{"id":141680,"date":"2025-11-18T19:31:07","date_gmt":"2025-11-18T19:31:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/141680\/"},"modified":"2025-11-18T19:31:07","modified_gmt":"2025-11-18T19:31:07","slug":"man-arrested-after-allegedly-exposing-himself-to-kiwi-woman-in-sri-lanka","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/141680\/","title":{"rendered":"Man arrested after allegedly exposing himself to Kiwi woman in Sri Lanka"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A man who allegedly exposed himself to and propositioned a New Zealand woman travelling alone has been arrested in Sri Lanka after video of the encounter went viral, local police say. <\/p>\n<p>Molly was followed and harassed while driving a tuk tuk through the Thambiluvil area on the east of the island on October 25 \u2014 four or five days into her solo road trip.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He sped up to pass me, and as he passed me, he waved, and I waved back,&#8221; she told 1News.<\/p>\n<p>The man, who was riding on a scooter, repeatedly overtook her and slowed down, forcing her to pass him multiple times. When she pulled over for a break, he approached from behind.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He seemed friendly enough, so I didn&#8217;t question his intentions,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>But the conversation quickly became uncomfortable. Through broken English, she understood him asking where she was staying before mentioning sex.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I was like, &#8216;okay, no, absolutely not&#8217;, and I just got ready to drive away.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>At that point, he exposed himself to her.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I wish I had reacted more firmly, but I was just in shock. I could not believe he asked me that question, and after I said no, he still had the audacity to expose himself to me like that,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>Molly shared video of the incident online, which has since had millions of views, and contacted local police after being encouraged by Sri Lankans.<\/p>\n<p>Sri Lankan police said the video had been circulating widely on social media in recent days, drawing international criticism and damaging the country&#8217;s reputation.<\/p>\n<p>The Tourism Division, working with Thirukkovil and Pottuvil police, launched an investigation and issued a public appeal to identify the suspect, leading to the arrest of a 25-year-old man on Saturday.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;At the time of his arrest, the suspect had reportedly altered his appearance and changed his residence in an attempt to evade capture,&#8221; a statement read.<\/p>\n<p>After the incident, Molly met up with friends she had been travelling with and drove in convoy with them for the remainder of her month-long trip.<\/p>\n<p>However, she said the experience did not change her view of Sri Lanka.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;All of the other people were so kind and generous and welcoming, and I never had any other experience like that.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Sri Lanka is still a very safe place, and I would still recommend it to solo female travellers.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Molly, who was from Christchurch, said she wanted to share her story because sexual harassment was &#8220;a harsh reality for women&#8221; everywhere \u2014 not just while travelling.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Something like this can happen in your hometown. I&#8217;ve been sexually harassed in New Zealand as well.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She said the response online had included victim-blaming, with some suggesting it was her fault for travelling in a country like Sri Lanka.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s like, you watch that video, how can you think that I&#8217;m the problem?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Molly said it was sad that people were now questioning whether women should solo-travel.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You can&#8217;t just expect half the population not to be able to go on holiday by themselves if that&#8217;s what they want to do,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s not a problem about what women can do. It&#8217;s a problem that should be about what men are doing, not us.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Sri Lankan police said the man was expected to be charged and appear in court in the coming days.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A man who allegedly exposed himself to and propositioned a New Zealand woman travelling alone has been arrested&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":141681,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[2300,67,111,43,139,69],"class_list":{"0":"post-141680","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-new-zealand","8":"tag-asia","9":"tag-crime-and-justice","10":"tag-new-zealand","11":"tag-news","12":"tag-newzealand","13":"tag-nz"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141680","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=141680"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141680\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/141681"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=141680"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=141680"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=141680"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}