{"id":195340,"date":"2025-12-21T20:14:07","date_gmt":"2025-12-21T20:14:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/195340\/"},"modified":"2025-12-21T20:14:07","modified_gmt":"2025-12-21T20:14:07","slug":"napier-mans-bounce-back-from-life-on-the-streets-i-would-have-been-dead","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/195340\/","title":{"rendered":"Napier man\u2019s bounce-back from life on the streets: \u2018I would have been dead\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">On a bright, sunny afternoon, sitting outside, clearly garden and house proud, he sees things as starting to come together.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">He had always wanted to work, started at 15 shifting supermarket trolleys in Caboolture, Queensland. He\u2019d travel with \u201cthe show people\u201d, and ultimately would have many jobs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI wanted to be a boxer,\u201d he says, with a scent of wistful thinking of a man wondering what might have been. \u201cI reckon I could have been.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">But mishaps were part of life, unsurprisingly.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cThe only thing that scared me was my own stupidity: 10-feet tall and bulletproof,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">Unable to work for years because of injury received while riding a bike while working on a dairy farm, a big contributor to his demise, he would, in 2026, like to get back to work, especially if it is helping others.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">It was like an \u201cepiphany\u201d, he says, having suddenly realised that a lot of people were trying to help him, and then that at some stage he would like to be returning the favour to the community.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cBut,\u201d he says, \u201cI can\u2019t help anyone else if I can\u2019t help myself.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">The opportunity presented, like the light at the end of the tunnel, when, as one of eight of the most vulnerable men living rough in Napier, plucked from the streets as the first residents for the shelter, which was, itself, evolving at similar rapid pace.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">It was established by the Napier Ahuriri Homeless Shelter Society, which had been established only few months earlier, sparked most by the tragedies which had seen at least three deaths in short order in the fraternity.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">It would raise and source six-figure money, a site, staffing and case-study monitoring, aimed at trying to resolve issues of street homelessness, while the men would be helped into turning their lives around, without the move-on, make it someone else\u2019s problem approach.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">He had been using methamphetamine for possibly 20 years, but having lost his mum, \u201cfur baby\u201d, best friend and border collie cross, George, a few months apart, and pretty much everything else, the mind was still capable of helping himself.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI had George for about eight years,\u201d he says. \u201cHe showed me what unconditional love was.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">George was one well-fed pooch, but most of the money Turner would spend on himself was spent on drugs or alcohol.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cWhen I moved to \u0100huru M\u014dwai, it showed me I needed to get off the meth, or it was going to kill me,\u201d he said. \u201cIt was a coping mechanism, but I wasn\u2019t coping.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">Growing up as a young boy in Ahuriri, he hadn\u2019t had the happiest of childhoods, but it was carefree, and he recalled he and his brother would just \u201ctake off\u201d, an up-and-down lifestyle where pinching granddad\u2019s alcohol was an up-side, memories of a walloping and the wooden spoon on the down-side.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">There\u2019s a lot of \u201cshit\u201d in between, he says, but there was another moment of dawning, as his mum battled illness, leading to her eventual passing last year.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">After the Toyota in which he and George were living broke down in a carpark where they\u2019d spend the nights in Hamilton, the last vehicle he had, the \u201ccouncil\u201d came to see him, putting him in touch with The People Project, which helped him get to Whanganui and Palmerston North, where he could spend time with her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">When she was moved back to Hastings, the moteliers where he had been staying got their handyman to drive him to Hawke\u2019s Bay.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI have been helped a lot along the way,\u201d he says. \u201dIf it wasn\u2019t for the help along the way I\u2019d probably be dead by now.<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cOnce I started getting the fog clear, I started realising there were people who still loved me. They gave me the tools and a safe place to do better for myself.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"vUWuwjCGukMuO\" style=\"display:none\">Doug Laing is a Napier-based Hawke\u2019s Bay Today reporter with more than 50 years in journalism, mostly in the region, covering most aspects of news, including community and social issues.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"On a bright, sunny afternoon, sitting outside, clearly garden and house proud, he sees things as starting to&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":195341,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[15408,99505,7972,1558,120997,27126,690,120999,120998,6097,3401,71,22220,16773,34393,305,681,2883,95458,424,16122,3607,111,43,139,69,90,5412,223,24927,102,6730],"class_list":["post-195340","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-new-zealand","tag-almost","tag-anywhere","tag-beach","tag-been","tag-bounceback","tag-break","tag-dead","tag-derelicts","tag-dossing","tag-down","tag-drug","tag-from","tag-going","tag-great","tag-habit","tag-have","tag-homeless","tag-hope","tag-i","tag-life","tag-mans","tag-napier","tag-new-zealand","tag-news","tag-newzealand","tag-nz","tag-on","tag-streets","tag-the","tag-unable","tag-with","tag-would"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/195340","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=195340"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/195340\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/195341"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=195340"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=195340"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=195340"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}