{"id":171504,"date":"2025-12-07T04:33:08","date_gmt":"2025-12-07T04:33:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/171504\/"},"modified":"2025-12-07T04:33:08","modified_gmt":"2025-12-07T04:33:08","slug":"the-shady-reason-dr-phils-first-marriage-ended-according-to-his-ex-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/171504\/","title":{"rendered":"The Shady Reason Dr. Phil&#8217;s First Marriage Ended, According To His Ex Wife"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>            &#13;<br \/>\n    &#13;<br \/>\n    &#13;<br \/>\n    &#13;<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n    &#13;<\/p>\n<p>                                             &#13;<br \/>\n                                                    &#13;<br \/>\n                            &#13;<br \/>\n                        <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"gallery-image \" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/intro-1764785530.jpg\" data-slide-url=\"https:\/\/www.thelist.com\/2042503\/why-dr-phils-first-marriage-failed-according-to-ex-wife\/\" data-post-id=\"2042503\" data-slide-num=\"0\" data-slide-title=\"The Shady Reason Dr. Phil's First Marriage Ended, According To His Ex Wife: \" width=\"780\" height=\"438\" alt=\"Dr. Phil on \" jesse=\"\" watters=\"\" primetime=\"\" in=\"\"\/>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>                    Roy Rochlin\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<p class=\"disclaimer\">We may receive a commission on purchases made from links.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">There are a slew of\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.thelist.com\/2013866\/dr-phil-first-wife-debbie-higgins-tragic-details\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">tragic details about Dr. Phil&#8217;s first wife, Debbie Higgins McCall<\/a>, including her seemingly contentious relationship with the TV therapist. It is well known that\u00a0Phil McGraw, a.k.a Dr. Phil, has been married to his wife, Robin, for decades\u00a0\u2014 and there have been many\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.thelist.com\/1692704\/strange-things-about-dr-phil-relationship-with-wife-robin\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">strange details about their relationship<\/a>\u00a0that have boiled to the surface over the years. But what&#8217;s even stranger than his current relationship is his previous one. The story of\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.thelist.com\/1468226\/inside-dr-phil-marriage-divorce-from-first-wife-debbie-higgins\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">McGraw&#8217;s marriage and divorce from McCall<\/a>\u00a0is riddled with hostility and adultery. And as McCall revealed to the Kansas City Star in 2002 (via\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.recordnet.com\/story\/lifestyle\/2002\/10\/17\/ex-wife-talks-about-her\/986194007\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">The Stockton Record<\/a>) and\u00a0in the 2005 biography\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/r.bttn.io?btn_ref=org-225e4e0aac880b8f&amp;btn_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Freader%2F0471696595%3Ftag%3Dstaticmedia-thelist-20&amp;btn_pub_ref=2042503-in_text-1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"sponsored nofollow noopener\">&#8220;The Making of Dr. Phil: The Straight-Talking True Story of Everyone&#8217;s Favorite Therapist,&#8221;<\/a>\u00a0the relationship fizzled out roughly three years after tying the knot.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">According to McCall, who seldom spoke to the press about her marriage to the relationship and family therapist before\u00a0she died in 2014, McGraw was a different man as a husband than he was as a boyfriend, and he even admitted to cheating on her. After neighbors confessed to her that they saw McGraw bring home another woman, McCall said she approached him about it, per the biography. \u201dWhen I confronted him about his infidelities, he didn&#8217;t deny these girls and told me that it had nothing to do with his feelings toward me, to grow up, that&#8217;s the way it was in the world,\u201d she\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/archive.org\/details\/makingofdrphilst0000demb\/page\/48\/mode\/2up?q=mccall\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">said<\/a>. While his philandering was seemingly the nail in the coffin, many other details of their relationship led to their ultimate split.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>                Dr. Phil&#8217;s messy love story with Debbie Higgins McCall<\/p>\n<p>                                             &#13;<br \/>\n                                                    &#13;<br \/>\n                            &#13;<br \/>\n                        <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"gallery-image \" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/dr-phils-messy-love-story-with-debbie-higgins-mccall-1764785533.jpg\" data-slide-url=\"https:\/\/www.thelist.com\/2042503\/why-dr-phils-first-marriage-failed-according-to-ex-wife\/\" data-post-id=\"2042503\" data-slide-num=\"1\" data-slide-title=\"The Shady Reason Dr. Phil's First Marriage Ended, According To His Ex Wife: Dr. Phil's messy love story with Debbie Higgins McCall\" width=\"780\" height=\"438\" alt=\"Phil McGraw, a.k.a Dr. Phil, at Sirius XM Studios in 2024\"\/>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>                    Jamie Mccarthy\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Phil McGraw and his ex-wife, Debbie Higgins McCall, perceived the end of their marriage differently. In a 2002 interview with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.newsweek.com\/paging-doctor-phil-144717\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Newsweek<\/a>, the &#8220;Dr. Phil&#8221; star considered their relationship to be a mutual mistake. &#8220;I was the big football player, and she was the cheerleader. This was just the next thing to do,&#8221; he said of their decision to marry, adding of their divorce, &#8220;We never had a cross word. We just sat down and said, &#8216;Why did we do this?'&#8221; However, according to those who watched their relationship crumble, it wasn&#8217;t quite as simple as he made it out to be.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Bill Higgins, McCall&#8217;s brother, gave insight into what their marriage looked like from an outsider&#8217;s perspective in &#8220;The Making of Dr. Phil.&#8221; He believed that McGraw&#8217;s adultery was enough incentive to divorce, <a href=\"https:\/\/archive.org\/details\/makingofdrphilst0000demb\/page\/48\/mode\/2up?q=higgins\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">saying<\/a>, &#8220;And then for him to be so blatant about it &#8230; that made her even madder, of course.&#8221; Others believed it wasn&#8217;t naivety \u2014 as McGraw described it \u2014 so much as they were simply ill-fit for each other.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">McCall had her own issues with their marriage. She told the Kansas City Star that McGraw was incredibly controlling, whether it be about her career or her appearance. According to his ex-wife, the talk show host wouldn&#8217;t let her work at the business he owned, and expected her to &#8220;look nice.&#8221; No wonder Dr. Phil has extensive knowledge about what not to do in a marriage.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n    &#13;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"&#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; Roy Rochlin\/Getty Images We may receive a commission&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":171505,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[29],"tags":[156,111,139,69,437],"class_list":{"0":"post-171504","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-tv","8":"tag-entertainment","9":"tag-new-zealand","10":"tag-newzealand","11":"tag-nz","12":"tag-tv"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/171504","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=171504"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/171504\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/171505"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=171504"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=171504"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=171504"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}