{"id":175062,"date":"2025-12-09T08:10:07","date_gmt":"2025-12-09T08:10:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/175062\/"},"modified":"2025-12-09T08:10:07","modified_gmt":"2025-12-09T08:10:07","slug":"i-was-concerned-about-that-dylans-mother-talks-to-pattiya-in-90-day-fiance-the-other-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/175062\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cI was concerned about that\u201d: Dylan\u2019s mother talks to Pattiya in 90 Day Fianc\u00e9: The Other Way"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Dylan<\/p>\n

Dylan and Pattiya (Image via TLC)<\/p>\n

90 Day Fianc\u00e9: The Other Way alum Pattiya sat\u00a0down for a few difficult conversations with Dylan\u2019s mother, Jo. Jo pointed out Pattiya’s issues with spending too much and how she has yet to pay off her debt. Moreover, the two women got into an argument about Dylan selling one of the properties as well.<\/p>\n

Things turned sour between Dylan and Pattiya as he asked her to worry about her debt and look into her spending problem. Jo assured\u00a0Pattiya that she never resented her. She\u00a0added:<\/p>\n

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\u201cI was concerned about that. I want both of you to be happy.\u201d<\/p>\n

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90 Day Fianc\u00e9: The Other Way alum Pattiya confronts Jo about her interference in Dylan’s life<\/p>\n

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Pattiya expressed her frustration with Dylan\u2019s mother\u2019s interference:<\/p>\n

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\u201cDylan does not have my back when it comes to boundaries and if he\u2019s not gonna fix it, I will. I really need her to back off.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Pattiya quickly confronted Dylan\u2019s mother. She told her,\u00a0<\/p>\n

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\u201cTo make me feel confortable here, I need to have some boundaries. Maybe don\u2019t call Dylan every day, three times a day. I feel like you are a needy mother Jo.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Dylan\u2019s mother was taken aback by the demands that Pattiya made and defended herself.\u00a0She said,\u00a0<\/p>\n

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\u201cOh, you are joking. Here\u2019s the deal. I am not needy in any relationships. I am quite strong and capable. I don\u2019t think Pattiya should tell me what my relationship with Dylan should be like. I think the problem lies within her. I don\u2019t think Dylan will be agreeable with it though.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Dylan was quick to respond:<\/p>\n

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“You like to manipulate and control me. You just try to destroy me.\u00a0 Obviously my relation ship with my mother will not change. I think Pattiya feels fearful that my mother will take me away. I don’t know what to say. What if she dies? she is pushing 70. Why don’t you worry about your debt? I saved you money. You got lots of issues.”<\/p>\n

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Pattiya and Dylan discuss each other\u2019s problems in the relationship<\/p>\n

Pattiya seemingly confronted Dylan about Jo calling him too many times, as she pointed it out by saying,\u00a0<\/p>\n

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“I feel like she is constantly invading our relationship. Babe, it\u2019s not normal, you\u2019re 38, pushing 40 and you talk to your mom that many times. Not every day calling. That’s too much.You should respect what I feel. Can you help like setting some boundaries and respecting my feeling.She plays tennis everyday. She is freakin healthy. You are very controlling. It’s always my way or the highway. Honestly, I\u00a0think Dylan is a narcissist.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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However, Dylan disagreed with Pattiya and said that it\u2019s very normal and has nothing wrong with it.\u00a0 Dylan had earlier opened up about Pattiya\u2019s spending problem:<\/p>\n

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\u201cPattiya\u2019s relationship with money is reckless, she would have these spending sprees in Vegas. She would go to these stores and buy clothes of every colour. If she has money, she’s going to spend it, all of it. Once we get married our finances are gonna be intertwined so it\u2019s a big issue.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Stay tuned for more updates.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Dylan and Pattiya (Image via TLC) 90 Day Fianc\u00e9: The Other Way alum Pattiya sat\u00a0down for a few…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":175063,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[29],"tags":[156,111,139,69,437],"class_list":{"0":"post-175062","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-tv","8":"tag-entertainment","9":"tag-new-zealand","10":"tag-newzealand","11":"tag-nz","12":"tag-tv"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175062","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=175062"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175062\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/175063"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=175062"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=175062"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=175062"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}