlines","tag-news","tag-podcasts","tag-public-radio","tag-radio-new-zealand","tag-rnz","tag-top-news","tag-top-stories","tag-topnews","tag-topstories"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/140993","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=140993"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/140993\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/140994"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=140993"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=140993"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=140993"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}